Wednesday, September 4, 2019

The Media Creates False Heroes and Only Pays Attention to False Heroes

One more illusion... I'm always amazed at how the masses fall for false heroes and the illusions they sell. Humanity has been trapped in a bubble since the beginning of time, unconsciously and compulsively reenacting the old painful dramas. Evil is born anew with every new generation.

The real conversation should be about the dangers of childhood repression in our society. Until this conversation starts happening on a global stage, no matter what Greta or anyone else says, it will not stop humanity from self-destructing. If people resolve childhood repression, it will stop hurting the environment, themselves, and others.
"When haters go after your looks and differences, it means they have nowhere left to go. And then you know you’re winning!
I have Asperger’s syndrome, and that means I’m sometimes a bit different from the norm. And - given the right circumstances - being different is a superpower.
I'm not public about my diagnosis to "hide" behind it, but because I know many ignorant people still see it as an "illness", or something negative. And believe me, my diagnosis has limited me before.
Before I started school, I had no energy, no friends, and I didn’t speak to anyone. I just sat alone at home with an eating disorder.
All of that is gone now, since I have found a meaning in a world that sometimes seems meaningless to so many people."
My comments on Greta Thunberg's Facebook post above:

Sylvie:In this world, there are no winners. In the end, everyone loses. These words most likely didn't come from her. The adults around her wrote them and are exploiting her to feed their own unconscious needs. This is what's wrong with the world: adults exploiting children.

Zé, Exactamente, Sylvie.

Sylvie: , the media creates false heroes and pays attention only to them because these false heroes keep the public distracted from the real roots of society's problems and are easy to manipulate. The established media will never pay attention to real heroes unless they are forced to do it, because real heroes require everyone to look in the mirror, and that's the last thing anyone wants to do, especially those in the media.

Just as I wrote in my book A Dance to Freedom: your guide to liberation from lies and illusions, pages 144 and 145:

“Thanks to Alice Miller, I came to understand that the widespread repression of early traumas is the great malady of our society. If we look closely enough, we can see that this repression is responsible for most of our individual troubles and our societal ills. It appears symptomatically in illnesses, obsessions, addictions, violence, greed, deceit, and loss of meaning. And it can lead to cruelty, violence, and criminal behavior. So many of us carry on as if all this perverse behavior is normal, while most of us who really want to find a way out go down the wrong path. All too often, we follow false prophets who get us to believe that eradicating individual symptoms is the way to solve our problems. Little do we know that in doing so, we always fail to get to the real heart of the matter — the denial and repression of childhood suffering. When I read about these ideas in Alice Miller’s books, I felt as if this amazing woman was talking directly to me! For once, someone was finally able to cut through all the BS pushed on me by people I could never figure out and through techniques that never worked — that could never work. All these people and techniques did was cement and strengthen the walls of my repression, making me feel like I used to feel as a child — that I was stupid and that something was wrong with me. The fact that I couldn’t do the techniques correctly or follow the advice of these people only added to my feelings of guilt and shame. By the time I had fully committed to Alice Miller’s teachings, I was already starting to feel what I learned I had to feel — the pain I had repressed from my childhood.”

The media doesn't tell the whole story. They only report tragic, disconnected stories that they can exploit for pure sensationalism. They provide the public with half-truths and misleading information to manipulate the masses and maintain the status quo. Read more HERE


https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2017/04/the-silence-from-media-is-deafening.html?fbclid=IwAR3GDoP0mIjmGEhUpxS0kWIQj-OGNaI0WFjw7gk9OZWPvOhM9_I_ulnHEXU

As long as people's childhood repression goes unresolved, they will be driven by the repressed emotions of the child they once were to destroy the lives of the next generation. This has been going on since the beginning of human history. Evil is born anew with every new generation.
Alice Miller is a true hero, but the media doesn't pay much attention to them. Read her article at the link below.
https://www.alice-miller.com/en/the-ignorance-or-how-we-produce-the-evil/
I agree with the comment above, but once someone has been elevated to cult leader status, if you say anything, the followers will attack you viciously, but it's sad because this 16-year-old has no idea what is happening to her -- that she's nothing but a pawn being exploited by the sociopaths in the stage of the world.

Interesting article in the link below:
SEVERN CULLIS-SUZUKI CANADIAN This 1992 video of then-12-year-old Severn Cullis-Suzuki addressing the U.N. Earth Summit in Rio de Janeiro, titled "The girl who silenced the world for 5 minutes,"
Caught red-handed. Tactics of distractions to save the real culprits of the catastrophic crises in this world.
Let the scripters come to the stage and play openly, instead of playing the parrots.
Read more in the link below:

Sylvie: I remember her! It's sad to witness these young people's repressed fears being exploited and becoming puppets. We live in a world of puppets and puppeteers.

Monica: Sylvie. These are adolescents being used by the system, and it is convenient for parents who distract them from their responsibilities in managing the difficult phase that many go through.

Sylvie: M, it's very sad. These adolescents are the classic case of the Drama of the Gifted Child. I always want to scream when adults say how articulate and well-spoken she is --- YES, she's gifted, but that doesn't mean she understands the dynamics of the reenactments she's creating on the stage of the world and what is really happening to her. My sister, who is three years older than I, was gifted in the same way, and her adult life is a tragedy. When adults assign the role of hero to a child, they are setting children up for failure as adults, because no one can save us but ourselves. Most gifted children's adult lives are tragic because they never manage to escape this trap.

M Sylvie, Right. Too convenient for parents when their adolescent is distracted from issues that concern them, too. The puppeteers take advantage of willing parents to use their children. Greta is said to be autistic, too. She could well be. She seems genuinely mad about a problem so far beyond her capacities. Without the puppeteers, she has no platform and no heat with royalties to cross the Pacific. Whatever she feels, she is a puppet for corporatists.

Sylvie:  M, totally! I could not agree more with what you wrote. When she yelled at the politicians in the UN - that they have stolen her childhood - she doesn't realize that the politicians on the stage of the world -- they are just symbolizing her parents -- the ones that really stole her childhood -- we cannot ever liberate ourselves from the emotional prison of our childhood with unconscious reenactments with people symbolizing our parents or childhood caregivers. If she had posed a threat by exposing the system's manipulative tactics, she would have been ignored, rejected, or attacked, just as I was after I published my book. She's being embraced by the system because they can exploit and use her to manipulate the emotionally blind society.

Bruce: Sylvie -- You must be kidding, saying she's not being attacked just like you were. The attacks are all over the media, particularly from the ultra-right-wing conservatives who ridicule and condemn her in the nastiest terms possible.
And what stolen adolescence? She's doing what many young people do or did, including myself, who was also an activist at that age, working in political campaigns of my choosing -- and not being pushed by parents or any adults to do so, not at all.
There are a great many young people who are independent in spirit and seek to forge their own path, irrespective of whatever society, the stifling educational system, and scolding adults seek to do to repress their natural instincts. That is a very good thing, not something to condemn.

Bruce: Sylvie -- "Most gifted children, their adult lives are a tragedy,..." What a sweeping statement to make, a preposterous generalization. I was a gifted child. My life has not been a tragedy, far from it. I have led a life of independence and accomplishment in the fields I chose, doing my part to make the world a better place. And I have seen the gifted children of friends doing truly wonderful things from tender ages, who have become among the most accomplished and happiest people I have ever known, largely because of their fierce independence of spirit. Why people insist on condemning those who choose their own path is beyond me, but I can tell you that I never allowed such people to deter me from my goals, no matter how hard they tried. And I would encourage any bold young person, such as these two being criticized here, to continue to make their own way in the world. Severn Cullis-Suzuki is the daughter of a prominent environmental activist scientist. Of course, she would be far more aware of the issues than most others. She has gone on to have a stellar career of her own. What on earth is wrong with that? Certainly, there is nothing to condemn in her life.

Sylvie: B, yes, she has one side attacking her, but has the other side embracing her and defending her because they can use and exploit her for their own hidden agendas; that's the tragedy of her life; she's lost between both sides and doesn't understand what's really happening to her. That's the difference with me! I was attacked by people on the left and on the right because either side saw me as a threat to expose their manipulative tactics. I can't be used and exploited by either side. We live in a world of puppets and puppeteers.

Sylvie: B, you might act as if you are happy, but I don't feel much happiness in your comments. What I witness is that the world is being run by the once “gifted” and “well-behaved children,” and I don't see much happiness, peace, or love in it. So I would say the world is being fxcked up by the once “gifted” and well-behaved children.
I suggest you read the book The Drama of the Gifted Child

M: B, I have a lot of respect for people who have put their lives on the line for the benefit of others, whether it is child abuse, the environment, or whatever aspect of life they are sensitive to. I abhor people, young or old, who allow themselves to be used by the elite. Before I took a stand on Greta Thunberg, I did my research, and it is clear she is a puppet (she may or may not be fully conscious about it; none of us know her personally). It is clear her parents are accomplices and at the service of the elite (their background and connections are clear indicators, and it is all documentable on the internet). They are elites too. No need for deep knowledge of human psychology; some intuition is enough to connect the dots. You may want to note that my Facebook profile and that of Sylvie Imelda Shene are sufficiently transparent for the public to see who we are and where we stand on issues we choose to share and debate on and why. Back to the 'gifted teenagers'.. The Canadian teenager launched her message on the UN platform but disappeared. If she is a happy and accomplished person, then it was a personal achievement; otherwise, she would have joined the indigenous activists in the forests who risk their lives every day of their entire existence, and some get killed. They have no prestigious scientists or elites/aristocracy supporting them. There cannot be. They are often shareholders in corporations and industries responsible for environmental devastation. Continuing on the teenagers... I have seen this exploitation of emotions in other human tragedies, and the pattern is the same. Greta Thunberg is indefensible. I have no doubt her future will be 'bright' given the trillion-dollar business already in course by her promoters.

Comments From A Facebook Post About Greta's Mother

Sylvie: Being talented and having special gifts doesn't mean anything. It can be used to exploit others. "If a person is exceptionally gifted, they can use that gift to reinforce the refusal of the truth and keep it away from themselves and others.

 ...It is a great mistake to imagine that one can resolve traumas in a symbolic fashion. If that were possible, poets, painters, and other artists would be able to resolve their pain through creativity. This is not the case, however. Creativity helps us channel the pain of trauma into symbolic acts; it doesn't help us resolve it. If symbolic revenge for maltreatment received in childhood were effective, then dictators would eventually stop humiliating and torturing their fellow human beings. As long as they choose to deceive themselves about who really deserves their hatred, however, and as long as they go on feeding that hatred in symbolic form instead of experiencing and resolving it within the context of their own childhood, their hunger for revenge will remain insatiable." Alice Miller

Climate change is a symptom and is just a half-truth that is being exploited by some members of the elite for name recognition and to enrich themselves, so they can build their bunkers to protect themselves from climate change and other threats. 

The root causes of the world's problems are childhood repression, but I don't see that conversation starting anywhere in the stage of the world -- who wants to face their own painful childhood repression?! 

So if we really want to change the world  -- let's start the conversation about the dangers of childhood repression in our society. Greta is being exploited first by her parents and now by everyone else...

Sylvie: J P P, you're welcome to write in Portuguese. I have no trouble reading in Portuguese, but I struggle with writing in Portuguese or any other language due to my dyslexia; however, I have less difficulty writing in English. I don't have time to respond to your last comment, but I've included two blogs I've written that may answer some of your questions.

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2019/10/greta-thunbergs-speech-to-un-strangely.html?m=0

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2019/09/the-media-creates-false-heroes-and-only.html?m=0

Sylvie: I have learned that nothing is ever what it seems. What the public sees and what goes on behind the scenes are two totally different stories. 

Good for her that her bubble has not burst yet, and she is still cashing in on her talents by focusing on symptoms rather than dealing with the root causes of society’s problems. 

We live in a world of puppets and puppeteers, and people are free to give their minds and souls to whoever they choose. 

The world has no lack of good speakers, performers, actors, and actresses. If lectures and sermons by well-articulated speakers worked to change human behavior -- the world would have changed many times over. 

It might help us feel better in the short term, like taking medication, but in the long run, it will make things worse. 

As I wrote in my book A Dance to Freedom: Your Guide to Liberation from Lies and Illusion, pages 75, 76, and 107 

“The extremes to which people go to avoid facing the pain of their own truth — even though such a confrontation would set them free — will never cease to amaze me. “To many people,” Alice Miller says, “it seems easier to take medication, to smoke, drink alcohol, preach, educate or treat others, and prepare wars than expose themselves to their own painful truth.”42 

…too many of us think that simply praising ourselves or visualizing ourselves in perfect circumstances is all we need to do to change. Even those who realize that real change is more difficult still take the easy way out and focus their energy on getting rid of symptoms, instead of searching out the root cause. 

“There are plenty of means to combat symptoms of distress: medications, sermons, numerous ‘treatments,’ ‘miracles,’ threats, cults, pedagogical indoctrination, and even blackmail,” Alice Miller says. “They can all work for a while, but only because they reinforce the repression and reinforce the fear of resolving it.

 … A lot of money and fame comes from this business of repression because it satisfies the longing of so many grown-up children: to be loved as a good child... In the long term, we have to pay a high price for this repression.”58 The typical methods people use to search for answers — which are really ways to run away from the truth — are futile because our real, repressed story continues to attempt to make itself heard no matter what we do. Alice Miller believed that our true plight, the root cause of all our repeated problems, will keep trying to gain our attention in more extreme ways until we finally take notice.”

https://www.facebook.com/josepedro.pinheiro.10/posts/2412820985601599?notif_id=1575511233357368&notif_t=comment_mention

Sylvie: I was not going to make any more comments on this post, but I thought you might like reading the book The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self. In this book, Alice Miller shows how gifted children mastered the art of repression to perfection by developing a false self to accommodate the adults around them and get positive attention from them.

Troubled teenagers don’t drop out of the sky and are actually more authentic; they are unconsciously trying to bring attention to the facts and the true state of affairs, and if they are lucky to find an enlightening witness to help them deal with the pain that they were born to parents who could not really love them, then they might grow up -- into mature conscious adults. But unfortunately, our world lacks true enlightened witnesses, and these troubled youth might never get the help they need. And some sadly end up in jail for petty crimes.

The world is run by gifted, once well-behaved children because most people cannot see beyond their gifts and talents—that they are corrupted to the core.  The white-collar crimes committed by gifted and once well-behaved children cost more money to society at large than all other petty crimes combined, but they rarely get punished in our society.




Wednesday, August 28, 2019

The Trump Administration is Cruel Beyond Words

Trump administration leaves menstruating migrant girls ‘bleeding through’ underwear at detention centres, lawsuit claims

Seeing on Facebook the sharing of the post in the link above  It comes to mind these words Alice Miller wrote in her article "The Origins of Torture In Endured Child Abuse" about the American soldiers in the Iraqi's prisons

"Many people have claimed to be appalled by the acts of perversion committed by American soldiers on ADULT people, Iraqi prisoners. Amazingly, I have never heard of any such reaction in response to the occasional attempts to expose similar practices committed towards CHILDREN as for instance in British and American schools. There, these practices come under the heading of “education.” But the cruelty is the same. The world appears to be surprised that such brutality should rear its head among the American forces.

After all, America presents itself to the international public as the guardian of world peace. There is an explanation for all this, but hardly anyone wants to hear it.


It is definitely a good thing that light has been cast on the situation and that the media have exposed this lie for what it is. Basically, it runs as follows: We are a civilized, freedom-loving nation and bring democracy and independence to the whole world. Under this motto, the Americans forced their way into Iraq with devastating results and still insist that they are exporting cultural values. But now it turns out that alongside their bombs and missiles the well-drilled, smartly dressed soldiers are carrying a huge arsenal of pent-up rage around with them, invisible on the outside, invisible for themselves, lurking deep down within, but unmistakably dangerous.

Where does this suppressed rage come from, this need to torment, humiliate, mock, and abuse helpless human beings (prisoners and children as well)? What are these outwardly tough soldiers avenging themselves for? And where have they learned such behavior? First as little children taught obedience by means of physical “correction,” then in school, where they served as the defenseless objects of the sadism of some of their teachers, and finally in their time as recruits, treated like dirt by their superiors so that they could finally acquire the highly dubious ability to take anything meted out to them and qualify as “tough.”

The thirst for vengeance does not come from nowhere. It has a clearly identifiable cause. The thirst for vengeance has its origins in infancy when children are forced to suffer in silence and put up with the cruelty inflicted on them in the name of upbringing. They learn how to torment others from their parents, and later from their teachers and superiors. It is nothing other than systematic instruction by example on how to destroy others. Yet many people believe that it has no evil consequences. As if a child were a container that can be emptied from time to time. But the human brain is not a container. The things we learn at an early stage stay with us in later life."
Read the full article HERE

Sunday, August 25, 2019

Humanity is Doomed

Amazon fires: Record number burning in Brazil rainforest - space agency



I see tragedies taking place everywhere because the majority of people can't deal with their own painful personal histories... as long the majority of people rather go on acting as if personality pretending to be good -- tragedies around the world will keep happening until humans are extinct

Reading about the tragedy taking place right now in Brazil's rainforest brought to mind the words below Alice Miller wrote to one of her readers:

Alice Miller: You write: “My main point in the allegory is that by necessity none of us are passengers anymore. Everybody’s crew.” I agree with you. But to become aware of the fact that our obedience learned in childhood doesn’t allow us to think freely needs probably more than many hundred years. I am not sure if the tortured planet leaves us the necessary time to understand this fact, to protest against it, and to become a conscious, responsible member of the crew." 
https://www.alice-miller.com/en/we-all-are-the-crew/?fbclid=IwAR04jWsUkyyCUtJalCrzjI9ycxG6VsVOjLahwydjndeWa9UrazJ69CEhNI8

No one can ever accuse me of being an obedient child! Thank goodness I had the courage to rebel against the system from a young age.  

Friday, August 9, 2019

I See Lies and Hypocrisy Everywhere

“If we hate hypocrisy, insincerity, and mendacity, then we grant ourselves the right to fight them wherever we can or to withdraw from people who only trust in lies. But if we pretend that we are impervious to these things, then we are betraying ourselves.” Alice Miller
Free from Lies: Discovering Your True Needs page 55


Alice Miller's answer below to one of her readers comes to mind:

AM: Your question is very important, but it contains the naïve assumption that we can manipulate our feelings without letting others pay the price for it. In reality, we cannot do so. You are saying here what everyone says, what we all have learned from our parents, in school, in church and even in most of the therapies: “One has to turn the page.” It is, without doubt, nice what is being suggested to us: to tell the hatred that it should go away and never ever return. We want to turn the page and live in peace.
Everyone wants this, and it would be nice if it worked. But unfortunately, it does not work. Not at all. Why? Because rage, like all other emotions, cannot be controlled and cannot be manipulated; IT dictates us something; it forces us to experience it and to understand its causes. It can return every time when someone has hurt us, and we cannot prevent that. Because our body cannot “turn the page” and it demands from us that we listen to it. What we can do, though, is suppress our rage, with all its consequences: Illnesses, addiction, crimes. When we do not want to feel our justified rage, because we already have forgiven our parents even the worst abuses, we will soon find out to our surprise that we passed on the same pains, which we endured from our parents, to our children or to others. If we are truthful, we will not claim that we acted “for their own good” (like that beatings are “a good means of education”). Unfortunately, this is what most parents say; this is why our society is so hypocritical.

On the page “articles” you can find my text about hatred, which should be able to help you understand better what I am trying to explain here. Also, the book “The Body Never Lies” can help you to understand more.
https://www.alice-miller.com/en/our-body-cannot-turn-the-page/


No, our body cannot turn the page until we consciously feel and understand all of our feelings within the context of our own childhood. And yes, until we do this others will have to pay the price for it, especially our children if we have children.

Tuesday, August 6, 2019

Only Children are Abandoned

Let's make it clear: are you an adult? You feel abandoned when another person leaves you -- you are stuck in childhood without realizing it -- because only children are abandoned -- adults are left, not abandoned -- If we can understand and consciously feel this feeling of feeling abandoned within the context of your own childhood -- you will grow yourself up into a conscious adult. You will never again suffer when people leave you or ignore you.

Only children need and must have unconditional love and protection; it’s their birthright and parents’ obligation. But adults can never be loved unconditionally. You would not love a rapist or dictator. The love between adults needs to be earned. 

“As adults, we don’t need unconditional love, not even from our therapist. This is a childhood need that can never be fulfilled later in life, and we are playing with illusions if we have never mourned this lost opportunity. But there are other things we can get from a good therapist: reliability, honesty, respect, trust, empathy, understanding, and the ability to clarify their emotions so they need not burden us with them. If a therapist promises unconditional love, we must protect ourselves from him, from his hypocrisy and lack of awareness” Alice Miller (The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self) Page 45

Thursday, July 25, 2019

Only love and truth will open the floodgates of the repressed emotions of the child we once were


Dear J,

Thank you for your understanding words. I could not stop crying while reading your e-mail.

I have lost cats before, but I don’t think I felt this sad before. We did have a special bond – we were in love with each other -- I have not cried like this in years -- It makes me think how short life is and how fast it can be over.

It took me a lifetime to liberate myself and create a home for myself. I’m looking forward to retirement and just spent the rest of my life with just me and the beings I love most, but it makes me think how fast it will all be over. Now that I have created a home for myself and I’m emotionally free -- I wish I could live forever, and now Sutti reminded me how all can be over in the blink of an eye.
Today, at 5:30 pm, will be a week since Sutti left. I wish she could have lived with me for at least 3 years, while I was already retired, so I could have spent more time with her. I wanted more time with Sutti.

And how sad it is that most people never get to experience emotional freedom and be at home with themselves.

This world should be a heaven for us, but instead is full of dangerously repressed people or sociopaths/psychopaths suffering and making others suffer – unconsciously and compulsively looking for scapegoats – which we have to be constantly on the lookout for, especially in the workplace! 

Without truth and truly loving ourselves and another breathing living being, we will never become a seeing and a feeling person, no matter how many self-help books we read and how much intellectual knowledge we get on psychology --  only with the truth and by truly loving ourselves and another being – we will we become a seeing and a feeling person.

Only when truth and love is our first goals in life --  truth and love has always been my first goals --  and everything else has always been secondary for me -- when we stand for truth and truly love ourselves and share it with another living breathing being -- will the floodgates to the repressed emotions will be open to flow healthily -- to be consciously felt within the context of our own childhood -- without using others as scapegoats to temporarily and superficially alleviate the repressed emotions of the child we once were. Everywhere I go, I just see people going around like robots masquerading as love and covertly and silently manipulating others with their illusion of love. 

My childhood and teenage years were the saddest, and most of my adult life was a struggle. However, I have since achieved emotional freedom. Now, the consolation I find is that in my retirement years, which I hope will be many, I know they will be the most beautiful years of my life. I wish Sutti could be with me for many of them to enjoy with me.

You too, take good care, as much as possible.

Sylvie

Dear Sylvie...

Oh, I am so very sorry to hear that...

I don't know how to react or to give some comfort in your sorrow...
How you and Sutti met and you became the closest mates, seems like a kind of fairy tale, right? She chose you... and so did you...

Such a sweet story,  no doubt this is a unique experience...

Looking at her picture, I see such a beautiful, kind, and peaceful being!
I  just cannot be with you in sadness and crying.  What a bad fate, that she had to die too early from a virus...

I am sorry, I have to go to work soon, but I will write more soon.
Sylvie, I give you a big hug and share your feelings.
Take good care and let the tears flow, as long as they need to flow.
Take good care, as much as possible
J

Dear J,

I hope you are hanging in there and not so busy that you have some extra free time for yourself.

Last Saturday, my favorite cat, Sutti, passed away suddenly, caught a virus, stopped eating and drinking, and was gone overnight.

I'm so devastated I don't have Sutti anymore. She was about 8 years old, but I only had her for about 3 years. She appeared on my back patio, and I would leave food and water out there for her. I even made a shelter for her to stay warm in the cold days of winter. She lived outside for at least 3 to 4 years, but every time I went on the patio, she would run. Still, one day when I called her, she came to me and came inside and never wanted to be out again alone, would go to the patio with me and sit in my lap. Still, when I went inside, she would follow me in. She was the sweetest cat I ever had and was so grateful for me taking her in  -- she wanted to be next to me all the time, loving me with her very soft and gentle little kisses. I always looked forward to going home to be with her. The house feels so empty without her.

I just wanted more time with her -- three years was not enough -- I wish I could hold her and touch her silky soft coat one more time.  My work has been so busy, plus doing a lot of side jobs, checking on houses, and cat sitting for people who are away, that I don’t have time to be with my feelings and feel my sadness.

I cry when I’m in the car driving to my job and when I'm going to sleep at night, and when I wake up in the morning. If any of my other cats were to pass, I would not be this sad.

Sutti was my special Kittie.

I like to find another Kitty like her, but I know there are never two beings alike, even if they look alike; personality is never the same. It will never be another Sutti like her.

I hope the next time I write, my heart is no longer this sad.

Hugs from Arizona,

Sylvie



7-13-19 5:30pm

Tuesday, July 16, 2019

Had Enough Therapy?

A Facebook friend shared this article on my newsfeed  Had Enough Therapy?

Thanks for sharing this article, J-F B! Very interesting! To this day, I have not met a single mental health care professional who can provide real assistance in helping people liberate themselves from their emotional prisons. And the real reason is that most of them lack the courage to tell themselves and their patients/clients the truth, and without the truth, liberation will never be possible. But instead, use their intellectual knowledge in psychology to mess with and manipulate people’s minds, feelings,  and behaviors -- making things worse by thickening the walls of people’s emotional prisons and making it nearly impossible for people to ever free themselves.

Just like I wrote in my book A Dance to Freedom:

“The chain of harm done by doctors, therapists, and gurus under the guise of help is endless. Alice Miller believed that most people with a “Dr.” in front of their name or a “Ph.D.” at the end of it weren’t in any kind of position to help or guide anyone, especially if they were repressing their own traumas and creating their own illusions.

For many years, I blamed myself for what happened with Dr. Julio Machado Vaz. It took me more than two decades to see the truth and speak about the fact that this doctor had exploited my anger at my family to feed his sexual perversions and abuse me sexually, instead of helping me work through and resolve my anger.

…I’ve touched on this a lot in this chapter and elsewhere in this book, particularly in the section about Dr. Julio Machado Vaz — the psychologist who used me for sex — but I really want to reinforce the idea that so-called therapists and gurus only substitute one dangerous illusion for another. As Alice Miller writes,

“What can happen when a doctor doesn’t stop at self-deception in his flight from pain, but deceives his patients, even founding dogmatic institutions in which further ‘helpers’ are recruited to a faith advertised as scientific truth,’ can be catastrophic.

…Most people who search for answers never actually find them, because people suffering with their own repression are the ones who practice traditional therapies.

Since the beginning of human history, priests, teachers, gurus, psychics, doctors, philosophers, and psychologists have all duped people into thinking they could provide real assistance when it was never possible because the healers were also victims of their own childhoods.

Alice Miller saw the promise of psychotherapy to help people understand why they behave like helpless victims as adults and also to help them take responsibility for their actions.

But she was disillusioned when she realized that practitioners couldn’t treat patients effectively as long as they failed to deal with their own repression.”

Because I'm critical of the mental health community, in general, this is one of the reasons I got targeted also by a mob of very corrupted people at the community where I worked for nine and a half years – some residents were doctors and professors --  and to protect themselves and the medical community, they thought with their methodical and very well-orchestrated psychological warfare could get me to self-destruct to protect themselves from being exposed for the fraud that they are, but coming after me they exposed themselves and proved what I write in my book is true and gives me and my book more credibility.
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