Real is Naked and Proud

Malignant narcissism is an epidemic, these evil people are among us everywhere, acting as if personality pretending to be good people but are wolves in sheep's clothing. They live in a world of lies and illusions and if they discover you are a carrier of the truth based on facts that can expose them for the fraud that they are, you become a threat and their enemy number one that they must destroy. They will gather all the forces at their command to discredit you.

A narcissist will always have someone they accuse of ruining their life. It is invariably the same person the narcissist is trying to destroy.

Unawakened Person: I'm better than you.

Awakened Person: Okay.

Unawakened Person: No, really. I am richer, better looking, drive a better car, have a better job and live in a bigger house.

Awakened Person: (With no sarcasm) How wonderful that you have a nice house, job, and car. You are blessed.

Unawakened Person: Wait! No envy? Aren't you jealous?

Awakened person: No, I feel joy for your good fortune and wish you more of it.

Unawakened Person: How are you able to be happy for me when I have more than you and am bragging about it?

Awakened Person: You see my friend each of us values certain things. The things you have mentioned, the possessions and privileges are not important to me. Love is important to me. Compassion is important to me. Kindness is important to me. When one lives this way then there can be no envy of another's material success.

I no longer look for the good in people, I search for the real... because while good is often dressed in fake clothing, real is naked and proud, no matter the scars.

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2019/04/communities-are-micros-of-world.html?m=1

Refusing to apologize is a weakness, not a strength.

I'm sorry if.. isn't an apology, that's blame.

I'm sorry for... is an apology, that's taking responsibility.

Mature people have the strength to take responsibility. Toxic immature narcissists don't.