Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Cult leaders are so annoying

I want to scream when people come to my blog defending and saying that their cult leader is the next level of Alice Miller. No, your cult leader hijacked and memorized like parrots the knowledge Alice Miller acquired through many years of research and hard work and she personally genuinely experienced in her life and shared it in her books with the rest of the world. Your cult leader with this memorized knowledge that they have not experienced themselves, they twist it around to manipulate their emotionally blind followers and lie to them that they are Alice Miller next level and create a smoke screen by saying Alice Miller was abusive, because she stood up to their deceiving tactics and in this way manipulate people not to read her books themselves and join their cults instead. These people are very sick and don’t realize that they are unconsciously and compulsively reenacting theirs and their followers' childhood drama keeping everyone endless stuck in their childhood emotional prison, the cult leaders playing the role of the father/mother figure and the followers playing the role of the child. It’s so sad.   

It’s so annoying is when the followers of cult leaders anonymously make comments defending their cult leader like a little child would defend their parents, cowards, at least they could show their true identity -- calling people abusive for standing up to their cult leaders’ lies.

These words Alice Miller wrote to me come truer every day: “I have learned over the years of my work on the internet that there are readers who SEEM to understand SOME of what I have written, at least intellectually, but they are still so afraid of their very cruel parents and of their repressed FEELINGS of rage towards them that they are constantly looking for scapegoats. They thus live in a continual confusion pretending that they are healed and even offering help and empathy to others. But eventually they use unconsciously other people (even the ones who are quite friendly to them) as a poisonous container like their parents did to them, and if the offended people begin to defend themselves they can become very mean. I can only urge you to trust your feelings and to NOT offer your empathy and interest to everybody just because they say they read and understood everything I have written. In most of the cases, it is a lie. To understand my books means to overcome the fear of one’s parents, to honestly feel the justified rage TOWARD THEM and to no longer use others to getting free from the accumulated rage.”

Also, read the article “Gurus and Cults Leaders How They Function” 

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