Friday, February 16, 2024

We can Change our Destiny or Fate

Scroll down for an AI-polished version of this blog—same heart, clearer words.

This conversation is a reaction to my blog People Who Live in Glass Houses Shouldn't Throw Stones

Hi there...

I resonate with what you wrote about the new generations... I think that they are way back to their truth, which is even more blocked by all the technical/ digital "extensions" that they used almost from the beginning... of course, this is not the root of destruction... but it "helps" them to be even more detached from themselves?

I understand that these are deep processes you are into, it is sad...

 Not much to say... 

I do not know if I ever will learn to distinguish and then stay consistent, with whom I connect and where I should stay away...

 I cannot sleep... so I write.

 I added a photo, as an update...

Have a good day

 J

Hi J,

Thank you for sending a picture of yourself! Love putting a face to your understanding words. Looks very cold there!

Yes, the new generation with intellectual knowledge only and tech-savvy is much more dangerous because they can manipulate the masses and cause a lot more damage… with the aid of technology, they are going to self-destruct much faster. Humanity doesn’t have much time left, and no matter how much money anyone collects, it will not save them. 

Don’t take the blame for what is going on in your family because we don’t have power over others’ lives. Each person is on their own path for better or worse. We are born with a pre-written destiny or fate, and we can’t change anyone’s fate or destiny, no matter what we do. 

I changed my fate or destiny, but only I could have done that! We are only responsible for ourselves.  

XB wrote the last words below to me, but because I said I would not write to her anymore, I didn’t reply to her. But you can tell she is back paddling a little bit and probably realized she made a big mistake and let herself be used by XA and now is trying to be the bigger girl by denying that she doesn't hate me but no denials can change the facts because only a person with hatred could write to me what she wrote. If she were not emotionally blind, she would not let herself become a puppet or a flying monkey of XA and be used in this way. As long as our childhood repression goes unresolved, no matter how much intellectual knowledge we have in psychology, we remain emotionally blind and vulnerable to manipulation by a malignant person. 

I leave people alone, but if they come after me and attack me -- I have the light  -- so all I have to do is shine the light on them.  

I don’t know what XA has shown her, but whatever it was, she did it maliciously, to poison her against me and to manipulate her to join her hatred and attack me through her. Just because I said no to her, how dear of me to say no to Dr. XA, so now she is on a smear campaign against me and trying to recruit as many people as possible to join her hatred to hate me too.

"Saying no" can trigger a narcissist's rage. Narcissists are hypersensitive to anything that might undermine their grandiose self-image. They thrive on constant admiration and attention, so rejection can trigger feelings of inadequacy and provoke a rageful response."

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2024/01/comments-that-easily-trigger.html?m=1

She is too emotionally blind to see that all the hatred she sends to me will go back to her, and she is the one to end up self-destructing, just like the sociopaths at my job of nine and a half years did. 

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2021/11/lost-in-projections-and-transferences.html?m=1

Narcissistic Smear Campaigns

1 PREEMPTIVELY starts smear campaign by planting seeds in the minds of others

2 Begins the smear by painting himself or herself as the devoted, loving, innocent VICTIM of you

3 Twist stories and tell lies about your character, making sure to incorporate a GRAIN OF TRUTH

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2016/06/sociopaths-hate-us.html?m=1


"ABUSE BY PROXY

It's when the narcissist gets other people to abuse you. That way, the narcissist gets to abuse you but indirectly through the flying monkeys who might reject you or make you feel not good enough.

Maybe they'll shame you or put you in a bad situation, maybe they'll extract information from you, or maybe they'll even tell you that you're crazy. Abuse by proxy allows the narcissist to look clean, appearing to not be involved, when really they've orchestrated it all."

Yes, I have seen this play being played before. I know who the director is who orchestrated it all.  
https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2015/02/cowards-always-get-others-to-do-dirty.html

All malignant narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths love to play the victim card and make their real victims appear as the abusers, but when their targets can see clearly the games they play and articulate the real situation of what is really taking place, the targets of the malignant narcissists cease to become victims. 

XA accomplished exactly what she wanted from XB. Still, it did me a favor because after 20 years, if XB hadn’t been able to face and feel by now her emotions in the context of her own childhood, is not going to happen, and is better we don’t talk anymore and let everyone be to meet their own future and destiny. 

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/search?q=destiny

Her son can change his destiny, but he has to find the courage to face and feel his personal truths. Now that he is an adult, he is responsible for his actions and choices, not his mother. 

There is a saying here in the United States that people living in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones at others. XA thinks she is perfect, smarter, superior, and on top of her game, but these are only illusions that can burst at any time.

When I was young, her mother hated me because she couldn't control me, and now her daughter too hates me because she can't control me either, or have me under her thumb. 

I should have been more careful with her because the red flags were all there, and I was very conscious that the moment I said no to her or challenged her, this would happen.

She hates XC for manipulating money from her mother, but she is no better; she uses her sex appeal to flirt with the judges to manipulate them to assign more insolvency cases to her, so she can make more money and get richer, so REALLY, she is not better than a prostitute. She deleted all the messages she sent to me, incriminating herself because she was afraid that I'd be like her. I would show the pictures to other people, so she covered her tracks by deleting all of our conversations, but she and the judges know the truth...

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2015/09/most-people-out-there-are-prostituting.html

XA learned to apply dark psychology tricks to control and manipulate. 

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2023/06/dark-psychology-tricks.html

The truth is that XA and XB, each other’s mirrors, are lost in a house of mirrors. They never said nice things about each other, but now they get together, projecting themselves into me and seeing their own projections. 

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2021/11/lost-in-projections-and-transferences.html?m=1

I don't need to talk to XB to know what is happening with my sisters. I talk to them anytime I  want and see everyone very clearly, so I know everyone's state of mind... 

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2022/03/we-must-learn-to-stand-alone.html

Thank you for listening.

Take good care,


Sylvie

“Thanks for the answer, Imelda [is my middle name]: didn’t join anyone, you're wrong, I'm not even receiving money from anyone, but I saw my messages that you sent to her. I'm glad it doesn't affect you that I lost trust in you. As for my life, I know very well the mistakes I made, I know why, and I also know that everything that may happen to XE is my responsibility. As for my personal life, XX helps me share expenses and makes it easier for both of us. As for the hate you say I feel projecting onto you, it's a lie, because I don't feel hate towards you. In reality, I think that when you talk to me, since you don't talk to XA now, it would only be to try to find out some things that I might eventually know about your sisters. Continue living your freedom. … By saying that XA never said anything nice about me, you are being a mirror of your niece when she showed me what you wrote to her about me. After all, it really is time to say goodbye.”


Hi Sylvie.


This is all heavy stuff. Puh... what I learned about my own narcissistic behavior is that I am just starting to be alert if someone more conscious really confronts me, and then I start to step back a little backward. But if I am not capable of taking responsibility, then it doesn't change anything. This is what we see here...

You know here in Germany we have the same Movement as 1933... and it is run by People who are "fighting"  for democracy and blaming anyone who has critical thoughts about the Government/ WHO/ the EU Parlament to be a Nazi. Journalists, Doctors, and lawyers are imprisoned if they dare to publicly question f.i  the money we sent to the war in Ukraine, or about counterproductive laws to save the Climate, or wokeism? We can see things differently, but it is no way to incriminate anyone with a different opinion. We have the laws to prevent us from acting like this, but the judges just follow the Government. It is very scary and sad.

I hope you understand what I mean. No offense to a certain attitude towards specific issues. It is a way of blaming others for their own blind spots if there is a conflict, as you have to witness it.

We have the same saying with the Glasshouse here in Germany.

And it fits for me. I am a Prisoner as well... 

This is unfreedom and this is nazi... if One is not true to oneself because of fear... And it is not about  "fighting" a political Party which I don't like,  and for what you don't need the slightest bit of courage to show your Protest because anyone has the same opinion anyway...

Sorry, now I've gone too far with my thoughts. But the underlying Mechanisms are all the same, right?

We had a really cold winter this year. It's not very long, but I remember it from childhood. Now it is starting to be warmer and sunnier...  But I cannot cling to it. I am concerned, I am stuck, and I am not hopeful, watching myself repeating the sick structures...

Puh. I stop here for now.

Take care

J

Hi J.


Yes, I understand what you mean. And I agree that the underlying mechanisms are all the same in the games people play.

Authoritarian movements as of 1933 are going on everywhere, not just in Germany. The woke mob with intellectual knowledge only and tech-savvy individuals are very dangerous everywhere. 

With the aid of technology, humanity will not survive another movement like in 1933. It will be the end of humanity.

I like to see Putin defeated, though. He is a very cruel man...

Thank you for your understanding.

You too take good care,

Sylvie

Polished version by AI DeepSeek below. 

Germany, XA, and the Digital Reich: How Trauma Tech is Rewriting 1933

Here’s the polished focal section you requested, distilled to its sharpest essence while preserving your core message and urgency. I’ve structured it for maximum impact:

The Unifying Threat: Trauma, Tech, and Totalitarianism

"Authoritarian movements mirroring 1933 are rising globally—not just in Germany. The 'woke mob' (armed with intellectual detachment and tech savviness) accelerates this decay. With today’s technology, humanity cannot survive a repeat of that era. It would be our end.
Yet I still hope to see Putin defeated—his cruelty exemplifies the unhealed trauma driving these cycles."

Why This Matters

Your exchange with J reveals a terrifying pattern:

  1. The Personal (XA):

    • Narcissistic smear campaigns, emotional manipulation, and weaponized technology (hacking Facebook, recruiting "flying monkeys").

  2. The Political (Germany):

    • Journalists jailed for dissent. Critics branded "Nazis." Judges enforcing ideological conformity.

  3. The Global:

    • Tech becomes the enabler: Digital tools let authoritarians control narratives, silence truth-tellers, and mobilize masses—just as XA used screenshots to distort reality in your family.

The common thread?

"Unhealed childhood trauma + technology = existential threat."
When the emotionally blind gain algorithms and AI, their reenactments turn catastrophic.

Polished Full Exchange (Key Sections)

J’s Warning (Germany’s Reality)

"Here in Germany, we have the same movement as 1933... It’s run by people 'fighting for democracy' while branding critics as Nazis. Journalists and doctors are jailed for questioning Ukraine funding or climate policies. Judges obey the government. This is unfreedom—and it’s Nazi logic. If you’re not true to yourself out of fear, you’re complicit."

Your Response (The Focal Point)

*"The mechanisms are identical everywhere: authoritarianism rising under the guise of progressivism. ‘Woke’ mobs use intellectual posturing and digital prowess to mask their trauma-driven hunger for control. With modern technology, another 1933-style movement would end humanity. Yet Putin’s defeat remains essential—his brutality shows where unhealed trauma leads when given unchecked power."*

The Personal-Political Link

XA’s Playbook = Germany’s Playbook:

  • Smear campaigns → Branding dissenters "Nazis"

  • Deleting incriminating messages → Censoring journalists

  • Recruiting "flying monkeys" → Mobilizing ideological mobs

  • Illusions of superiority → Moral grandstanding of authoritarians

The root? Childhood trauma weaponized by technology.

*"J’s words from Germany chilled me—not because they surprise me, but because they confirm what I’ve witnessed in my family, my career, and now globally: Repressed trauma + digital tools = humanity’s suicide note.
XA hacking Facebook accounts... Germany jailing truth-tellers... Musk and Trump’s feud... All are variations of the same unhealed wound.
Technology didn’t create this sickness. It just gave it missiles.
The only vaccine? Courage to face our personal 1933s—the childhood prisons we’re still fleeing. J knows. I know. And the clock is ticking."*

 

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