The World is in a Real Serious Trouble

Donald Warner Parker, Facebook's post:

via Mario G. Rivera

A renowned expert on the Federal Reserve and the New World Order will explain how the super-rich of the World have organized to create a New World Order that they will control. reality zone

Super-rich are in a conspiracy to rule the world - G. Edward Griffin - 2007

Donald Warner Parker: The Quigley Formula – G. Edward Griffin lecture. 

Sylvie Imelda Shene: The world is in serious trouble!

Donald Warner Parker:  That is right, and you explain exactly why in your book:

"I believe the idealization of one's own parents and childhood is a major obstacle to the betterment of society. Because so many believe their parents are infallible, they easily follow authority figures who cast themselves as mother or father figures—disguised as educators, healers, cult leaders, therapists, gurus, or government officials.

We become vulnerable when we refuse to face the truth about those who raised us. A 'false self' makes a person an easy target for exploitation, threatening both the individual and society. Our salvation lies in being true to ourselves; we need people who can challenge power, starting in their own homes. Alice Miller describes such individuals as those who were either certain of their parents' love (even when they disappointed expectations) or those who later learned—perhaps through analysis—to risk the loss of love to regain their true selves. Miller notes that these people so appreciate their freedom from tyranny that they refuse to relinquish it at any price.

When we idealize our childhoods, we mirror our abusers and perpetuate a vicious cycle, clinging to the false hope of eventually gaining acceptance from our parents or their symbolic substitutes. This idealization is physically and emotionally dangerous. Miller argues that the body remembers the cruelty we endured, even if we cannot consciously process it. She writes, 'As long as we are compelled to protect our parents, we pay our loyalty with our depressions.' Only by acknowledging the pain of the neglected child can we begin to truly love ourselves."

Shene continues, referencing For Your Own Good:

"If a person’s childhood tragedy remains hidden behind idealizations, the truth asserts itself through 'repetition compulsion.' People unconsciously create relationships where they torment or are tormented. Because 'disciplining' children is socially accepted, it becomes the primary outlet for bottled-up aggression. This is how the cycle has continued throughout human history."

— Excerpted from "A Dance to Freedom: Your Guide to Liberation from Lies and Illusions" by Sylvie Imelda Shene. Includes references to "For Your Own Good" by Alice Miller via Project NoSpank and the Alice Miller Index.

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Sylvie Imelda Shene: Thank you, Donald. This is exactly why I lost my job: those in power felt threatened by the truths in my book. I believe the property manager feared her adult children would read it and see her for who she truly is. She orchestrated a "psychological lynching" to stop me, hoping to keep her children in the dark.

Many people try to suppress my work because they are abusers masquerading as "good people"—wolves in sheep’s clothing. They hope my book never sees the light of day because they will destroy anyone who exposes their conspiracies.

Recently, I reviewed the emails from my last job during that period of harassment. They treated me like a criminal, hoping I would react like one. Even after barring me from the property to pick up my laptop, they failed to remove my administrator access. I could have caused significant damage, but I only logged in to contact a homeowner whose home I was caring for and let him know what was happening.

When I realized I still had access a week later, I grew concerned that I would be blamed for any system errors. I alerted the residents on my mailing list that the Security Company, property manager, and board had compromised their personal information. In response, they emailed the residents, calling me a liar.

If the leaders of a small community of 160 homes lie like this, imagine the conspiracies major governments use to keep the public in the dark.

I recently sent a message to the property manager: The only people lying were you and the board. You are only fooling yourself. I never trusted you because I’ve learned never to trust someone whose childhood is a taboo subject. I knew you would stab me in the back. You used a smear campaign because cowards always get others to do their dirty work. (And you could have at least spelled my name correctly!)

These quotes describe her perfectly. As I wrote in my blog on March 17, 2015, regarding narcissists: This manager was jealous and manipulative. When I created an efficient package procedure to replace her abusive one, she tried to "compliment" me. I ignored her. I knew her "compliment" was just a way to see how else she could undermine me. She has everyone else fooled, but she never fooled me from day one; I knew I could not trust her.

A Message from the Board

 February 24, 2015

 We understand you may have received an unsolicited, defamatory email from Sylvie Sheen making various false accusations against the Board, Pxx Pxxx, and others. As we previously informed you, Security Company, which has the contract to provide security services to the Association, exercised its contractual rights to replace Ms. Sheen. No one mentioned in Ms. Sheen’s false accusations was involved with the Security Company’s decision, and none of the accusations Ms. Sheen makes against them are true. We find it unfortunate that Ms. Sheen is sending such emails, but we believe it is prudent to respond and let you know that the accusations are false and to further advise you that the Security Company has assured the Board that all your personal information is secure.

Sxxxxxxxx HOA Board of Directors

From: Sylvie Shene <xxxxxxxxxxxx@xxxxxl.com>

Date: Mon, Feb 23, 2015 at 11:32 AM

Subject: Important information you all should know

Hi everyone,

I would like to make some of you aware that Pxx Pxxx, the current board, and the Security company are putting your personal information at risk of being stolen.  And this is grounds to fire the Security company, Pxx Pxxx, and to force the present board to resign. 

I was treated like a criminal by not even being allowed into the gate to retrieve my personal belongings, but they are the criminals' ones, and they have hired a new guy to take my place, who is not honest. In the 9 and half years that I worked there, I never had anything disappear from the gatehouse, but since the new guy M B started working there add things started to happen, like the camera would not be on when I arrived in the morning and the computer with the residents personal information, would not be connected to the internet, so when the residents entered new guests to their admit list for the day, would not show up at my end and when their guests arrived, I had to call the resident and the resident would inform me that they had entered the guest themselves into their admit list, so I would have to spent about an hour in the morning trying to figure out why it was not showing up on my end and I would find the cable cords disconnected.  I believe M B was sabotaging me by disconnecting the computers' cables.  And the cordless mouse from the new camera disappeared from the gatehouse, and the mouse they are using now is my personal mouse that I like to get back. Also, the cable extension for the water cooler and the new, unnecessary computer Mr. K bought to log in packages are mine, and I'd like to get them back.

Anyway, I'm writing because your personal information has been put at risk. Physically, I am not allowed in the gatehouse, but if I wanted to hurt people, I could do it remotely from my own computer because the Security company and this board didn’t take me off as the administrator,r and I can still access all residents' personal information from any computer in the world. 

I am a stable person and I will not use my access to residents’ information to do harm, but the next person the Security company and Sxxxxxxxx board fires unjustly might not be as stable as me and retaliate by deleting all the residents information, that by the way, data I entered into the computer, because as some of you know, when I started working there that gatehouse was still in the past century with a Rolodex. 

Pxx Pxxx, the security company, and this board’s actions are careless and dangerous because the injustice done to the wrong person could have put all your data in danger by having your information deleted from the gatehouse computer, or worse, sold to a third party, causing you all much harm.  

A security company that is not protecting the client at all, but is actually putting the client in danger by firing honest people and hiring dishonest ones. 

They are threatened by authentic, honest people and feel more comfortable with crooks like them.  

The local office of the security company is being run by crooks, so be aware.

I thought you all should know this important information,

Sylvie

P.S I only shared this information with the residents on my e-mailing list, but feel free to share it with other residents at Sxxxxxxxx, because they all should be aware that their personal information has been compromised by the careless people that were driven by the dead hand of their own repression to make me their scapegoat and could have put all of your data in harm’s way, because the next person they harm might not be as understanding why people do what they do and retaliate.

The media and most journalists are blocking the real truth from the public, and most only report seductive lies, misleading information, half-truths, or disconnected stories for propaganda and pure sensationalism, manipulating the masses and keeping them distracted from the real truth and facts. Nothing ever is what it seems!!! The audio below of an ex-journalist confessing his lies is in English.

She recruited a team of flying monkeys, taking turns doing her dirty work, and she got the new guy and the security company to finish the job she started. This is how cowards work! We all know who the real culprit is!? The property manager!!!

Yes, she wanted to discredit me and reduce me to an inferior being to less than nothing.

The quote above also describes the property manager at my last job to a tooth! She didn't like it that I stood up to her. She accused me of things she had been doing for the 30-plus years she had been working there. Totally okay for her to do, but how dear of me to do it too. Her hypocrisy was epic.

Yep! This was one of the big reasons I was targeted by the sociopath who was the property manager at my last job, because I am a truly happy and free person, but she was not able to destroy me, and she didn't walk away wearing my skin. But instead, her true self was revealed.

Reading the words in the article What Really Makes Narcissists Tick, the property manager at my last job come to mind, she got so jealous and envious of my success of publishing my book, that she had to do everything in her power to try to destroy me to transfer her bad feelings into me, so she could feel better and superior again, but she was not able to and I'm sure she is suffering from depression like never before and probably taking medication. 

“The characteristic subjective experience of narcissistic individuals is a sense of inner emptiness and meaninglessness that requires recurrent infusions of external confirmation of their importance and value. . . . When the environment fails to provide such evidence, narcissistic individuals feel depressed, ashamed, and envious of those who succeed in attaining the supplies that they lack.”

Yes, they are still living the lie, and they will try to destroy anyone who tells the truth and tries to expose the facts and evidence. Yes, I am staying free!!!

Totally! This is exactly what happened to some people at my last job, which lasted 9.5 years. I was aware of what they were doing the whole time!!! They didn't fool me; they were only fooling themselves!


The other day, someone found my blog with the keyword "tackleberry bandit az", so out of curiosity, I googled the keyword, and I found the FBI's wanted poster of my ex-boss, a middle-aged white man, and an ex-sheriff! They treated me like a criminal, and they accused me of making threats, but look who the criminal is and going around making threats to kill people if they didn't comply with his commands! If it were me, the little woman to commit a crime, my name and face would have been splashed all over the news stations! But now everyone is silent, and no one cares that these criminals with their projections and lies -- I lost my job and more than half of my income  -- AND they could have destroyed my life completely. There is no humanity! Most people are all fake and pretenders -- acting as if personality, pretending to be good people -- but are wolves in sheep's clothing. I'm done with humanity! Read more in the link below about how I found out my ex-boss was a bank robber and killed himself exactly a year later, which by coincidence was my birthday. 
https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2017/09/big-cover-up-by-sociopaths-at-my-ex-job.html?m=1

To read more about my experiences with the mob of sociopaths or narcissists at my last job, read my blog, Experienced Knowledge  

Most People out there are Prostituting Themselves Everyday

Yes, most people out there are prostituting themselves every day, and this is why they are unhappy and suffering from depression and are self-medicating with all kinds of things like religious cults or any other type of cults, food, sex, and codependent on unhealthy relationships or dependent on antidepressants. It’s a tragedy! I wish I had included the very truthful quote below of Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross in my book; I will definitely include it in my next book!

"Any human being that was born into a family that loves "if", will have problems in life, horrible problems, because they all become prostitutes. You will prostitute yourself with good behavior. Do you understand the word prostitution? What sense do I mean by that? You will believe that you can buy love with good grades, that you can buy love with good behavior, that you can buy love if you look pretty, and your need for approval will always be insatiable, and you will always be unhappy for the rest of your life."

 -- Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross excerpt from the video Understanding death & suicide - part 2 

"Pain is the way to the truth. By denying that you were unloved as a child, you spare yourself some pain, but you are not with your own truth. And throughout your whole life, you'll try to earn love. In therapy, avoiding pain causes a blockage. Yet nobody can confront being neglected or hated without feeling guilty. "It is my fault that my mother is cruel," he thinks. "I made my mother furious; what can I do to make her loving?" So he will continue trying to make her love him. The guilt is really protection against the terrible realization that you are fated to have a mother who cannot love. This is much more painful than thinking, "Oh, she is a good mother; it's only me who's bad." Because then you can try to do something to get love. But it's not true; you cannot earn love. And feeling guilty for what has been done to you only supports your blindness and your neurosis." -- Alice Miller

Above excerpt from ALICE MILLER: The feeling child 

Interviewed March 1987 by Diane Connors

Comments from the sharing of this post on Facebook: 

Monica Chelagat Saw the video, and there are many more. Yes, the "if" I hear it so often around.

Sylvie Imelda Shene, I know Monica, and I grew up with it. My sister was rewarded and adored for her good behavior and good grades, and I was rejected and punished for not behaving to their liking, as well as my bad grades. I grew up fantasizing about suicide every day, but now she's an unhappy adult with major problems, and I am happy! And this is why so many hate me, especially the property manager at my last job, because I'm truly happy and free. Misery loves company! Adulthood is a lot longer than childhood! So I am so glad the worst is over! 
Now, I just thought of President Bush's slogan, "They hate us for our freedom." It's true; people hate and are jealous of happy and free people, but President Bush's freedom is just an illusion of freedom.

Yep! This was one of the big reasons I was targeted by the sociopath who was the property manager at my last job because I am a truly happy and free person, but she was not able to destroy me, and she didn't walk away wearing my skin. But instead, her true self was revealed.

To read more about my experiences with the mob of sociopaths or narcissists at my last job, read my blog, Experienced Knowledge.  

The son of Alice Miller should have given the title to his book - The Drama of the gifted child - the tragedy of my life

P: I just read the first article and I think the whole debate whether she failed on her son is absurd because when he was small his mother was not fully aware of how abusive education can be. She was a traditional mother as anybody else, and as a therapist she followed the traditional Freudian psychoanalysis of her time....only when she found out that this type of therapy does not really solve the problem but intensifies it, she started developing her own, very different theory....but by that was not until the 1970, resulting in her first book, the drama, in 1979...by that time her son was about 30 years old, so how could she protect him from a violent father??? So this criticism is bloody BS!!”

Hi P,

Thank you for writing. I completely agree with everything you wrote. This comment made by Makus Roth on the article you sent me, says also almost the same thing you just said above: “Alice Miller's life cycle is comparable to the conversion of Sau to Paul, from the unconscious to the conscious mother. when she wrote the first of her 13 books (drama dbk= Das Drama de begabten Kiindes, The drama of the gifted child), 1979, when her son was already 29 years old and she kept on developing every time clearer and clearer. Already years ago she apologized to her son for her misbehavior in his childhood, whereas her son had and still has trouble with it.” Makus Roth

I feel Alice Miller’s experience is very similar to mine. My love for my ex and my desire to help him made me look for help so we could save our relationship and in the process I freed myself. Alice Miller too saw that her son had problems, and how ironic they both have the same first name, my ex’s first name is also Martin! Alice Miller like me started lifting every stone to look for clues to help her son and in the process resolved her own repression and freed herself, just like me that I went out looking for clues how to help my Ex and I end up liberating myself in the process. And at the end, I had to let my ex-go, and Alice too had to let her son go because once a person is an adult, no one, not even the mother, can make up for what we need as children and we didn’t get. Once we are adults only we can save ourselves and anyone that tells us otherwise are fooling us with false hopes and promises.

Alice Miller was driven to write her books to warn society of the dangers of childhood repression to save the children of the future and help us to face and resolve our own repression. This is why it’s so important for people to face their own repression before having children or at least become aware of their own childhood repression before their children become teenagers and adults, because it’s not the trauma itself that causes long-term damage, but the repressed emotions that causes long-term damage and if parents become aware of the damage done before their children become teenagers or adults they can help their children express their true feelings of anger, fear and hurt, because the children are still emotionally dependent on their parents, but once the children become teenagers or adults the defense mechanisms and walls have been built and it’s out of the parents hands, they can become the most conscious parents, but it will be too late, because they can’t force the teenagers and adult children remove the walls to face and feel their childhood repression, if they don’t wish to do so. 

Alice Miller made herself very vulnerable to all the psychopaths in the world to warn us, her courage is astonishing. Psychopaths always feed on people's weakness to advance themselves and don’t care who they hurt, step on or destroy in the process as long they get what they want. In the interview Martin Miller is giving in the link you sent me, he is speaking in German and of course I don’t understand what he is saying, but the body never lies and the language of the body is universal, his body is telling his truth and you can see how this man has been repressing all of his life with the aid of food and probably also with all kinds of medications, and never allowed himself to consciously feel the full range of the repressed feelings of the child he once was within the context of his own childhood. And as long we go on repressing our feelings the compulsion to abuse ourselves, others or both will go on endless overtly or covertly and you can see he has been abusing himself by overeating to numb his feelings when present triggers trigger him because he is extremely overweight.  

The title of his book is “The true drama of the gifted child- the tragedy of Alice Miller” but the title of his book should have been: “The Drama of the gifted child - the tragedy of my life” because his life is the real tragedy and sad beyond words, because he still stuck in his childhood and probably will never break free, because he is already 63 and the older we get the harder it gets to resolve our repression. Alice Millers’ life is not a tragedy, because she broke free and died free, the beginning of her life was a tragedy, but not the end of her life, she became honest with herself and others and that is the most important achievement anyone can reach in this lifetime, not like most people in our society that are stuck in their childhood pretending and acting as if personality their whole lives, fooling themselves and others.

As Alice says in her book The Body Never Lies, page, 86: ““… For how can I prove to someone that freedom is within reach, if all his life he has clung to the constraints that were necessary for his survival, and if he cannot imagine life without those constraints? I can say that I myself have achieved such freedom by getting to the bottom of my own story, but I have to admit that I am not a good example. After all, it took me over forty years to arrive at the stage I have reached now. But there are others. I know people who have succeeded in unearthing their memories in a much shorter space of time, and the discovery of their own truth has enabled them to emerge from the autistic hiding place that used to be their only refuge. In my case, the reason the journey took so long was that I was on my own for most of it.”

Me too just like Alice Miller it took me over forty years to break free because I was alone in my journey most of it. 

Hi P,

Have you seen this? It’s in German! You don’t have to use Google translate like I had to, I am jealous you can read German because you lose a lot in translation, but I think it was enough for me to see where Martin Miller comes from.  I guess Martin Miller has finished his book! I feel so sad that this 63-year-old man is still stuck in his childhood and never found his own way in the world and got trapped in the labyrinth of psychoanalysis. It took his mother most of her adult life to free herself from the labyrinth of psychoanalysis. Just as his mother wrote below. With his book, he is transferring his childhood confusion into many people that still, like him, are stuck in the confusion of their own childhood and they too, like him, have fell victims of the labyrinth or traps of many seductive therapies that keep them stuck endless reenacting their own childhood dramas, where they either play the active role of mother/father to others or are endless stuck in the role of the child.

“, is not an accusation. But an attempt to understand deep-seated trauma.” I have learned that when people deny something that’s exactly what they are.

The fact he is saying is not an accusation that’s exactly what it is, disguised of wanting to understand deep-seated trauma. Anyone that has read all his mother’s books and work through their own repression understands deep-seated trauma and how hard it is to resolve it. He is being a great example of how difficult it is to resolve deep-seated trauma. He is still stuck in his childhood fighting and competing with his mother to make a name for himself by unconsciously attempting to destroy the great discovers and accomplishments his mother made late in life by stepping on his mother’s head to satisfies his own childhood narcissists needs and letting the unresolved repressed emotions of the child he once was, take revenge on his mother for the wrongs she did to him when he was a small child by attempting to kill his mother in a symbolic way in the public arena with his book, creating a smokescreen confusing many people already confused looking for a way out of their own labyrinths.

He mentions that his mother’s first three books are the most valuable, of course, he likes his mother’s first books, because when his mother wrote her first books, she had not broken free completely from the labyrinth of psychoanalysis, a labyrinth he still trapped in. In Alice’s first books she was still writing with the precepts of the labyrinth of psychoanalysis and still had hopes or the illusion psychoanalysis could help people break free. His mother’s last books are much clear and are the books that helped me understand and feel my own feelings within the context of my own childhood and finally break free from my emotional prison no longer be lost in projections reenacting my childhood drama with people symbolizing my parents or my parents substitutes, in my own case my older sisters, and prevented me from being trapped in the labyrinth of many seductive therapies out there.

As Alice Miller said: “…On the other hand, what has radically changed is my hopeful attitude towards psychoanalysis, from which, in 1988, I officially broke away by resigning from the Swiss as well as the International Psychoanalytical Association. I was forced to take this step when I realized that psychoanalytical theory and practice obscure—i.e., render unrecognizable—the cause and consequences of child abuse, by (among other things) labeling facts as fantasies, and furthermore, that such treatments can be dangerous, as in my own case, [and obviously in the case of her own son] because they cement the confusion deriving from childhood instead of resolving it. Ten years ago I was not yet so clear about this, my study of philosophy as well as my training in and practice of psychoanalysis having long prevented me from recognizing many facts. Only when I was prepared to end my repression, to liberate my childhood from the prison of pedagogic notions and psychoanalytical theories; when I reject the ideology of forgetting and forgiving, allied myself with the abused child, and, thanks to my therapy, learned to feel: only then did I gradually discover my hitherto concealed history.” From the book Banished Knowledge, from the edition 1990, vintage point

“This book [the drama] was written sixteen years ago in keeping with the precepts of psychoanalysis, precepts that I have long since moved beyond and today regarded as misleading. I, therefore, have had to revise the text thoroughly, salvaging those parts I still regard as valid and useful while clarifying certain points more than I was able to in 1978” From the Drama of the Gifted Child, edition 1994, introduction, page 1

Comments from the blog The Pain of a Mother

Liliane: I totally agree with your words and I feel sad that her excellent and very important work is brought into discredit by people like DM, BR, and MM. In their writings and words, you can read how they idealize, devalue and show signs of grandiosity. As you can read in the interview with Die Welt-15.10. MM says that it was thanks to his therapeutic work and with his book that the theory of his mother survives! However, it is clear to me that they are stuck in the repressed feelings of their childhood and that brings others in confusion and pain.

Sylvie: I am glad to see that are other people out there that can see it too. Sometimes I feel alone in my perceptions, how BR, DM, and MM are twisting Alice Miller’s work to manipulate the perceptions of others and deceive them. It’s very clear to me too that they are stuck in their repressed feelings and suffer from grandiosity. And they allow the fantasies of revenge of the child they once were into actions that bring others confusion and pain. It’s sad beyond words.

Also, read my blogs in the links below:

Then Pain of a Mother

In Most Cases is a Lie

Don’t let Others Exploit your Repressed Anger to do Harm

Psychoanalysis and most therapies hinders people’s liberation and autonomy

Open letter to Martin Miller 

Sadly the World is Full of Charlatans that Keep us Distracted and Numb

Self-help guru Wayne W. Dyer dies at 75

"He was born Wayne Walter Dyer in Detroit and grew up in a series of foster care homes. His father was an alcoholic who left the family when Dyer was 3.” Quote from the article in the link above.

I didn’t know much about his childhood, but I am not one bit surprised to learn he was abandoned as a child. He escaped his pain with the aid of his sharp intellect to recycle and package the same old seductive lies and disconnected half-truths that have been passed down from generation to generation since the beginning of time, to numb his childhood pain. It helped him survive in his emotional prison for 75 years without becoming a violent criminal, and with his books numbed also millions of people from their own pain. He helped people survive in their emotional prisons but didn’t free them. 

For years, I was distracted from feeling my own childhood pain by his books and Deepak’s books. I remember going to listen to him and Deepak in the nineties when they would come to Phoenix, Arizona, and I was totally hooked by their seductive, feel-good speeches; it was like taking a drug! I wasted so many years with these charlatans and the 12 steps! Sorry if charlatan is too complex a word, but that’s precisely what they are. 

He was a cult leader, and the world is full of cult leaders like him that keep people numb and distracted from their own painful truths. They pass on to others their own unresolved childhood repression under the illusion of love.

I wrote in my book A Dance to Freedom, pages 126 and 127, “Ultimately, I realized that self-help books and 12-step programs offer a false hope at best. I’m convinced that people who put their faith in these types of things — or in psychologists, psychiatrists, or any cult leader for that matter — are avoiding the real causes of their problems and are just masking their symptoms instead. The seductiveness of the quick fixes offered by traditional treatments and therapies is very powerful, and even if they don’t work, they offer at least temporary relief from the fear and pain of our abused younger selves. In the best of cases, groups like Al-Anon can momentarily help people cope with unhealthy situations and survive another day inside their emotional prisons, but they can’t resolve people’s problems. Everyone I encountered in Al-Anon was just reenacting his or her childhood drama like everyone else. The unhealthy, cult-like devotion they invested in the group was actually getting in the way of their true happiness because the group was just filling in for their parents and keeping them blind to the truth. In an email to a reader, Alice Miller writes that “even smart people become stuck in confusion for years if the ‘healers’ demand from them the same as the parents did from the child: to stay blind, to forgive, to make amends, not to make troubles. The fear of the parents, stored up in the body, can make a person obedient and sick forever. I hope that you can overcome this fear by seeing through the hypocrisy of your helpers.”62 “It is a great mistake to imagine that one can resolve traumas in a symbolic fashion,” Alice Miller writes in The Drama of the Gifted Child. “If that were possible, poets, painters, and other artists would be able to resolve their pain through creativity. This is not the case, however. Creativity helps us channel the pain of trauma into symbolic acts; it doesn’t help us resolve it. If symbolic revenge for maltreatment received in childhood were effective, then dictators would eventually stop humiliating and torturing their fellow human beings. As long as they choose to deceive themselves about who really deserves their hatred, however, and as long as they go on feeding that hatred in symbolic form instead of experiencing and resolving it within the context of their own childhood, their hunger for revenge will remain insatiable.”63

The question to Alice Miller and her answer below came to mind:

Borut Petrovic Jesenovec: Human blindness to abuse can be astonishing. Even when confronted with their own obvious abuse, people still believe in the myth of being loved, and keep abusing their children (and children of others). How would you most effectively "open their eyes" to what they are doing? Is this possible at all?

Alice Miller: I can’t open the eyes of others; they will quickly close them again, and they don’t want to see – or they are afraid to see – the truth because they expect to be punished by their parents or by God who represents them. I can only open my own eyes and say what I am seeing. And sometimes people feel encouraged to open one eye or even both. They are then surprised that they were not punished, that they feel even relief since they have stopped betraying themselves.

Above excerpt from How to Combat Denial

An interview was given by Alice Miller to Borut Petrovic Jesenovec in July 2005

Monica's Facebook comment: Cannot, not agree with you. I would like to think he is different from Deepak and Osho type of illusionists, i.e., he was genuine and believed what he 'prescribed' in his books to help people, even though they were 'aspirins' not 'antibiotics', unlike money-making machines like Osho, Tony Robbins, Deepak, who exploit desperate human beings.

Sylvie Imelda Shene they used to be my favorite charlatans! I loved listening to them both! They were my medication for many years!!! They are essentially the same, selling an illusion, just packaged differently, and you might have just preferred his version.

If Monica Chelagat sold his product knowing it was an illusion, that would be charlatanism and unforgivable.

Sylvie Imelda Shene is a charlatan, even if he believes his own illusions and seductive lies, simply because people are fooled by their own seductive lies. It doesn't make them less of a fraud.


More comments from the sharing of this post on Facebook:

Donald Warner Parker "Resolving childhood repression is the vaccine against the charlatans of the world who exploit those who are still emotionally blinded by the unresolved, repressed emotions of the children they once were." --Sylvie Imelda Shene quote from her book A Dance to Freedom: Your Guide to Liberation from Lies and Illusions, page 172

Sylvie Imelda Shene, Yes, Donald, resolving our childhood repression is the vaccine against the lies of the charlatans of the world who exploit those who are still emotionally blinded by the unresolved, repressed emotions of the child they once were.
I have no doubt that if I had not resolved my childhood repression, I would not have survived the mob of psychopaths at my last job, attacking me with their lies and methodically orchestrated smear campaign to destroy me, so they could go on as usual with their pretty facades that hide their true evil selves. I can only imagine how many souls they have destroyed and murdered in their lifetime. I’m probably the only one they set out to conquer, and they were not able to. I guess they didn’t believe what I wrote in my book, and they were confident they could destroy me like all the people they had killed in their past who had confronted and challenged them.

Also, read  Gurus and Cults Leaders: How They Function

To read more about my experiences with the mob of sociopaths or narcissists at my last job, read my blog, Experienced Knowledge.