Violence is an Illusion or a trap and you will never find or maintain freedom through violence but it doesn't mean we give up working towards liberating ourselves and staying free.
Most people's objective in life is not freedom for themselves and others. Most people's objective in life is to one day own their own slaves. They work very hard to get into positions of power over others so they can suppress others the same way they once were suppressed. Most people are unconscious and compulsively looking for scapegoats to take revenge for the wrongs done to them...
"Sadism is not an infectious disease that strikes a person all of a sudden. It has a long prehistory in childhood and always originates in the desperate fantasies of a child who is searching for a way out of a hopeless situation."
http://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2011/01/unlived-anger.html
http://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2011/01/unlived-anger.html
Pretty much no matter where we live there is half of the people who try to suppress the other half to a degree, either with manipulation tactics or violence.
People can be right about a lot of things but the moment they resort to violence to make a point or bring attention to their cause by killing innocent beings -- they lose the argument completely -- even if they were right at first in a lot of things.
People and countries have the right to defend themselves when attacked, but they need to be careful not to let themselves be blinded by hatred and pain, they need to take all the precautions to protect the innocent on both sides.
No one can liberate us but ourselves, so when people scream; Free Palestine or Free Britney Spears, they are just making a bunch of noise because no one can free Britney Spears from her emotional prison but herself.
All of my life I have been surrounded by people trying to suppress me and it took me over 40 years to liberate myself.
Since my personal liberation, I have been the target of three psychological warfare in the workplace but if I had resorted to violence to get justice I would not be here today! They want to bring me back into an emotional prison but a mind that is truly free can never be captured again, they can kill me, but my mind dies free!
The words below by John Lennon could not be truer. The sociopaths at my job of nine and half years were hoping I would react to their lies, mind games, and smear campaign and I would become violent in some form. The system is thirsty for blood, but I don't play their game.
"When it gets down to having to use violence, then you are playing the system's game. The establishment will irritate you - pull your beard, flick your face - to make you fight. Because once they've got you violent, then they know how to handle you. The only thing they don't know how to handle is non-violence and humor." John Lennon
"Children who are told the truth and are not brought up to tolerate lies and cruelty can develop as freely as a plant whose roots have not been attacked by pests (in our case, lies)" Alice Miller
Lies are the fuel that creates wars. And religion is one of the biggest lies ever!
“If you were born in Israel, you’d probably be Jewish. If you were born in Saudi Arabia, you’d probably be a Muslim. If you were born in India, you’d be Hindu. But because you were born in North America, you’re probably a Christian. Your faith is not inspired by some divine, constant truth, it’s simply geography.”
"Religion is regarded by the common people as true, by the wise as false, and by the politicians helpful."
Religion is an emotional prison that keeps people chained with invisible reins of guilt, shame, and fear. In different parts of the world the prison of religion has different names and gods and in some parts of the world some religions/prisons, might treat you a little better and give you the illusion you have freedom because it gives you longer reins and more room to roam, but still in prison nevertheless. I have removed the invisible reins of guilt, shame, and fear and broke free completely from the prison of religion.
The Facts:
1. The development of the human brain is use-dependent. The brain develops its structure in the first four years of life, depending on the experiences the environment offers the child. The brain of a child who has mostly loving experiences will develop differently from the brain of a child who has been treated cruelly.
2. Almost all children on our planet are beaten in the first years of their lives. They learn from the start violence, and this lesson is wired into their developing brains. No child is ever born violent. Violence is NOT genetic, it exists because beaten children use, in their adult lives, the lesson that their brains have learned.
3. As beaten children are not allowed to defend themselves, they must suppress their anger and rage against their parents who have humiliated them, killed their inborn empathy, and insulted their dignity. They will take out this rage later, as adults, on scapegoats, mostly on their own children. Deprived of empathy, some of them will direct their anger against themselves (in eating disorders, drug addiction, depression etc.), or against other adults (in wars, terrorism, delinquency etc.)
Questions and Answers:
Q: Parents beat their children without a second thought, to make them obedient. Nobody, except a very small minority, protests against this dangerous habit. Why is the logical sequence (from being a misled victim to becoming a misleading perpetrator) totally ignored world-wide? Why have even the Popes, responsible for the moral behaviour of many millions of believers, until now never informed them that beating children is a crime?
A: Because almost ALL of us were beaten, and we had to learn very early that these cruel acts were normal, harmless, and even good for us. Nobody ever told us that they were crimes against humanity. The wrong, immoral, and absurd lesson was wired into our developing brains, and this explains the emotional blindness governing our world.
Q: Can we free ourselves from the emotional blindness we developed in childhood?
A: We can - at least to some degree - liberate ourselves from this blindness by daring to feel our repressed emotions, including our fear and forbidden rage against our parents who had often scared us to death for periods of many years, which should have been the most beautiful years of our lives. We can't retrieve those years. But thanks to facing our truth we can transform ourselves from the children who still live in us full of fear and denial into responsible, well-informed adults who regained their empathy, so early stolen from them. By becoming feeling persons we can no longer deny that beating children is a criminal act that should be forbidden on the whole planet.
Conclusion:
Caring for the emotional needs of our children means more than giving them a happy childhood. It means to enable the brains of the future adults to function in a healthy, rational way, free from perversion and madness. Being forced to learn in childhood that hitting children is a blessing for them is a most absurd, confusing lesson, one with the most dangerous consequences: This lesson as such, together with being cut off from the true emotions, creates the roots of violence. Alice Miller
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