Tuesday, August 12, 2025

The Dirty Door in Trump’s Mind

Donald Trump says his father taught him that if you walk into a restaurant and see a dirty front door, you shouldn’t go in — because the kitchen is probably dirty too. He now applies that same logic to Washington, D.C., pointing to the presence of homeless people as evidence the city is “dirty” and disrespectful to the nation. Elon Musk reposted the video, saying, “Well said!”

But homelessness is not “dirt.” It is not a stain to scrub away. It is the visible scar of deep wounds — childhood trauma, unresolved childhood repression, poverty, addiction, and systemic neglect. Removing homeless people from sight does not heal those wounds. It simply hides them, much like an abusive family hides the bruises before company arrives.

If the United States truly respected itself, it wouldn’t sweep human suffering into the shadows. It would face the root causes and create humane, trauma-informed facilities where people can receive protection, dignity, and the opportunity to heal. You don’t fix a dirty kitchen by locking the cooks in the basement; you clean, repair, and nourish.

The irony is that Trump’s own businesses — from Mar-a-Lago to Bedminster to his Vegas steakhouse — have racked up dozens of health violations over the years. It’s a perfect metaphor for the hypocrisy of focusing on the “door” while the “kitchen” behind it is in disarray.

Trump’s “dirty door” analogy says more about his own inner world than about Washington, D.C. His reflex to remove the “unsightly” mirrors the logic of emotionally repressed parents who silence and exile the most wounded members of their family — not to protect them, but to protect the family’s image.

And this is the deeper truth:
When a leader sees a suffering human being and only thinks, “How can I get this out of sight?” they reveal the limits of their own empathy — and the unhealed wounds they carry from childhood.

Until we, as a society, are willing to look into that mirror and face our own emotional poverty, we will keep mistaking people for “problems” and compassion for “weakness.”

True respect for our country begins not with spotless doors, but with clean hands — the kind that lift people up rather than sweep them away.



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