Hi E,
X just called me! But I didn’t take the call, and he did not leave a message. I am not calling him back because I know he is looking for a fight, so he can project his anger at me and have me express his disowned anger, and then accuse me of being angry, and then shame me for being angry so he can also transfer his repressed shame onto me. He thinks I am stupid, but I am not playing his game. I refuse to go there with him. I tried in 2008, and if he hasn't learned anything since then, he isn't going to, and I am moving on. All these years I kept my distance because I felt something wasn't right about him, never felt completely safe with him, and now I have proof that my gut feeling has been right all along!
Isn’t it interesting that the best way to find out who your real friends are is when you are down or when you are about to create something great. X’s intense, repressed jealousy being triggered is a sign that we did something great! And if he dared to face and feel his own repression, he could be part of it, but instead, he is letting his unresolved repressed emotions sabotage it. To keep his idealized mother and childhood intact, he would rather be a sociopath and try to destroy me. His jealousy being triggered like this is the best compliment on the great job we did! Because if it was bad, he wouldn’t be this worried that my book might make it and try to destroy me. He is showing all the signs of a sociopath/psychopath. Sociopaths/psychopaths will go to any lengths to achieve what they want; if they have children, they will even exploit and use their own children to achieve their ends.
“While the average person spends a good portion of the day thinking about those she loves (children, husband, parents, friends), a sociopath doesn't have these emotional ties with anyone. Instead, she spends that time plotting to take you down and destroy you, either literally or figuratively. Even removing yourself from the sphere of the sociopath's influence may only work for a while. You must remain consistent. Do not let the sociopath fool you a second time with their charm. Do not believe the person has changed. Most therapists agree that sociopaths cannot be treated effectively. Instead, take steps to protect yourself and your family. Consider drastic solutions like moving, changing jobs, and making new friends. Remember that it is all a game to the sociopath. They do not care if you're hurt. Their only goal is to win. The only way you can beat a sociopath is to get away from a sociopath. Accept the harsh reality. Sociopaths do not change. Perhaps you've come to the conclusion that you are dealing with a sociopath. You've read the key symptoms, and they describe this person perfectly. You've read the True Lovefraud stories, and you recognize the behaviors. So what do you do now? Accept the reality that a sociopath will never change.”
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Psychopaths Masters at Deceiving
She preaches homeschooling as the answer to protect children. I am sure homeschooling might be the best course for some children if their parents are healthy and balance the child's life with social activities with other children. Still, when parents are unhealthy, a child going to school might be the only break from parents’ insanity and the chance to explore other ways of being.
I have seen the worst cases of child abuse by parents who homeschool their children.
Anyway, I have seen all the red flags that this woman is very sick. I never tried to confront her directly, but my posts must have made her uncomfortable, and she unfriended me about a year ago.
She adopted a child; he is now a teenager, and I can see all the signs that she is having an incestuous relationship with her son, hiding behind the umbrella of “attachment parenting.” If it is not physical, it's emotional, and you can see this young man is confused beyond measure.
Women who can’t have children usually are against abortion; it is like they want other women to have the children they can’t, for them to unconsciously use and exploit to satisfy their own unconscious needs.
I have many friends on Facebook that promote homeschooling, and they think homeschooling would be the solution to protect children and to create a better society, and I don’t agree with it; to me, they are just a bit cultish.
The most important years of a child’s life are the first three years. If a child comes into this world in love and truth, that foundation will guide and carry them throughout life, which is why I rarely click the like button on their posts, because every child's needs are different. If children enjoy going to school and like the external push to stay motivated, like in your case, then they shouldn't be robbed of it.
In my case, I would have benefited from homeschooling and the freedom to learn at my own pace, as long as I was allowed to play with other kids outside, which, with my sisters, I wasn't allowed to do unless I sneaked out!
Grades can be useful for evaluating where a child is in their learning process and where they need more help, but they should never be used as a measure of value because a child's value should never be measured by a grade.
Sadly, in our society, parents and teachers mostly use grades to assign value to a child, which is why I think grades can be more harmful than helpful.
Children are all equally valued no matter how well they do in school and how they choose to contribute to society, as a plumber, doctor, writer, mechanic, electrician, or nurse, etc. All contributions are equally important!
Sadly, in most cases, grades are used to value the child and make them feel superior to others, and this is contributing to, feeding, and enabling psychopathy in our society.
My good grades were used to prove that she had more value than her younger sister, and I would say to her younger sister, literallyyyyyyyyyyyyy -- that she was a zero on the left and didn’t count -- and now I has psychopath traits and her daughter D that just finished law school that I"s older sister E paid for it, also has psychopath traits and if she ever gets into a position of power over others, is going to screw a lot of people like her mother has and like most politicians do, and how funny D loves politics! And belonging to the party on far-right, like the tea party here, she considers her-self conservative!
What lie! I am more conservative than she will ever be! They are psychopaths that think are better and deserve more than others because they had good grades and did well in school.
Education alone without self-knowledge is very dangerous and is nothing but a big illusion and sad our learning institutions teach everything, but self-knowledge, sometimes I think the learning intuitions make sure they keep people busy and distracted learning empty useless knowledge, so young people don’t have time to explore who they really are and get the most important knowledge of all, self-knowledge because if people acquired self-knowledge the power of people in power positions would crumble like a house of cards.
I feel the learning institutions give people a diploma/ticket to go out into the world spreading their psychological virus and deceive, manipulate and screw as many people as they possibly can.
These words by Alice Miller could not be truer: "...because he is, like every psychopath, not at all interested in understanding himself, only in controlling, misleading and manipulating others. Obviously, he was also successful in deceiving his lawyer when they talked, who now believes, as an inexperienced layperson, that Fritzl belongs in a psychiatric clinic but not in jail. It would be very naïve and calamitous to follow this idea because it would mean to deliver Fritzl a giant stage where he could masterfully deceive the staff and fellow patients and thus harm them."
AM: Thank you so much for your important letter. The Independent's short report fully explains Joseph Fritzl's behavior. In an eerily precise way, he has staged what happened to him as a child: His mother was his SOLE RULER because his father was not there ftobalance. things out She beat him daily; she owned him completely so that he did not have a helping witness who could have noticed how badly off he was, especially since she obviously provided conscientiously for his food. He was forced into total obedience and had to bear daily the constant violations through his mother; he had to be grateful, too, for the provision of clothes and food, could maybe fulfill small wishes in secret, and was proud of his slyness and inventive zest for lying and disguise. His life happened hidden in secret, as it does now, under the power of the police force. In the same manner, he has organized his daughter’s situation to hold up the denial of the suffering of his childhood. His lawyer talks about his “good sides,” just as Fritzl would probably talk about the “good sides” of his mother that enslaved him as completely as he now has demonstrated it to the whole world. Fritzl has shown the world what can happen later to a child who was TOTALLY deprived of his freedom by his single mother “educating” him with fists by herself, a child who has no witness, who has to be grateful to his, who may never contradict her and who for years impounds secretly wishes of revenge until he can satisfy them years later in a series of rapes of women without ever getting enough. Because revenge does not grant satisfaction and demands, again and again, new restagings. Even vacations in Thailand were necessary for this purpose. If one would ask Fritzl now, what his childhood was like, he would probably praise his mother and her care and not yet have realized that he grew up in a prison where his muscles, to be sure, were obviously well-nourished, but where his brain was confused and poisoned through the contempt of his dignity. I can hardly imagine that this single, power-hungry and brutal mother did NOT use her small son for her sexual wishes and thus only increased the confusion (what is love and what is meanness?) in his brain. In this way, perversions develop, which pose riddles for us if we don’t have the courage to take seriously the childhood histories.
The deduction of the crimes from the denied childhood-situation is in no way meant to alleviate Joseph Fritzl’s guilt and to invoke pity. As an adult, he is fully responsible for all his crimes and deserves the greatest punishments for committing them. His masterful skillfulness in deceiving and manipulating the police and other authorities as well as his extreme sadism show that he proceeded methodically. So he exhibits strong psychopathic traits. There are hardly any signs for a positive prognosis through effective psychotherapy by acknowledging the truth about his childhood because he is, like every psychopath, not at all interested in understanding himself, only in controlling, misleading, and manipulating others. Obviously, he was also successful in deceiving his lawyer when they talked who now believes, as an inexperienced layperson, that Fritzl belongs into a psychiatric clinic but not into jail. It would be very naïve and calamitous to follow this idea because it would mean to deliver Fritzl a giant stage where he could masterfully deceive the staff and fellow patients and thus harm them. Read more here
I agree with the words you wrote to a degree. I think I expressed how I feel about homeschooling once in an email about the author L. A. C. I bought her book when I first met her on Facebook a few years ago, but I didn't finish it and threw it in the garbage. AM: Thank you so much for your important letter. The Independent's short report fully explains Joseph Fritzl's behavior. In an eerily precise way, he has staged what happened to him as a child: His mother was his SOLE RULER because his father was not there ftobalance. things out She beat him daily; she owned him completely so that he did not have a helping witness who could have noticed how badly off he was, especially since she obviously provided conscientiously for his food. He was forced into total obedience and had to bear daily the constant violations through his mother; he had to be grateful, too, for the provision of clothes and food, could maybe fulfill small wishes in secret, and was proud of his slyness and inventive zest for lying and disguise. His life happened hidden in secret, as it does now, under the power of the police force. In the same manner, he has organized his daughter’s situation to hold up the denial of the suffering of his childhood. His lawyer talks about his “good sides,” just as Fritzl would probably talk about the “good sides” of his mother that enslaved him as completely as he now has demonstrated it to the whole world. Fritzl has shown the world what can happen later to a child who was TOTALLY deprived of his freedom by his single mother “educating” him with fists by herself, a child who has no witness, who has to be grateful to his, who may never contradict her and who for years impounds secretly wishes of revenge until he can satisfy them years later in a series of rapes of women without ever getting enough. Because revenge does not grant satisfaction and demands, again and again, new restagings. Even vacations in Thailand were necessary for this purpose. If one would ask Fritzl now, what his childhood was like, he would probably praise his mother and her care and not yet have realized that he grew up in a prison where his muscles, to be sure, were obviously well-nourished, but where his brain was confused and poisoned through the contempt of his dignity. I can hardly imagine that this single, power-hungry and brutal mother did NOT use her small son for her sexual wishes and thus only increased the confusion (what is love and what is meanness?) in his brain. In this way, perversions develop, which pose riddles for us if we don’t have the courage to take seriously the childhood histories.
The deduction of the crimes from the denied childhood-situation is in no way meant to alleviate Joseph Fritzl’s guilt and to invoke pity. As an adult, he is fully responsible for all his crimes and deserves the greatest punishments for committing them. His masterful skillfulness in deceiving and manipulating the police and other authorities as well as his extreme sadism show that he proceeded methodically. So he exhibits strong psychopathic traits. There are hardly any signs for a positive prognosis through effective psychotherapy by acknowledging the truth about his childhood because he is, like every psychopath, not at all interested in understanding himself, only in controlling, misleading, and manipulating others. Obviously, he was also successful in deceiving his lawyer when they talked who now believes, as an inexperienced layperson, that Fritzl belongs into a psychiatric clinic but not into jail. It would be very naïve and calamitous to follow this idea because it would mean to deliver Fritzl a giant stage where he could masterfully deceive the staff and fellow patients and thus harm them. Read more here
She preaches homeschooling as the answer to protect children. I am sure homeschooling might be the best course for some children if their parents are healthy and balance the child's life with social activities with other children. Still, when parents are unhealthy, a child going to school might be the only break from parents’ insanity and the chance to explore other ways of being.
I have seen the worst cases of child abuse by parents who homeschool their children.
Anyway, I have seen all the red flags that this woman is very sick. I never tried to confront her directly, but my posts must have made her uncomfortable, and she unfriended me about a year ago.
She adopted a child; he is now a teenager, and I can see all the signs that she is having an incestuous relationship with her son, hiding behind the umbrella of “attachment parenting.” If it is not physical, it's emotional, and you can see this young man is confused beyond measure.
Women who can’t have children usually are against abortion; it is like they want other women to have the children they can’t, for them to unconsciously use and exploit to satisfy their own unconscious needs.
I have many friends on Facebook that promote homeschooling, and they think homeschooling would be the solution to protect children and to create a better society, and I don’t agree with it; to me, they are just a bit cultish.
The most important years of a child’s life are the first three years. If a child comes into this world in love and truth, that foundation will guide and carry them throughout life, which is why I rarely click the like button on their posts, because every child's needs are different. If children enjoy going to school and like the external push to stay motivated, like in your case, then they shouldn't be robbed of it.
In my case, I would have benefited from homeschooling and the freedom to learn at my own pace, as long as I was allowed to play with other kids outside, which, with my sisters, I wasn't allowed to do unless I sneaked out!
Grades can be useful for evaluating where a child is in their learning process and where they need more help, but they should never be used as a measure of value because a child's value should never be measured by a grade.
Sadly, in our society, parents and teachers mostly use grades to assign value to a child, which is why I think grades can be more harmful than helpful.
Children are all equally valued no matter how well they do in school and how they choose to contribute to society, as a plumber, doctor, writer, mechanic, electrician, or nurse, etc. All contributions are equally important!
Sadly, in most cases, grades are used to value the child and make them feel superior to others, and this is contributing to, feeding, and enabling psychopathy in our society.
My good grades were used to prove that she had more value than her younger sister, and I would say to her younger sister, literallyyyyyyyyyyyyy -- that she was a zero on the left and didn’t count -- and now I has psychopath traits and her daughter D that just finished law school that I"s older sister E paid for it, also has psychopath traits and if she ever gets into a position of power over others, is going to screw a lot of people like her mother has and like most politicians do, and how funny D loves politics! And belonging to the party on far-right, like the tea party here, she considers her-self conservative!
What lie! I am more conservative than she will ever be! They are psychopaths that think are better and deserve more than others because they had good grades and did well in school.
Education alone without self-knowledge is very dangerous and is nothing but a big illusion and sad our learning institutions teach everything, but self-knowledge, sometimes I think the learning intuitions make sure they keep people busy and distracted learning empty useless knowledge, so young people don’t have time to explore who they really are and get the most important knowledge of all, self-knowledge because if people acquired self-knowledge the power of people in power positions would crumble like a house of cards.
I feel the learning institutions give people a diploma/ticket to go out into the world spreading their psychological virus and deceive, manipulate and screw as many people as they possibly can.
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