Wednesday, December 22, 2021

The Psychology Behind the $500,000 Handbag

This is a very interesting article! So happy I'm free from being "traumatic bonding" that's exactly how it was with my family of origin and then reenacted with my ex for a long 10 years! 

"This emotional rollercoaster of reward and punishment is called “traumatic bonding.” In traumatic bonding, the victim bonds to the abuser because of poor treatment, not despite it. This bond enables the abuser to exert control and influence others. Dutton and Painter (1981) indicated that this only occurs in the context of a key environmental factor—an imbalance of power. If a highly narcissistic abuser lacks the upper hand, intermittent reinforcement loses its grip.

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