Ten things you can't do with a Narcissist

 Ten things you can't do with a Narcissist

1. Have friends.

2. Enjoy intimacy. 

3. Find Peace.

4. Share good times.

5. Be guaranteed success.

6. Be comforted.

7. Find your true love.

8. Reach consensus.

9. Hear the truth.

10. Reach your true potential.

"Religion is always in the control business, and that's something people don't really understand. It's in a guilt-producing control business. And if you have Heaven as a place where you're rewarded for your goodness, and Hell is a place where you're punished for your evil, then you sort of have control of the population. And so they create this fiery place which has quite literally scared the Hell out of a lot of people, throughout Christian history. And it's part of a control tactic. (...) The church doesn't like for people to grow up, because you can't control grown-ups. That's why we talk about being born again. When you're born again, you're still a child. People don't need to be born again. They need to grow up. They need to accept their responsibility for themselves and the world." Retired Episcopal bishop John Shelby Spong.

Religion it's where most sociopaths, psychopaths, malignant narcissists, assholes, or whatever you like to call these evil people like to hide behind acting as if personality pretending to be good people but are wolves in sheep's clothing. 

And yes, all these types of people are in the control business and religion is the hook they use to attach the invisible reins of guilt to rein us in. Of course, religion doesn't want people to grow up and become autonomous free-thinking people. You can't control mature autonomous free-thinking people. They need people to remain endless in the state of the child in order to be able to control them...

This is why I constantly get targeted in the workplace by these types of assholes since I published my book. With my book, they learn I have grown myself up and I'm a mature, conscious, autonomous adult and that's the last thing these assholes want around... they want emotionally blind people endlessly stuck in the role of the child that they can fool and manipulate easily. 

As I wrote in my book A Dance to Freedom: Your Guide to Liberation from Lies and Illusions. Pages 9 and 10:  At an early age, organized religion turned me away from God. Religion felt like a straitjacket keeping me down. Just like Alice Miller, I was “unable to fathom God’s motives,” and, in my own way, came to the same conclusion she did, that the God of the Bible was perverse and cruel. “The Bible was written by men,” Alice Miller writes. “We must assume that those men had been through some unpleasant experiences at the hands of their fathers. Surely none of them had had a father who took pleasure in their inquiring minds, realized the futility of expecting the impossible of them, and refrained from punishing them. That was why they were able to create an image of God with sadistic features that did not strike them as such. God as they saw Him devised a cruel scenario in which He gave Adam and Eve the tree of knowledge but at the same time forbade them to eat its fruit — that is, to achieve awareness and become autonomous personalities. He wanted to keep them entirely dependent on Him.”