They can't break me, they either look in the mirror and face their own repression or they can keep on running looking for new targets to destroy to boost their egos and keep their own repression intact. Never going to ignore the red flags again.
Hurting and destroying others lives is the sociopaths and psychopaths painkilling drug. It's an addiction that keeps their own childhood repression intact. Just like I wrote in my book A Dance to Freedom page 118: "... as long our pain remains repressed we will unconsciously and compulsively do to others what was once done to us."
"This is because abusers are attracted to someone they think will be a "challenge" to break.
... Victims of psychological abuse are most often the kind of people you wouldn't think would be vulnerable to such a thing. According to Shannon Thomas, a therapist, and author of the book "Healing from Hidden Abuse," success and strength are actually what attract abusive narcissists and psychopaths to their targets.
"Psychological abusers are attracted to what is going on within the person's life that is shiny, glamorous, or exciting, or successful, or dynamic, or vibrant," she told Business Insider. "That's what is attracting, kind of like a moth to a light, this kind of psychological perpetrators because they want to initially get something positive from that person."
Once the perpetrator is attached to that relationship, whether it's in a work environment or a romantic relationship, Thomas says they will then start to try to tear down the qualities and success that drew them there to begin with." Read more in the link below. Great article.
http://www.businessinsider.
Also like Marie France Hirigoyen wrote in her book Stalking the Soul
"WHO IS TARGETED
Contrary to what their aggressors have others believe, victims are not, at the outset, particularly weak or mentally unhealthy individuals. Quite the opposite: harassment is often set in motion when a victim refuses to give in to a boss’s authoritarian procedures. She is targeted because of her capacity to resist authority, even under pressure. …" Read more HERE
Read my blog Experienced Knowledge about my experience with emotional harassment in the workplace.
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