The Illusions the Narcissist Creates

"Relationships with narcissists only last for as long as you're willing to put yourself last."

Some people would push you off of a ledge just to catch you and say they saved your life. 

The Scapegoat and the Golden Child are the roles assigned by the narcissist in order to play the game of Extract Narcissistic Supply through Triangulation. Triangulation is like driving a wedge between people. This can be done by a narcissistic parent or a narcissistic anyone in your life. The game involves two or more people who get pitted against each other and usually they don't even realize what's happening. They're often just aware of the conflict and maybe they can't figure out what's going on or where it's coming from. [This scenario that's exactly what my most recent boss tried to do. I could see it so clearly!]

In troubled families and toxic work environments abuse and neglect are permitted; it's the talking about them that is forbidden.

"The narcissist holds himself calm, easy-going and well-composed, while driving you to the brink of sheer madness. Those who observe this from the outside, do see you as the psychotic one, and the narcissist as the unfortunate, level-headed victim. This reversed illusion was all part of the narcissist's grand plan the whole time.

YOU WERE PLAYED FROM DAY ONE!"

A mind that is truly free and sees clearly cannot ever be trapped

A religious person will do what is told... no matter what is right... while an awakened person will do what is right.. no matter what he is told.

The true tragedy of life comes from those who manipulate, swindle, and use other's empathy and compassion as an opportunity to benefit themselves.

"TEN TRUTHS OF A NPD PERSON

yes, they know what they're doing 

no, you can not change them 

yes, they know they're hurting you 

no, they will not apologize for it 

yes, they can control it, just like they do in public 

no, they're not capable of empathy or remorse 

yes, they could stop if they wanted to 

no, they don't love you, even if they say they do 

yes, they are capable of unconscionable manipulation 

no, they don't care about how their words or behavior effects you, or your life" Morgan McKean

"An environment that is not safe to disagree in is not an environment focused on growth - it's an environment focused on control." Wendi Jade

"Narcissists are very envious of others. Unless they can take credit for the person's good fortune, it is either dismissed or seen as a threat. No one is better than they are. A narcissist cannot feel happiness for someone else, not even their own child."

"The sociopath enjoys taking selfies with kids whether it's nieces and nephews that they borrow to take the pictures or their own children. Why? The sociopath wants to look family oriented, wants to smile and look happy. As always it's fake. The sociopath can't be happy and will never care about the children in their selfies. The sociopath just cares about looking normal and family like, it's another tactic the sociopath uses to attract attention" -Alison Zehe

Never underestimate a cycle breaker. Not only did they experience years of generational trauma, but they stood in the face of the trauma and fought to say “This ends with me.” This is brave. This is powerful. This comes at a significant cost. Never underestimate a cycle breaker.

If you tell the truth, it becomes a part of your past. But, if you lie, it becomes a part of your future.

Is the plan for one person to ultimately rule over a dead world while sitting atop a giant pile of money? Is that what we are working toward?

The funny thing about a strong woman is that she doesn't need you... she chooses you. And if you start slacking she'll be content without you. 

I just wanted a soulmate, and not a degree in psychology. 

"Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not - nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent. Genius will not - unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not - the world is full of educated failures. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent." -Calvin Coolidge

If you want to deeply hurt someone's soul beyond the capacity of any words known to man, just wait until they have developed a very personal and strong emotional bond to you. Pretend to love them and be their friend. Then, begin to emotionally abuse them, withdraw from them, devalue them, and discard them like they never existed and you will see a job well done. - Inside the Mind of a Malignant Narcissist

This is what narcissists say:

• The relationship was too toxic.

• They have mental issues.

• I just couldn't take the abuse any longer. • Nothing I did was ever good enough for them.

• They're on drugs.

• They used me for my money.

• They cheated on me.

Narcissists role reverse.

They will tell people all about the shit they did to you.

But they'll tell them that it's you that did it.

Gaslighting or gas-lighting is a form of psychological abuse in which a victim is manipulated into doubting their own memory, perception, and sanity. Instances may range from the denial by an abuser that previous abusive incidents ever occurred up to the staging of bizarre events by the abuser with the intention of disorienting the victim. The term owes its origin to Gas Light, a 1938 play and 1944 film, and has been used in clinical and research literature

NARCISSISTIC SOCIOPATH They'll insult, belittle, and criticize you (sometimes in a teasing/joking way), pushing your boundaries until you finally speak up. Then they use your reactions to make you seem crazy. Within weeks, they can turn an easy- going person into a hot mess of insecurities and self-doubt. DO YOU KNOW ONE?

No one really goes Scott free sooner or later in one form or another everyone meets their destiny