This blog is about learning to understand all of our feelings and learning to consciously face, feel and experience all of our feelings within the context of our own childhood.
Everything we become and happens to us is connected to childhood. Not every victim becomes an abuser, but every abuser was once a victim of abuse, these are facts, Violence is not genetic, it’s learned.
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Tuesday, December 17, 2024
imposter syndrome
"you don't argue with feelings, but beliefs you can challenge" Very true!
"It has to do with the fact you couldn't be real as a kid." That's how the false self is created!
“Because of his early experiences with his mother, he cannot believe that this need not happen. If he gives way to this fear and adapts himself, the therapy slides over into the realm of the false self,and the true self remains hidden and undeveloped.
It is therefore extremely important that the therapist not allow his own needs to impel him from formulating connections that the patient himself is discovering with the help of his own feelings. Otherwise, he is in danger of behaving like a friend who brings a good meal to a prisoner in his cell, at the precise moment when that prisoner has the chance to escape --- perhaps to spend his first night hungry and without shelter, but in freedom nevertheless. Since this first step into unknown territory would require a great deal of courage, the prisoner may comfort himself with his food and shelter and thus miss his chance and stay in prison.”
Yes, the best gift parents give their children is to resolve their own childhood repression, otherwise, the parents' tragedy is repeated in their children
Yes, it is!
I'm only guilty of sharing my love and insights freely and of staying too long waiting to see if people develop the courage to face their fears of resolving their own childhood repression. I'm getting too old to waste a minute of my life with people who lack the courage to open their eyes to see and feel their own painful truths.
This is an interesting explanation of dissociation. Many people live in a dissociation state, and it's a very dangerous state to live in.
Yep! Distance yourself and let them be to meet their own future and destiny.
Yes, the beauty of being an independent and mature conscious adult is that you can walk away from anyone standing in symbolizing your childhood caregivers reenacting your childhood dramas. Free at last!
True!
Yes, many people are very good actors, acting as if personality pretending to be good people but in reality, are wolves in sheep's clothing.
If you only surround yourself with YES people who tell you only what you like to hear, sooner or later, someone will come along who plays the game better and smarter and will take everything.
Yes, the chickens 🐔 will always come home to roost.
Yes, it's a very nasty game!
Yes, I have stared evil in the face if I had not truly resolved my childhood repression I would not be here to talk about it.
After being the target of a mob of sociopaths conspiring to hurt me I will never look at another human being in the same way.
No, therapy doesn't work on these types of people, once a person has grown into a full-blown malignant narcissist or psychopath, they just waste your time and try to use you for whatever they want and if you ever dare to say no to them, you will become their number one enemy that they must destroy. You will get a target on your back. Run from these types of people as far away as you can.
Very true. If I didn't recognize evil when it tried to touch me I would be done! And I would not be here today!
The devouring mother archetype represents the shadow side of the maternal instinct, where caring and nurturing turns into suffocating overprotectiveness. These mothers stifle their children's growth, leaving them dependent, lacking agency, and emotionally stagnant.
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