In my view women are by no means less aggressive than men.
Of course, they are victimized and disadvantaged by men avenging themselves for
the beating they received from their mothers. But women avenge themselves for
such victimization and physical cruelty by taking it out on their little
children, thus breeding new generations of avengers who consciously love and
honor their parents.
I see no real difference between the cruelty of women and
that of men, because both sexes have learned such sadism at the hands of their
parents and caregivers at the time when their brains were still in the process
of formation. As children, they were subjected to cruelty and even perversion,
but they not allowed to defend themselves. So later take out their repressed anger
on other defenseless people, frequently in the same way their parents treated them
when they were small. Women frequently vent this acquired sadism on their
children. While men also give free rein to it by victimizing employees at work
or lower military ranks, or else participating in orgies of violence like
genocide or terrorist attacks. The causes invariable lie in the repressed and
totally denied suffering of their childhood (though most of them will insist
that they had wonderful parents). People who were not humiliated, tormented, or
beaten in their early years are incapable of sadism.
Women can live out all kinds of covert perversion on their
children and torment them impunity as long as they call this behavior “good
parenting.” Society idealizes mothers because people have never consciously
realized that their own mothers treated them cruelly when they were small.
Accordingly, women normally enjoy total immunity.
I see no sex-specific differences in the suicide bombers. I
understand terrorism as an attempt to compensate for the humiliations these
people were subjected to , but have never consciously perceived as such, by
means of a “magnificent deed” (such as sacrificing their own lives for the sake
of a group).
Though it is not difficult to understand this dynamic, there
are not many people who would allow themselves to give up their denial and look
the truth in the face. The fear felt by the tormented children they once were
can prevent this all their lives.
From the book “Free from Lies: Discovering your true needs” By Alice Miller
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