The words below are so true. That is what I witnessed while I was a guest in a group/cult. The person that invited me was very nice at first, but the moment I started sharing my concerns about the top leaders, it was like they were gods, and pointing out any of their wrongs, was a no, no and he would get really annoyed with me for doing it and even mean. Unconsciously he rather has health problems and protect the leaders than see them as they really are, very sad.
You can read more about this cult in the links below:
https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/search?q=People+unlimited+
Also, this has been my experience in the workplace, especially, since I published my book A Dance to Freedom: Your Guide to Liberation from Lies and Illusions. With my book they learn, I can see through their BS and I become their target they must destroy, so they can go on with their lies, illusions, and mind games as usual. But coming after me they end up exposing themselves and eventually they are the ones to self-destruct. Just like my boss at my job of nine and a half years did in 2016. He treated me like a criminal but he was the one to turn out to be the criminal. But now is a big cover-up. If it was me, the little woman to commit a crime my name and face would have been splashed all over the news stations! And then all probably go on TV talking about how disturbed the little woman was -- to discredit me and my book --and make a name for themselves by standing on my head.
https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2017/09/big-cover-up-by-sociopaths-at-my-ex-job.html
“Authoritarian personalities are ones that “kiss above and kick below”, in other words, they are loyal to their leaders, but will attack those of lower rank. They also protect their “in-group” and attack the “out-group”. Social Dominance Orientation (SDO) personalities, on the other hand, tend to be those who lead the authoritarians, they are more interested in being on top.”
The words above describe exactly my boss for the last almost 4 years.
"What can you do?
Unfortunately, this is a type of personality disorder, and there is little you can do when working for or with this type of person. If you are working for this person long term, you need to leave the organization or company as soon as possible. Their negativity will be extremely stressful and ultimately do damage to your career.
Do not think you can talk to the person and ask them to consider changing. They do not allow anyone to challenge them, and they despise admitting mistakes. In fact, if you are questioning their decisions or behavior, they have already put a plan in motion to whisper about your own competency or value to the company or organization."
Very true that's why I worked with the target on my back for so long! I survived almost 4 years working with this kind of boss but finally, I left last week because was starting to affect my physical and mental health. No Job is Worth Health Destruction.
https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2022/11/no-job-is-worth-health-destruction.html
https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/search?q=primal+therapy
"The goal of abusive individual is to gain or maintain power by whatever means possible or else to mask his own incompetence.
In order to accomplish this, he must get rid of anyone who impedes his progress or sees through him."
Stalking the Soul: Emotional Abuse and Erosion of Identity by Marie-France Hirigoyen page 71
https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2015/02/stalking-soul.html?m=1
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