You know the old cliché love heals, well it is true, but the love must come from within, doesn’t matter how much love we get from the external world, if we don’t love ourselves, the love we get from the external world will have no effect on us. The only love that matters is the love we have for ourselves.
No one out there can learn to love you better than you can. Love grows from within and never comes from the external world. We find love when we are love. If we ever meet another person with authentic love also and we choose to stay together then will be two people in love together! But good luck finding another person with authentic love. What I find most is people acting as if personalities giving the illusion of love. Most People’s Love is Nothing But a Farce, a Sham, and a Façade
“We cannot really love if we are forbidden to know our truth, the truth about our parents and caregivers as well as about ourselves. We can only try to behave as if we were loving, but this hypocritical behavior is the opposite of love. It is confusing and deceptive, and it produces much helpless rage in the deceived person. This rage must be repressed in the presence of the pretended “love,” especially if one is dependent, as a child is, on the person who is masquerading in this illusion of love.” Alice Miller (The Drama of the Gifted Child: The search for the True Self) Page 23
Falling in love is more dangerous than most people are willing to admit. If we knew falling in love meant going into all the dark chambers of the soul, none of us would risk it. Becoming a real lover in life involves opening up our whole being.
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Me on the stage!
In my kitchen getting ready for work at the first house I bought in Scottsdale.
The song Flowers by Miley Cyrus expresses beautifully where I have been for many years after Marty left in the year 2000. If I was still Dancing today I would be dancing on the stage to Miley Cyrus' song Flowers!
This is me outside my house in 1990 when Dancing was clean fun and good money sitting on the bike that I bought for Marty!
And here is Marty! Even better looking than Leonardo DiCaprio. When I met him his hair was a little longer and he looked even better!
He was 11 years younger than me. No one can ever accuse me of going out with older men for their money! But I went out with a younger guy and bought him expensive gifts! My audience was young affluent ASU students. Going out with Marty I had the college experience without ever going to college! I had no need to go to college! Formal education alone without resolving childhood repression is just another big illusion in our world full of illusions! Dangerously repressed people with college degrees are very dangerous people destroying lives everywhere behind closed doors in board rooms...
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