Tuesday, April 30, 2019

Troubled family history of slain Crystal Lake boy AJ Freund reveals missed warning signs, failed chances to intervene

Of course, they missed the warning signs! They need a dead body.  Well, they got the dead body they needed to prove a child was living in terror.

Does anyone need more proof that nobody cares about the plight of others especially of little children? People only care when affects them directly. Just like I said to my ex-boss, the bank robber! After making a complaint of emotional harassment in the workplace: I am the victim here and haven’t been able to sleep well because of the emotional harassment I have been through on the job. And yesterday when I was being interviewed by the ladies at HR, I felt like they were accusing me of wrongdoing and the problems were caused by my actions, which could not be further from the truth, but this is what the sociopaths do, they twist everything around to make them look good by destroying their target so they can steal their job or money or whatever their target have that they want for themselves. What of proof they want?! A dead body?

Days before Christmas, a McHenry County doctor asked 5-year-old Andrew “AJ” Freund how he got a large bruise on his right hip.

The boy and his mother had suggested the family dog, a 60-pound boxer named Lucy, caused the injury when the pooch jumped on him. The doctor, suspicious of the explanation but unable to pinpoint a cause after examining the child, took AJ aside and asked him what had happened.
“Maybe someone hit me with a belt,” the child said, according to newly released records. “Maybe Mommy didn’t mean to hurt me.”

Despite the boy’s alarming words, state child welfare officials investigating the Dec. 18, 2018, hotline complaint from police about the bruise determined there wasn’t credible evidence to support taking AJ into protective custody. Nine months earlier, a similar hotline complaint about the boy’s bruising also was deemed unfounded.

The Illinois Department of Children and Family Services, which on Friday revealed new details about the case, has limited legal authority to remove a child from a parent’s custody and does so only if it finds an “imminent and immediate” risk of harm.

The Illinois Department of Children and Family Services, which on Friday revealed new details about the case, has limited legal authority to remove a child from a parent’s custody and does so only if it finds an “imminent and immediate” risk of harm.

Friday, April 26, 2019

The Media Only Pays Attention to Extreme Cases of Child Abuse

I kind of have given up on humanity and was not going to comment on the extremely tragic case of child abuse that happened recently in Chicago. Until society as a whole finds the courage to face the root causes of child abuse -- we will never be able to stop child abuse. But MP sent me the private message below and forced me to comment on it.

MP: The most disgusting story of the year I would have taken this kid in! These people should rot in hell Horrific ignorant people and she is pregnant with a third child. 
The Father had the nerve to get in front of a news camera last week  "Aj come home we love you you won't get in trouble" Knowing he just buried him in a shallow grave SICK SICK SICK DRUG ADDICTS The house was decrepit dog feces urine all over trash and filth And The DCFS of Illinois left these kids in this house a younger brother who is still alive thank God! Just disgusting

Sylvie: I saw the story. It makes my blood boil. Because DCFS constantly fails to protect children Everywhere. And the reason is that people working in social services are abusers too, maybe not to this extreme, because with their college degrees, they have become too sophisticated and just stick to mild physical abuse that doesn't leave marks or evidence in the body and resort mostly to emotional abuse and lies.

"Physical violence can be testified to be outside evidence: eyewitness, police and medical reports. With emotional abuse, there is no proof. It's a clean violence. Nobody sees anything." Marie France Hirigoyen  

"Children who are told the truth and are not brought up to tolerate lies and cruelty can develop as freely as a plant whose roots have not been attacked by pests (in our case, lies)" Alice  Miller http://sylvieshene.com/espanol-decir-la-verdad-a-sus-hijos/    

The media only pays attention when escalates to extreme cases of child abuse, but ignore the plight of almost every child in our society that is subjected to ordinary abuse every day under the disguise of  “upbringing” and “discipline”.

For the media to recognize this ordinary abuse, they would have to face their own childhood repression and question their own parents. And that’s the last thing they want to do. 

The repressed fears of the child they once were at their parents can stay with a person for the rest of their lives. This is why it’s so hard to demolish the media’s wall of silence. Just as Alice Miller wrote on her website:

 "Humiliations, spankings, and beatings, slaps in the face, betrayal, sexual exploitation, derision, neglect, etc. are all forms of mistreatment, because they injure the integrity and dignity of a child, even if their consequences are not visible right away. However, as adults, most abused children will suffer, and let others suffer, from these injuries. This dynamic of violence can deform some victims into hangmen who take revenge even on whole nations and become willing executors to dictators as unutterably appalling as Hitler and other cruel leaders. Beaten children very early on assimilating the violence they endured, which they may glorify and apply later as parents, in believing that they deserved the punishment and were beaten out of love. They don't know that the only reason for the punishments they have ( or in retrospect, had) to endure is the fact that their parents themselves endured and learned violence without being able to question it. Later, the adults, once abused children, beat their own children and often feel grateful to their parents who mistreated them when they were small and defenseless.

This is why society's ignorance remains so immovable and parents continue to produce severe pain and destructive - in all "goodwill", in every generation. Most people tolerate this blindly because the origins of human violence in childhood have been and are still being ignored worldwide. Almost all small children are smacked during the first three years of life when they begin to walk and to touch objects which may not be touched. This happens at exactly the time when the human brain builds up its structure and should thus learn kindness, truthfulness, and love but never, never cruelty and lies. Fortunately, there are many mistreated children who find "helping witnesses" and can feel loved by them."

I'm not surprised she is pregnant again! Psychopaths need an endless supply of scapegoats to temporary alleviate repressed emotions.

The easiest way to have an endless supply of scapegoats at your disposal is to give birth to them!
”Poisonous Pedagogy. The pedagogical conviction that one must bring a child into line from the outset has its origin in the need to split off the disquieting parts of the inner self and project them onto an available object. The child’s great plasticity flexibility, defenselessness, and availability made it the ideal object for this projection. The enemy within can, at last, be hunted down on the outside. Peace advocates are becoming increasingly aware of the role played by these mechanisms, but until it is clearly recognized that they can be traced back to methods of child raising, little can be done to oppose them. For children who have grown up being assailed for qualities, the parents hate in themselves can hardly wait to assign these qualities to someone else so they can once again regard themselves as good, “moral,” noble, and altruistic. Such projections can easily become part of any Weltanschauung.”

...Statistical studies are hardly the thing to make disinterested jurists into empathic and perceptive human beings. And yet every crime, by virtue of being an enactment of childhood drama, cries out for understanding. The newspapers carry these stories every day, but unfortunately, usually, report only the last act. Can knowledge of the underlying causes of a crime being about a change in the way justice is administered? Not as long as the primary concerns are to assign guilt and impose punishment. But someday it may be possible to gain an understanding for the fact that emerges so clearly in the case Jurgen Bartsch: the accused never bears all the guilt by himself but is a victim of a tragic chain of circumstances. Even so, a prison sentence is unavoidable if society is to be protected. But there is a difference between prison being used to punish a dangerous criminal according to the principles of “poisonous pedagogy”
and human tragedy being perceived, therapy during confinement.” Alice Miller “For Your Own Good” page 199 and 200

..I have no doubt that behind every crime a personal tragedy lies hidden. If we were to investigate such events and their backgrounds more closely, we might be able to do more to prevent crimes than we do now with our indignation and moralizing. Perhaps someone will say: But not everyone who was a battered child becomes a murderer; otherwise, many more people would be murderers. That is true. However, humankind is in dire enough straits these days that this should not remain an academic question. Moreover, we never know how a child will and must react to the injustice he or she has suffered-there are innumerable "techniques" for dealing with it. We don't yet know, above all, what the world might be like if children were to grow up without being subjected to humiliation, if parents would respect them and take them seriously as persons. In any case, I don't know of a single person who enjoyed this respect* as a child and then as an adult had the need to put other human beings to death. * By respect for a child, I don't mean a "permissive" upbringing, which is often a form of indoctrination itself and thus shows a disregard for the child's own world.  We are still barely conscious of how harmful it is to treat children in a degrading manner. Treating them with respect and recognizing the consequences of their being humiliated are by no means intellectual matters; otherwise, their importance would long since have been generally recognized. To empathize with what a child is feeling when he or she is defenseless, hurt, or humiliated is like suddenly seeing in a mirror the suffering of one's own childhood, something many people must ward off out of fear while others can accept it with mourning.

People who have mourned in this way understand more about the dynamics of the psyche than they could ever have learned from books. The persecution of people of Jewish background, the necessity of proving "racial purity" as far back as one's grandparents, the tailoring of prohibitions to the degree of an individual's demonstrable "racial purity"--all this is grotesque only at first glance. For its significance becomes plain once we realize that in terms of Hitler's unconscious fantasies it is an intensified expression of two very powerful tendencies. On the one hand, his father was the hated Jew whom he could despise and persecute, frighten and threaten with regulations, because his father would also have been affected by the racial laws if he had still been alive. 

At the same time--and this is the other tendency--the racial laws were meant to mark Adolf's final break with his father and his background. In addition to revenge, the tormenting uncertainty about the Hitler family was an important motive for the racial laws: the whole nation had to trace its "purity" back to the third generation because Adolf Hitler would have liked to know with certainty who his grandfather was.

Above all, the Jew became the bearer of all the evil and despicable traits the child had ever observed in his father. In Hitler's view, the Jews were characterized by a specific mixture of Lucifer-like grandeur and superiority (world Jewry and its readiness to destroy the entire world) on the one hand and ugliness and ludicrous weakness and infirmity on the other. This view reflects the omnipotence even the weakest father exercises over his child, seen in Hitler's case in the wild rages of the insecure customs official who succeeded in destroying his son's world. It is common in analysis for the first breakthrough in criticizing the father to be signaled by the surfacing of some insignificant and ludicrous trait of his that the patient's memory has repressed. For example, the father--big out of all proportion in the child's eyes--may have looked very funny in his short nightshirt.

The child had never been close to his father, had been in constant fear of him, but with this memory of the skimpy nightshirt, the child's imagination provides a weapon, now that ambivalence has broken through in the analysis, which enables him to take revenge on a small scale against the godlike, monumental paternal figure. In a similar fashion, Hitler disseminates his hatred and disgust for the "stinking" Jew in the pages of the Nazi periodical Der Stürmer in order to incite people to burn books by Freud, Einstein, and innumerable other Jewish intellectuals of great stature. The breakthrough of this idea, which made it possible for him to transfer his pent-up hatred of his father to the Jews as a people, is very instructive." For Your Own Good, page 196 and 197

“…society we live in continue to turn a blind eye to the facts of child abuse in all its forms. Among thousands of professors at hundreds of universities, there is not one single university chair for teaching about child abuse and cruelty to children. Why? Because that cruelty successfully masquerades as parenting and education” Alice Miller, taken from the book “The Truth Will Set you free” page, 101

"I think that violent teenagers are demonstrating what happened to them emotionally when they were small. I have no doubt about that. It might not always be a harsh discipline but in most cases, there is emotional neglect, lack of authentic communication, of warm, friendly contact. If this lack is also covered by what is called "spoiling" (buying a lot of expensive objects to replace love), the child is often unable to detect the neglect and stays bound to denial. Anyway, every child must deny the pain in order to survive. Only in adulthood is it possible to realize the truth. But the more the childhood history is repressed, the more its cruelty denied, the less these young people are able to feel, to confront the actual reasons of their distress, the stronger they feel urged to act destructively. They have not always conscious memories of what happened in their childhood, especially in infancy, but this knowledge is stored up in their body's cells and, amazingly enough, they threaten others exactly the same way as they were threatened in the beginning of their life. Unfortunately, the common, ever-present avoidance of the issue "childhood" doesn't make things easier. I discuss this problem in my book Paths of Life, 1999, and The Truth Will Set You Free, 2002.

Thursday, April 18, 2019

Dr. Johnnie Barto, a sexual predator pediatrician, gets up to 158 years in prison

Dr. Johnnie Barto, a sexual predator pediatrician, gets up to158 years in prison

“He held himself out as a pillar in his community — a family pediatrician, an elected member of the school board, a regular attendee at church,” the state attorney general said. Read more HERE

Just like the prestigious Dr. Julio Machado Vaz in Portugal. I wonder if he will ever be also held accountable for his sexual crimes?

I have been trying to tell my story of sexual abuse since the year 2000, way long before the ‘me too movement” and I’m still waiting to be heard. 

Just like Dr. Barto had many enablers -- Dr. Julio Machado Vaz has a whole country enabling him. “Erika Brosig, who said she was 12 when Barto molested her in 1994, said the doctor had enablers who also need to be called to account.”  Yes, I agree enablers need to be called to account also.

I know without a doubt I’m not the only woman the prestigious Dr. Julio Machado Vaz in Portugal sexually abused and have to be many, many more women in Portugal that have been also sexually abused and brainwashed by him, just like I was. I wonder if any ever find the courage to come forward and tell their stories too?! 

“If we hate hypocrisy, insincerity, and mendacity, then we grant ourselves the right to fight them wherever we can or to withdraw from people who only trust in lies. But if we pretend that we are impervious to these things, then we are betraying ourselves.” Alice Miller
Free from Lies: Discovering Your True Needs page 55

Also, read Open letter to the Prestigious Dr. Julio Machado Vaz

Abuse on the couch Silenced transgression

Will more Women in Portugal Find the Courage to Report Dr. Julio Machado Vaz Sexual Abuse?

A Facebook friend sent me the article in the link below of the prestigious Dr. Julio Machado Vaz in Portugal. So I posted this comment on his article: I wonder if Dr. Julio Machado Vaz deep down knows he is a fraud also like Dr. Johnnie Barto was here in America. 

I wonder how long my comment will last there without being deleted!
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Ester Santos So is this the Portuguese pedophile doctor everyone respects? What a sick cunt !! Messing up with the country 's populations. The cunt must be reported and have his license removed from him!

Sylvie Imelda Shene Dr. Julio Machado Vaz has many enablers protecting him. 

Most people are repressed at very dangerous levels. I have come to the conclusion humanity is very dangerous and we have to be constantly on the lookout. If you trigger people’s repressed emotion
s, they will lash at you viciously and try to make you their scapegoat. 

Most people are unconsciously and compulsively looking for scapegoats to temporally and superficially alleviate pent up repressed emotions. 

People in the mental health field are the most deceiving and dangerous with their sharp intellect and memorized intellectual knowledge -- they say all the right things -- to manipulate public perception -- and make you believe are safe -- but are wolves in sheep's clothing -- they have mastered the art of manipulation to perfection.

These words Alice Miller wrote to me come truer everyday: AM: I have learned over the years of my work on the internet that there are readers who SEEM to understand SOME of what I have written, at least intellectually, but they are still so afraid of their very cruel parents and of their repressed FEELINGS of rage towards them that they are constantly looking for scapegoats.

They thus live in a continual confusion pretending that they are healed and even offering help and empathy to others. But eventually they use unconsciously other people (even the ones who are quite friendly to them) as a poisonous container like their parents did to them, and if the offended people begin to defend themselves they can become very mean.

I can only urge you to trust your feelings and do NOT offer your empathy and interest to everybody just because they say they read and understood everything I have written. In most of the cases, it is a lie. To understand my books means to overcome the fear of one’s parents, to honestly feel the justified rage TOWARD THEM and to no longer use others to getting free from the accumulated rage. 

Thursday, April 11, 2019

Communities are Micros of the World

From: Sylvie Shene <@.com>
Date: Sat, Mar 23, 2019 at 10:59 AM
Subject: Fwd: Re: IMPORTANT - Sxxxxxxxr Homeowner Communication
To: P S <ps@com>
Hi P,

How are you?

I hope all is well with you and your family.

I'm wondering if you also got the e-mail below from Sxxxxxxxr?!
Communities are micros of the world and I guess Sxxxxxxxr also got together a special counsel!

This week I found out all Sxxxxxxxr board members that joined the property manager PP on the plot against me are resigning!!!

It took a long time, but finally, all are coming down! To assholes image is everything, but by coming after me, they exposed themselves.

In the long run, I'm the winner! I'm still standing, free and happy, on the way to recover financially and their image has been destroyed and I'm sure more miserable than ever, their money and power didn't protect them... the little woman at the gatehouse that to them was a nobody exposed their true colors.

I'm sure they regret messing with me. I was a force to reckon with, but they were too emotionally blind to see it... now they're all suffering and I'm sure taking antidepressants to help them deal with their inner hell that they tried so hard to transfer into me...

I don't know if you know but the guy they recruited at Securitas - the security company - to do their dirty work -- he killed himself in a police standoff after robbing a bank.

I was their target, but when was one of them to self-destruct -- all became silent and now is a big cover-up that involves the Sociopaths at Sxxxxxxxr,, the FBI, the US Marshals, and the Media

If it was me, the little woman to commit a crime my name and face would have been splashed all over the news stations! And then all probably go on TV talking about how disturbed the little woman was -- to discredit me and my book -- and make a name for themselves by standing on my head. And all probably say that you need God in your life, my ex-boss was a Mormon, a man of God, but he was the one to lose his mind, but now is a big cover-up. I could see their dirty games and traps so clearly.

Forever grateful to you and your husband.


P. S If you like you can read more about my ex-boss the bank robber in the link below.   
-------- Original message --------
From: M P <stm@l.com>
Date: 2/6/19 1:33 PM (GMT-07:00)
To: sylvieshene@.com
Subject: Re: IMPORTANT - Sxxxxxxxr Homeowner Communication

Most boards operate with inefficiencies, galore!
and most people serving boards are incompetent and useless!!!
I am going to be glad to be HOA free soon!!!
-----Original Message-----

From: Sylvie Shene <sylvieshene@.com>
To: M P <sm@.com>
Sent: Wed, Feb 6, 2019 2:16 pm
Subject: Fwd: IMPORTANT - Sxxxxxxxr Homeowner Communication

My friend that used to live in Sxxxxxxxr shared with me the e-mail below he got from Sxxxxxxxr!

What they did to me will hunt them for the rest of their lives! :-)
Looks like Sxxxxxxxr got a special counsel! :-) Communities are micros of the world! What happened in Sxxxxxxxr is exactly what is happening in the white house! I'm sure the more they dig the more wrongdoing they will find! Glad some in Sxxxxxxxr are opening a little bit their eyes! I'm sure I'm the catalyst of some in Sxxxxxxxr starting to wake up! 
I hope they get rid of Securitas soon and bring in Safeguard.

---------- Forwarded message ---------
From: Sylvie Shene <sylvieshene@.com>
Date: Wed, Feb 6, 2019 at 11:07 AM
Subject: Re: IMPORTANT - Sxxxxxxxr Homeowner Communication
To: T K <@k-.com>

Thank you! :-)
I'm glad you are stirring the pot a little bit in Sxxxxxxxr. I hope you get some money back from them!

On Wed, Feb 6, 2019 at 10:23 AM TK <tfk@-.com> wrote:

Sent from my iPhone
Begin forwarded message:

Dear Ms. B:   
You sent me an email asking for examples of what I referred to as the “board’s heavy handedness“. You suggested that you are unaware of any heavy handedness by the board. I’ll be happy to give you some examples.
The most outrageous example would be the action the board took against Sylvie Shene the former security  usergeant.  Sylvie published a book which was autobiographical. Despite the fact that she was an exceptional employee she was summarily dismissed because members of the board did not like some disclosures about her past. When I and other homeowners asked questions about the dismissal we were refused information by the board.  The board president, a retired doctor, refused to provide any information on the dismissal. It was obvious to me and other homeowners that’s Sylvie’s book caused the boards reaction.  Sylvie was wildly popular and one of the best security guards ever. At the very least her dismissal should have been put to the entire association. This is a classic example of the heavy-handed tactics that the board uses. 
You asked if I had ever attended any board meetings. In fact, my wife and I attended an annual meeting and attempted to raise the issue of the use of toxic pesticides for landscaping purposes. Once again the board refused to even consider the issue that we raised.Another example of the heavy handed tactics of the board. I should further indicated that the use of these pesticides is extremely dangerous and that there are safer ways to approach the landscaping issues. We were dismissed out of hand.
Finally, I would call your attention to the boards recent representation suggesting that the attorneys opinion was privileged. Nothing could be further from the truth. I’m an attorney so I have an excellent understanding of privileged communications. The board is elected by the association to act on the associations behalf. If the board contract with an attorney it does so on behalf of the association which means the association, not the board, is the client. Under the circumstances the client (any member of the Association) has the absolute right to see that opinion. Just say otherwise is wrong. I’m confident that the board used association funds to pay for that opinion if it exists. Given those circumstances any member of the Association is entitled to see that opinion. For the board to suggest otherwise is heavy handedness at its worst. 
I hope this helps you understand my previous statement. I would be interested in hearing your response and I would ask that you send it to all association members.
Sent from my iPhone
 Read my blog Experienced Knowledge about my experience with emotional harassment in the workplace.

"Narcissists/Sociopaths/Psychopaths, comorbid Cluster B types of personality disordered people can control their temper, adjust by methodical precision the ability to moderate their behaviour just fine!!!. They lie intentionally, without conscience, without remorse to cause harm and self promote.!! Society globally must be educated to understand they are not mentally ill. They have a cunning and often undetected personality disorder that is usually a Narcissistic AntiSocial Personality Disorder -- a set of toxic character traits that helps them succeed at crushing others to destroy not just their own biological families, but also the families of their future relationship victims!!... Narcissists repeat these same patterns and cycles of relationship abuse with every individual they set up to con, fraud, harm, use, and abuse... THEY know from Day One how to behave, they think with pathological intelligence and premeditate, plot and plan cunningly the destruction of their victims to achieve the narcissistic outcome they want! Usually, it's money, but often it is their power grandiosity that gives them a sense of power and gratification at being able to destroy the lives of others. Never satisfied, the narcissistic psychopath will continue till his/her last breath to be a pathological predator!!!"
So true! This is why the narcissists at my last job target me after my book was published, because they felt exposed by the fundamental truths in my book and they came after the messenger “me” with a vengeance!
Yes, I'm real naked and proud! And this is why the assholes, sociopaths, malignant narcissists or whatever you like to call them hate me. Because my smile is real and theirs is fake.

Malignant narcissism is an epidemic, these evil people are among us everywhere, acting as if personality pretending to be good people. They live in a world of lies and illusions and if they discover you are a carrier of the truth, they will gather all the forces at their command to destroy you.