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Most People’s Love is Nothing But a Farce, a Sham, and a Façade
The property manager and members of the board at Sxxxxxxxr tried very hard to make me pay the price for their parent's crimes, they are nothing but cowards. ".Am I saying that forgiveness for crimes done to a child is not only ineffective but actively harmful? Yes, that is precisely what I am saying. The body does not understand moral precepts. It fights against the denial of genuine emotions and for the admission of the truth to our conscious minds. This is something the child cannot afford to do, it has to deceive itself and turn a blind eye to the parents’ crimes in order to survive. Adults no longer need to do this, but if they do, the price they pay is high. Either they ruin their own health or they make others pay the price – their children, their patients, the people who work for them, etc." -- Alice Miller
From the article, Deception Kills Love by Alice Miller
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