Saturday, January 25, 2014

Indiegogo campaign

Costumer service at Indiegogo are really fast at fixing problems, the PayPal option to contribute to my campaign was not working. We contacted customer service and they fix the problem right away, so for those that like to contribute to my campaign via PayPal is now working.
Thank you to all my contributors for helping to make my dream a reality in such a big way. Together, we’ll release people from their emotional prisons. Thank you!!! We’re more than 20% towards our goal. Please check out my campaign page in the link below.
“Thanks for reaching out, and I apologize for the disruption.
It looks as though there was a mismatch between your PayPal account, and the "Status from PayPal." I have reentered your PayPal information for you, and you're all set!
Best of luck on your campaign, and feel free to contact me if you have any further questions!
Cheers,
Johnny
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http://www.indiegogo.com/projects/a-dance-to-freedom/x/5967662

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

My Book

Hi everyone,
The book I've been working for over four years is becoming a reality. The manuscript is done and I've started an Indiegogo campaign to raise money for the publishing. Please check it out and order the book if you can, and also help me spread the word. I don't want anyone to stay in an emotional prison when it's so wonderful to be free!
Thank you very much for your support,
Sylvie Shene

Monday, January 6, 2014

Putting our feelings in the right context

“You told me to feel the feelings in the context of childhood, but I am not sure to understand very well what this mean. How precisely to do it.”

Hi A,
How to feel and put all of our feelings in the right context was the hardest thing for me to do and that’s where most people get stuck.  Until our feelings are understood and consciously felt in the right context, they don’t get resolved and they either are repressed again to be endless triggered again and again in the future or we use others or ourselves as scapegoats to temporally relieve our repression keeping us endless in constant need of scapegoats or poisonous containers to relieve our repression.  It’s the intensity of the feelings triggered by present circumstances that let us know in what context they belong. The feelings of the child are always very intense and when triggered can cause panic attacks. When we are feeling these intense feelings the adult in you has to assure the scared little girl still living within you that still is terrified of her father, that now there is a strong adult women within you to stand up and protect her and your father no longer can hit you and punish you.
When I lost my house, boyfriend , came to the end of my dancing carrier in 2000 and the  fear of not being able to find another job to keep my independence,  it triggered intense fears in me that I had a few panic attacks paralyzing me that I could not take care of myself properly and I lived on credit cards for a while, but the moment I was able to understand the roots of those intense fears and I consciously felt them within the context of my childhood, those fears started to subside and  with no longer  having the repressed feelings of the child I once was blinding me,  I was able see clear to take the right actions to deal with present circumstances no matter how difficult.  Even though I lost the house, boyfriend and job eventually I found a new job and I started fresh and today I feel better than I ever felt in my life.

Wish you courage and strength to be and consciously feel the intense fears and anger of the child you once were and liberate the scared little girl still living within you.

Sylvie
www.sylvieshene.com

 

 

Friday, January 3, 2014

Can society learn to understand the child's language?

"I hope so. Otherwise we will commit a mass suicide with the help of technology. The child's language is often very clear, but we refuse to listen to it. Children can endure terrible abuse and cruelty from the first moment of their lives, thanks to the technology in hospitals. The abuse is stored up in the mind, and it can remain active the whole life. Therefore, a mother maltreating her small baby can repeat exactly what happened to her without having any knowledge, any conscious memories. But the stored-up memories in her body will compel her to repeat the same trauma.
Unless a child receives the warm arms of a person who will console him and tell him with his arms that the shock of birth is over, this child will wait his whole life expecting a repetition of this shock. One of the first lessons is that you are alone, in a dangerous place, and nobody sees your pain. But this situation can easily be changed when we acknowledge the newborn as a feeling and highly sensitive person. Very often the child comes into life after a struggle, and we don't realize that he needs consolation and the arms of a mother. We give him medication, hospitals, and high technology instead. And we think it is good for the child -- only because we had the same experience years ago and think it is usual. What really happens in the psyche of a newborn is absolutely not interesting to most people. That is why I am giving you this interview."
Read more here: http://www.alice-miller.com/interviews_en.php?page=6