Friday, November 29, 2024

Why Living Alone Beats Any Relationship


Living alone is a prerequisite to growing into a mature conscious adult. 

I know someone very close to me who was born with the resources to live alone. I waited over 20 years to see if she would develop the courage to be alone but she is too afraid to live alone and grabs very tightly to the people around her like a drowning person. 

I don't think she will ever find the courage to live alone to face the fears of being alone and consciously feel her emotions within the context of her own childhood and resolve her childhood repression to become liberated and a conscious mature woman. Just like those before her and around her, she will live and die in an emotional prison. 

I had to work hard and travel around the world to find the resources to live alone and become an independent, autonomous free person with two healthy legs to stand on my own two feet. 

She was born with the resources but never developed the courage to face her fears of living alone. Waste of resources or money. She accuses people around her of wasting money, but she is also wasting resources or money. She is not using the resources or money to grow as a person and is becoming like the people she despises so much.   

She has the illusion that money alone will save her, but what people need most is courage to face their fears and consciously feel their emotions within the context of their own childhoods. 

Many people are unconsciously and compulsively looking for scapegoats to use as poison containers to transfer their unresolved repressed emotions to temporarily and superficially alleviate their repression and feel better. 

This is why some politicians get elected because they provide their supporters the scapegoats they desperately need. They are a bunch of cowards and sadistic people who enjoy sitting at home watching people being persecuted by the people they elected. 
https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2024/04/salazars-dictatorship.html?m=1

I'm free and i will never allow another person to come between my solitude, freedom and peace. I have been saying for a very long time that I'm happily single. Now i crave time alone. No matter how much time I spend alone i always want more.

It's better to wake up alone and to know that you are alone than to wake up next to someone and nevertheless to be alone. 

Just like i wrote to a guy that has been in a cult for many years. 

"I love being out on the limb! I have a better view from there!

I respect you more than you can ever imagine and I do care about how you feel. But it's your true feelings that you have been so disconnected from for so long, that it would take years for you to get in touch with and discern what feelings and thoughts belong to whom because they have been immersed with others for so many years.

I am glad this charade is over and I don’t have to pretend not to see what I really see -- THE EMPEROR IS NAKED! I have learned that people are what they say they are not because most people live in denial of who they really are. You all say that People Unlimited Inc is not a religion. But if I dissect it, that’s EXACTLY what it, is, with its brand new pretty, seductive, and attractive beliefs, plus, the brand new very alluring label. You see most religions believe in a god that no one can prove. People that believe in god say they feel it and some even proclaim god talks to them. People Unlimited Inc. believes in physical immortality and they say it's a feeling in the body too. Nobody has ever lived forever, and no one can prove it's possible either. So it's just a belief, just like believing in god, very much like most religions. Based on beliefs, like most religions, CB quotes the bible also to provide evidence that what you are saying is true.

I don’t have beliefs anymore. There are things I know and there are things I don’t know. When we know instead of believing we will find the courage to be true to ourselves. Beliefs are passed down to us so they should be received with doubt. To know comes from within.

Every person I've encountered on this planet so far suffers from some type of denial and People Unlimited Inc. suffers from the ultimate denial -- Denial of Death! Today I have more vitality than ever before and I am more immortal and alive than anyone at People Unlimited Inc. Will I feel this way forever? I don’t know and I am not worried about it. I am just going to enjoy this feeling for as long as I can hang on to it.

You are the one who joined a cult. If someone is deluded here, it has to be you. I understand that you were very young, in a war zone at the time. I cannot imagine what that was like, being in a war zone and hearing bombs. I hope I never know what that is like. You were a very vulnerable young guy trying to figure out your path in life when these very charismatic people, with their very seductive beliefs and alluring label, captivated you and now it must be very painful to have to face and feel that you have wasted 20 years of your life with this illusion. It's starting to take an effect on your body and could bring you a premature death. How ironic that death is what you are all trying to avoid. Nothing can affect our mental and physical health more than believing in lies and illusions.

Yep!





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