Dear Sylvie,
Thanks for your latest e.mail!
yes, I think we live in times, where the unsolved emotional problems unfold more intensely and become even more obvious than in the last decade.
there is so much disrespect and destruction all over the world, and very much so in the digital world, as well as in any other aspect of our lives... (health, society, etc.)
nevertheless, I still use youtube and found this piece performed by Muriel Anderson. I didn't know her and I have no clear idea, how her music found me. but I like to listen to this "strange" guitar and I learned, that the song "vincent" by mc lean is about vincent van Gogh. (whom of course is on another victim, who unfortunately stayed trapped in his childhood drama...)
Here is the link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?
It's Saturday night... do you have to work? I sit here at home and don't want to escape too much from the rotten reality we live in. but maybe you like to listen to this piece :)
Dear Sylvie, we have to be very careful all the time and I find it especially hard to deal with my emotions, not suppressing them and not acting out...
Take good care
hugs
J
Dear J,
Glad to see you are hanging in there! Thank you for sharing the music video. Beautiful! Now, I work weekends and I'm off Tuesdays and Wednesdays but Sundays it's slow at work and I just listened to it!
We have to be very careful with everyone, family or not family. Now, my niece, that was born on the same day as you, can't handle her emotions and is lashing out at scapegoats and is mad at me because I didn't go along with her in attacking and humiliating her aunt and cousin in front of the family group on Facebook. Now, out of revenge is making all my private messages, where sometimes I talk about my other family members' psychological assessments.
I know dealing with emotions and consciously feeling them in the context of our childhood is not easy but it's the only way to liberate ourselves and become a conscious responsible adults.
All these years she has been paying attention to me was not to learn from me on how to deal with our emotions when triggered by present events, heal and grow as a person but to gain ammunition to use one day! And is turning out her level of narcissism or repression to be the most dangerous!
I'm glad her charade is over... and now I'm free from her... I'm at the point in my life I just want to be left alone by everyone, family or not family!
Hang in there,
Hang in there,
Sylvie
A NARCISSIST IS STUCK IN CHILDHOOD AND WILL NEVER GROW UP. THEY BELIEVE THAT THEY ARE PERFECT, AND IT'S THE WORLD AROUND THEM THAT MUST CATER TO THEM.
Beware of opportunistic people who suddenly appear when you are going through hard times and you're most vulnerable --- disguised as good samaritans --- they eagerly offer advice and assistance. In reality, they are there to pick the meat off your bones.
Malignant narcissists want to control everyone around them so they don't have to face and feel their own painful truths and face the fears of being alone.
I see clearly, Now! They took my words I wrote in private to use as ammunition to attack each other anonymously by breaking into the Facebook pages of two old ladies. What do we call people like that? Oh, I know! We call them Cowards! They hate each other, but here is proof that they are each other's mirrors, and the only difference between them is that one is better off financially and her violence is more overt and the other her violence is more covert or passive-aggressive.
I guess the shoe fits them because both blocked me in anger. It's bitter and sweet at the same time. I'm sad and happy at the same time. When people can't handle looking in the mirror and taking responsibility for their own actions and mistakes. it's better they remove themselves from your life. I always speak my truth and I refuse to walk on eggshells for anyone, family or not family and I don't care how much money you have.
Sylvie's place: I Guess the Shoe Fits Him
https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2015/07/i-guess-shoe-fits-him.html
She wants to win at all costs, but always someone will come along down the road that will beat you at your own game. It's just a matter of time. By refusing to play the game you will save your life but for that, you have to face your own painful truths. And this is why people go on playing the games people play until the very end because they are too afraid to face the fears of resolving childhood repression. They rather kill or be killed than face their own painful truths.
"Sylvie's place: For a sociopath, winning is all"
Free and genuinely happy people are magnets for narcissists. And I'm a magnet for narcissists and the red flags are always there! But the moment they discover I will not allow them to use me to act the part they want me to play in their twisted dramas, they remove themselves from my life! And I could not be happier!
I'm too happy and free to have my feelings hurt. No matter what anyone does or says...
Could not agree more with the words below!
"What happens to us in life is not the most important thing in the end. Rather, the most important thing is what we do with our lives."
– Dr. Edith Eger - psychologist and Holocaust survivor
All the time she spent with me was not to grow as a person but to use me to get enlightened information to give her an advantage in the games people play.
Narcissists are all the same: Idealize, devalue and discard. When in the idealize phase, they mimic you to T to fool you that they are like you. She mimicked me perfectly.
Anything you get from a narcissist always comes with strings attached.
People work very hard behind the scenes to keep the real state of affairs hidden from public view
What's a scandal?! That's when the real state of affairs behind the scenes breaks through and
is exposed for everyone to see.
is exposed for everyone to see.
I see people connected all the time by fear, hatred, and by money, but seldom do I see people connected by love.
If you had the good fortune to be introduced to enlightened information you will be tested in life. I'm sad someone close to me failed the test big time. All because of money.
If you are free and healthy you can always make more money! Freedom isn't free!
If you are free and healthy you can always make more money! Freedom isn't free!Freedom ain't free! It comes with a lot of losses. Stop fighting and walk away. Take time to mourn and heal. At the end of mourning, you feel so free and good that you never thought was possible
Some people thrive on drama and chaos, it's a source of supply for them that helps them feel alive.
Turned out she was a much bigger devil than her cousin ever was
In this world, no one goes Scot free without facing and resolving childhood repression. True freedom can't be bought with money
What are most people looking for? Scapegoats, looking for scapegoats! Most people are unconscious and compulsively looking for scapegoats.
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