Thursday, June 15, 2023

Mad Scientists - Elon Musk

PETA cofounder Ingrid Newkirk says she's sending Elon Musk a third of her heart when she dies because she doesn't think he has one

The article in the link above about Elon Musk being heartless brought to mind the words Alice Miller wrote below in her article Unlived Anger. 

Our world doesn't need more geniuses! What our world needs most is people with the courage to open their eyes to see and feel the real state of affairs. 

"An American professor, for example, has been conducting experiments for years with brain transplants. In an interview with the magazine Tele, he reports that he has already succeeded in replacing the brain of one monkey with that of another. He does not doubt that in the foreseeable future, it will be possible to do the same thing with human beings. 

Readers have a choice here: they can be thrilled at so much scientific progress, or they can wonder how such absurdity can be possible and what purpose such pursuits can serve. But a piece of seemingly unimportant information may produce an "aha" reaction in them, for Professor White speaks of "religious feelings" connected with his endeavor. 

Questioned by the interviewer, he explains that he had a very strict Catholic upbringing and in the opinion of his ten children had been raised like a dinosaur. 

I don't know what is meant by this, but I can imagine that this image refers to antediluvian methods of child-rearing. 

What does that have to do with his scientific work? Perhaps this is the unconscious background for Professor White's experiments: by devoting all his energy and vitality to the goal of one day being able to transplant brains in human beings, he is fulfilling his long-harbored infantile wish to be able to replace his parents' brains. 

Sadism is not an infectious disease that strikes a person all of a sudden. It has a long prehistory in childhood and always originates in the desperate fantasies of a child who is searching for a way out of a hopeless situation."

From the book: “For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence” By Alice Miller
http://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2011/01/unlived-anger.html

"A defenseless child that is tortured and at the same time forbidden to defend itself, to cry, to scream, to rage—to live. A child from whom only obedience and good behavior are expected. The only thing remaining to him, if he has talent, is to develop a dazzling intellect. Life escapes him daily. Abstract thought offers a chance of survival. In the meantime, the body seeks to express its terrible distress in other ways than tears and screams. It produces an endless catalogue of symptoms, in the hope that someone will finally sit up and take notice and perhaps ask the [question]: "What is causing you such distress?" (Alice Miller, on Nietzsche, from Breaking Down the Wall of Silence)

Elon Musk also has shared that he had a not-very-nice childhood but has not resolved the repressed emotions of the child he once was and is running from his painful emotions with his sharp intellect and work, and developing the technology to one day escape to Mars. It's pure madness. 

Definition of life: life is a sexually transmitted incurable disease. I am kidding around, but think about it, it’s true!

It takes courage to see and speak the truth, intelligence alone is not enough, but it rather helps to create a lot of seductive lies that ring like truth.

When we are open and attentive to our true feelings and follow them -- we are being honest -- and as an honest person -- we have better chances to meet other honest people with whom we can connect on a deeper level and that is extraordinary, and definitely worth living for.

When people are not able to face and feel at the conscious level a painful truth, they will always use rationalizations and the intellect to create a smoke screen to hide the facts from themselves and others --- and they rather shoot the messenger than face and feel at the conscious level their own painful truths.

The quote below by Alice Miller could not be truer!  I witness people doing this every day, especially online! People compulsively preach and try to educate others, but they themselves have not been able to face and feel at the conscious level their own painful truths and liberate themselves from their own emotional prison.

“To many people it seems easier to take medication, to smoke, drink alcoholic, preach, educate or treat others, and prepare wars than expose themselves to their own painful truth.” From the book banished knowledge by Alice Miller





Wednesday, June 14, 2023

Singapore found Sylvie's place



"The time when one could deny that sexual seduction is extremely traumatic for children appears to have ended. The more studies that come out on the effects of childhood sexual abuse, the more severe the damage is found to be. The flood of books and articles documenting the emotional problems of victims both in childhood and in later life has to be read in detail to appreciate the profound sense of betrayal and the terrifying fears felt by the child so that even single incidents have the power to permanently ravage their lives. Severe somatic reactions, depersonalization, self-hatred, hysterical seizures, depression, borderline personality formation, promiscuity, sexual dysfunctions, suicide, self-mutilation, night terrors and flashbacks, multiple personalities, post-traumatic stress disorders, delinquency, bulimia, and the overall stunting of feelings and capacities have all been documented – the earlier and the more often the abuse, the worse the damage." -- Lloyd DeMause
Above excerpt from the article The Universality of Incest by Lloyd DeMause www.psychohistory.com/articles/the-universality-of-incest/
Psychohistory Articles Menu www.primal-page.com/psyhis.htm#menu
"Yes, we can say this without any hesitation. Every behavior that is directed against the health of a person, that hinders the healthy functioning of the body and mind, is a repetition of once-endured mistreatment, neglect, confusion, lies, betrayal, perverted practices, and the exploitation of the child." Alice Miller

Tuesday, June 13, 2023

A Dance to Freedom -- A Must-Read for anyone navigating life with unresolved childhood trauma!

Today I was notified that I had a new five-star review on Amazon.com

"The author writes with such beautiful candor and shares of her life story to enlighten and inspire others to learn their truth too…So well written and a must read for anyone who feels stuck in life and wants to break free and learn to live again!!!"

https://www.amazon.com/gp/customer-reviews/RL9P1IT4EI8AG/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_rvw_ttl?ie=UTF8&ASIN=1539859886

You can read more reviews of my book at the link below: 

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/search?q=A+Dance+to+Freedom+Book+Reviews


Sunday, June 11, 2023

THE ROOTS OF HORROR: The Suicide Taboo by Arthur Silber

 "Alice Miller's writings explain a great deal that otherwise remains mystifying. In particular, her identification of the precise mechanism by means of which an authentic self is prevented from being formed allows us to see that, in the deepest sense, a genuine soul -- an "I," if you will -- never has a chance to exist in far too many instances. And crucially related to this absence is an inability to remember in a meaningful way, or often even to acknowledge, the pain that we ourselves have experienced -- and this denial then prevents us from realizing the pain of others. This lack of a self, and the obedience to authority to which that lack is tied -- since we must find guidance from some source, and if it is not ourselves, it will be some external authority -- also lets us see why people desperately hold onto ideas which they otherwise would easily see to be nonsense, whether it is an incomprehensible, contradictory, unintelligible supernatural being, or some kind of totalitarian ideology." -- Arthur Silber

Above excerpt from the article THE ROOTS OF HORROR:

The Suicide Taboo by Arthur Silber

https://thesacredmoment.blogspot.com/search?q=THE+ROOTS+OF+HORROR%3A+The+Suicide+Taboo



Thursday, June 8, 2023

'Don't bring kids into this world now': AI expert issues chilling warning over new tech

"An AI expert who once worked for Google has said prospective parents should hold off having kids until the tech is controlled - because of the potentially catastrophic effect it could have.

Speaking on an episode of the Diary of a CEO podcast, Mo Gawdat, an ex-chief business officer at Google X, warned risks caused by artificial intelligence in the immediate future outweigh even the potential devastation which could be caused by climate change.

...The whizz said that AI is part of a “perfect storm” of significant threats entire societies are facing.

He added: "The risks are so bad, in fact, that when considering all the other threats to humanity, you should hold off from having kids if you are yet to become a parent".

When podcast host Steven Bartlett asked if he would “seriously consider” this, Gawdat replied that “I would wait a couple of years”, adding that it is “bigger than artificial intelligence”.

Gawdat continued: “There has never been such a perfect storm in the history of humanity. Economic, geopolitical, global warming, climate change, the whole idea of AI, this is a perfect storm, the depth of uncertainty…it has never been more intense.

“If you really loved your kids would you really want to expose them to all this?”

The latest message of caution comes after a dire warning by several AI pioneers in an open letter asking developers to pause for six months in order to allow for regulations to catch up." Read more Here https://www.express.co.uk/news/world/1777980/ai-expert-warns-against-having-kids

I have been saying for a very long time that humanity is insane and with the aid of technology is going to destroy itself much faster. I don't see a positive outcome at all.

Not having children that's what I'm most proud of! I was a very young child when I realized this world is messed up and I made a conscious decision to not bring children to this crazy world. I promised myself that the pain would stop with me. 

The great malady of our society, implicated in all our troubles and affecting us individually and socially, is the idealization of our parents and childhood and the denial of childhood suffering.

When we idealize our parents and childhood and deny childhood suffering, it does not go away. It appears symptomatically in obsessions, addictions, violence, greed, deceit, and loss of meaning. Our temptation is to isolate these symptoms or try to eradicate them one by one, but the root problem is the idealization of our parents and childhood and the denial of childhood suffering. https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2022/05/the-great-malady-of-our-society.html

The conversation about the effects of childhood repression in our society needs to start happening in the stage of the world, sooner rather than later, if we want to save ourselves and humanity from falling off the cliff and committing mass suicide. https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2016/07/the-conversation-about-effects-of.html

I did my part to help heal the world by healing myself and publishing my book A Dance to Freedom: Your Guide to Liberation from Lies and Illusions sharing my life experiences and psychological discoveries. 

So other people can also heal themselves.  As long as people's childhood repression goes unresolved -- they will be shackled into the chains of compulsion repetition -- and it doesn't matter how well anyone articulates very nice ideas... 

The problem is not a lack of knowledge and educated people, there are plenty of educated people with intellectual knowledge, the problem is an emotional blockage with the so-called “professionals” or “educated people” hiding behind their rationalizations and seductive theories to protect themselves from having to face and feel their own emotional pain.  It takes courage to see, face, and feel our painful truths. Intelligence alone is not enough; it rather helps create seductively, rationalizations, theories, illusions, and lies.

Education alone is just another illusion. Resolving childhood repression is the only long-term solution for people to stop following blindly political leaders. And that is a lot more difficult!!! 

"I wonder how the high colleges managed to produce so many high asses." Paracelsus

Alice Miller explains beautifully in her book For Your Own Good: hidden cruelty in child-rearing and the Roots of Violence page 42 and 43: "Just as in the symbiosis of the "diaper stage," there is no separation here of subject and object. If the child learns to view corporal punishment as "a necessary measure" against "wrongdoers," then as an adult he will attempt to protect himself from punishment by being obedient and will not hesitate to cooperate with the penal system. 

In a totalitarian state, which is a mirror of his upbringing, this citizen can also carry out any form of torture or persecution without having a guilty conscience. 

His "will" is completely identical to that of the government. Now that we have seen how easy it is for intellectuals in a dictatorship to be corrupted, it would be a vestige of aristocratic snobbery to think that only "the uneducated masses" are susceptible to propaganda. Both Hitler and Stalin had a surprisingly large number of enthusiastic followers among intellectuals. Our capacity to resist has nothing to do with our intelligence but with the degree of access to our true selves. Indeed, intelligence is capable of innumerable rationalizations when it comes to the matter of adaptation. 

Educators have always known this and have exploited it for their own purposes, as the following proverb suggests: "The clever person gives in, the stupid one balks." 

For example, we read in a work on child raising by GrĂ¼nwald (1899): "I have never yet found willfulness in an intellectually advanced or exceptionally gifted child" (quoted in Rutschky). Such a child can, in later life, exhibit extraordinary acuity in criticizing the ideologies of his opponents--and in puberty even the views of his own parents-- because in these cases his intellectual powers can function without impairment. 

Only within a group--such as one consisting of adherents of an ideology or a theoretical school--that represents the early family situation will this person on occasion still display a naĂ¯ve submissiveness and uncritical attitude that completely believe his brilliance in other situations. Here, tragically, his early dependence upon tyrannical parents is preserved, a dependence that--in keeping with the program of "poisonous pedagogy"--goes undetected. This explains why Martin Heidegger, for example, who had no trouble in breaking with traditional philosophy and leaving behind the teachers of his adolescence, was not able to see the contradictions in Hitler's ideology that should have been obvious to someone of his intelligence. He responded to this ideology with an infantile fascination and devotion that brooked no criticism.” Having special talents is wonderful and it’s okay to cash in your talents for a living, but when people hide behind their talents, fame, and money to hide their own personal truth and keep themselves and others distracted from the truth and facts -- then you are misusing your talents -- and contributing for the lies to spread and silently or covertly you are part of all the violence and atrocities we are witnessing in our world. So if people think they are better than others, because they have special talents, they are being delusional.


Friday, June 2, 2023

Humanity is on the Path to Destroy Itself




To me, humanity has passed the point of no return

Go down trying to wake up humanity from the dangers of childhood repression in our society,  It's the stage I'm in also. but only when I don't have anything else I like to do, because I think it's too late, but if it helps one lost soul find freedom my work will not be a total waste. 

I lost hope for humanity in 2014 after I published my book sharing my life experiences and psychological discoveries. 

After that, I became the target of very bad actors in the workplace. 

I know a few young people very close to me who are in the tech world and believe me, I know they had a horrific childhood and are dangerously repressed.

Many people with unresolved childhood repression have grown into full-blown sociopaths, malignant narcissists, psychopaths, bad actors, or whatever you like to call them.

These "bad actors" are secretly suicidal and homicidal, but they don’t have the courage to do it themselves, so they play mind games trying to manipulate others to do their evil acts, so they can go out playing the ultimate victim role and they don’t care if innocent victims are hurt or killed in the process also, it’s all collateral damage in their eyes, they only care that they themselves to be seen in the public eye as the victim and their real victim to be seen as the abuser, so the more we try to educate the public about the malignant narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths' games and how they are wolves in sheep’s clothing, we will never know if we are preventing one more tragedy from happening in our world. Keeping silent can destroy lives and can kill. 

People in the tech world create IA to eventually destroy us all so they can unconsciously or consciously blame IA for it
https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2015/09/narcissists-are-secretly-suicidal-and.html?m=1

Thursday, June 1, 2023

Why the Narcissistic Discard Might Be Permanent

https://youtube.com/shorts/bWMsMr08wnU?feature=share4

https://youtube.com/shorts/LVTq7B_tvY0?feature=share4

Been there done that. I wrote my memoir sharing my life experiences and psychological discoveries.

Now, the only place narcissists can get close to me is in the workplace, but I'm now 64 years old, and I will be leaving the workplace soon for good.

Once the narcissist knows that you know their true nature, you will get a target on your back. Because of my book, eventually, the narcissists in the workplace find out, and since I published my book, I have become the target of three psychological warfare in the workplace and I had to change jobs 3 times!

At my job of nine and a half years right after I published my book I became the target of a mob of narcissistics that with their very well-orchestrated psychological warfare were hoping I would lose my mind. They wanted me dead, in jail or a mental hospital.

But when was one of them to lose his mind and commit a crime all became silent.

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2015/02/emotional-abuse-in-workplace.html

All malignant narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths love to play the victim card and make appear their real victims to be the abusers, but when their targets are able to see clearly the games they play and articulate the real situation of what really is taking place; the targets of the malignant narcissists cease of becoming a victim.

If it was me, the little woman to commit a crime my name and face would have been splashed all over the news stations! And then all probably go on TV talking about how disturbed the little woman was -- to discredit me and my book --and make a name for themselves by standing on my head. 

And all probably say that you need God in your life, my ex-boss was a Mormon, a man of God, but he was the one to lose his mind, but now is a big cover-up. I could see their games and traps so clearly.