Evil is Born Anew with Every New Generation

Hi E,

Thank you for writing!

I know how hard it is to get things taped. I want to make more videos, but it’s hard to make good ones! I’m thinking about buying a teleprompter so I don’t have to memorize the text of what I like to say. 

To tell you the truth, I’m kind of giving up on humanity, and I don’t feel like trying anymore to reach those like me, who feel all alone -- waiting to hear the truth that can set us free, like I once was.

I have put out there my testimony of the steps to take to free oneself. Now those like me that want it, they have to do their part and dig hard and deep like I did to find the truth that can set us free, because the sociopaths and charlatans of this world will work very hard day and night to distract the masses and bury the naked truth very deep and make it very difficult for people like me to find it.  Because if the naked truth reached many people like me, their pretty lies and illusions would crumble like a house of cards, and they would lose all their power over others.

This is why I keep getting targeted by sociopaths, because they feel threatened by me and my book, so they want to break me down to discredit me and my book. 

Liliane Rombout or Olane Roos – whatever she calls herself now- the Netherlands psychologist who broke the camel’s back. 

It’s unbelievable, and I still can’t believe that this woman contacted me, acting all understanding and saying all the right things to gain my trust. Still, the moment I let her in and let her read my manuscript, she wasted no time looking for something in it that she could grab on to turn on me and play mind games with me -- to try to regress me into the emotional prison of my childhood -- to discredit me and my book.

She never saw me in my book or heard me; she just saw her own projections and what she wanted to see to use as tools for manipulation. And then, when she was not able to regress me into the state of the wounded child, she sat for 4 years with her critique full of her own projections, and changed her name before publishing her critique. She never predicted that I would figure out that Liliane Rombout and Olane Roos are one and the same.

I see clearly the games people play, and I’m free from all people’s projections. I no longer allow anyone to stand in symbolize my childhood abusers to manipulate me to bring me back to the emotional prison of my childhood. Free at last!!!

Isn’t this a calculated move of a malignant narcissist or sociopath?!

Malignant narcissists and sociopaths in the mental health profession are the worst because they have mastered the art of manipulating people's repressed emotions to do exactly what they want -- they are the most deceiving and cause a lot of harm.

I guess she didn’t believe what I wrote in my book that I had consciously experienced and understood the repressed emotions of the child I once was within the context of my own childhood and no longer they can be used by sociopaths, psychopaths or malignant narcissists to grab on to use as reins to manipulate me and gain control over me to bring me back to an emotional prison.

Let's make it easy. Narcissist... Sociopath..... Psychopath... there is no need to distinguish which is which. They all suffer from "childhood repression who have grown into a full-blown malignant person." Avoidance is the only known treatment

I will still try to write to everyone who writes to me, but from now on, I will be very careful and not trust anyone who contacts me, saying all the right things, because most likely, they are not real -- it’s a lie. Just like Alice Miller wrote me in an e-mail: “I have learned over the years of my work on the internet that there are readers who SEEM to understand SOME of what I have written, at least intellectually, but they are still so afraid of their very cruel parents and of their repressed FEELINGS of rage towards them that they are constantly looking for scapegoats.

They thus live in a continual confusion, pretending that they are healed and even offering help and empathy to others. But eventually they use unconsciously other people (even the ones who are quite friendly to them) as a poisonous container like their parents did to them, and if the offended people begin to defend themselves they can become very mean.

I can only urge you to trust your feelings and do NOT offer your empathy and interest to everybody just because they say they read and understood everything I have written. In most of the cases, it is a lie. To understand my books means to overcome the fear of one’s parents, to honestly feel the justified rage TOWARD THEM and to no longer use others to get free from the accumulated rage.”

Obviously, Liliane Rombout or Olane Roos, she is still scared of the repressed emotions of the child she once was at her own mean mother, otherwise, would not have looked on the internet for someone she could target to project herself into and use as her scapegoat.

What Really Makes Narcissists Tick, “The characteristic subjective experience of narcissistic individuals is a sense of inner emptiness and meaninglessness that requires recurrent infusions of external confirmation of their importance and value. . . . When the environment fails to provide such evidence, narcissistic individuals feel depressed, ashamed, and envious of those who succeed in attaining the supplies that they lack.”

Narcissists are very prone to jealousy and envy. They will devalue the accomplishments of others, especially of scapegoats. If they feel someone is a threat, they devalue this person in general, talking negatively to others behind this person's back. Other times, they will give backhanded compliments or focus on the negative when someone is experiencing success or when they are discussing achievements. If someone is experiencing success, the narcissist will turn this around and accuse this person of being selfish or narcissistic for talking about it. ~Traci Dillard

Every time there is a mass shooting or a celebrity commits suicide, they all talk about the importance of mental health and share the phone number for National Suicide Prevention Lifeline --  that all it does is to make themselves feel better and fool the masses that they care --- their lies and mind games is what pushes some people over the edge, because they are tired of performing. They can no longer live pretending and acting as if personality, and they give up, killing themselves, others, or both.

I’m done, I just want to be left alone to enjoy my freedom and peace for the rest of my life. It was a long journey! 

I just wish sociopaths, psychopaths and malignant narcissists stopped targeting me and left me alone --  and gave up on trying to bring me back into an emotional prison -- but I understand that nothing triggers their jealousy and hatred more than a seeing a truly happy and free person and are driven blindly by jealousy and hatred.   And to protect myself, I have to keep  long bridges from people and not cross it too often in order to enjoy my freedom and peace for the rest of my life.

People need to understand that once you go through your worst time alone, you really don't care who stays in your life anymore.

They say, "Misery loves Company." Well, I say, "Narcissists love to bring happy people down." What BETTER type of power trip to a narcissist's ego than to take a naturally happy person and, by their own "arising abilities," turn them into a shell of their former selves while walking off "wearing their skin"? You know that they WANT to see you lying on the sidewalk, crying out in pain because you're "nothing" without them; just as they told you (or insinuated many times). ~ANA (After Narcissistic Abuse)

Eventually, I still want to write and publish “Reenactment” for those searching for the naked truth about the real face of humanity, it is ugly, very ugly!!! And sometimes I think no one is really out there.

Thanks to writing and publishing A Dance to Freedom, I got to see how ugly it really is! I always felt and suspected it -- that it was very ugly, but thanks to my book, I got to see it really close, staring it in the face at a very close range. It was dangerous to be that close to it, and now I have no doubt humanity is evil. The more I come to the conclusion that very few people out there are capable of being real and authentic.

Evil is born anew with every new generation. Humanity is insane, and this insanity will end only when humanity is wiped off the face of the Earth. Maybe, that's why they are creating AI to wipe out most of humanity...

Humanity is unconsciously and compulsively shackled into the chains of compulsion repetition...

Evil is born anew with every new generation
https://www.alice-miller.com/en/the-ignorance-or-how-we-produce-the-evil/

Human beings are great at creating illusions. And the sharper their intellect is, the bigger the illusions they create. When it comes to humanity, nothing ever is what it seems.

No one can ever accuse me of being an obedient child! Thank goodness I had the courage to rebel against the system from a young age.  

Enough talking about humanity! Enjoy your weekend,

Sylvie

Evil is Evil

 

Yep! The intentions of a malignant narcissist are evil. Walk away while you still can. Evil is evil, no excuses.

It's evil. Many Americans voted for pure evil, and those who didn't bother to vote are part of pure evil whether they like it or not. 

It's not just boomers who don't understand boundaries. I know plenty of people of the younger generations who don't understand boundaries either.

Evil is born anew with every new generation.
https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/search?q=evil+is+born+anew

Great Jornalism 👍

Why Narcissists Treat you so Badly

 

Narcissists often treat their targets badly due to a combination of factors, including a lack of empathy, a need for control, and a grandiose sense of self-importance, which leads to manipulation and devaluation of others. 

• Lack of Empathy:

  People with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) struggle to understand or care about the feelings of others, making it difficult for them to see things from another's perspective. 
• Need for Control: Narcissists often crave control and dominance in relationships, using manipulation and abusive tactics to maintain power over their targets. 
• • • Grandiose Sense of Self: They have an inflated sense of their own importance and entitlement, believing they are superior to others, which leads to devaluation and disrespect. 
    • • Manipulation: Narcissists are skilled manipulators who use gaslighting, emotional blackmail, and other tactics to control their targets and make them feel dependent. 
      • • Seeking Attention and Admiration: They have an insatiable need for attention and admiration, and they may use their targets to fuel their ego and sense of importance. 
        • • Shifting Blame: Narcissists often avoid taking responsibility for their actions by shifting the blame onto the victim, a common control tactic in abusive relationships. 
          • ------------------------------------------------//-------------

          The primary objective of a narcissist engaging in narcissistic abuse is to exert control and power over their victim.
        • https://www.charliehealth.com/post/things-narcissists-say-in-an-argument-and-what-they-really-mean#:~:text=The%20primary%20objective%20of%20a,and%20power%20over%20their%20victim.

Sociopaths in mental health professions are the most damaging. 

"Unfortunately, narcissists in positions of high visibility or power-particularly in the so-called helping professions (medicine, education, and the ministry) often do great harm to others."

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/search?q=mental+health+professionals+

No, it is not going to end well. Humanity is doomed. Evil is born anew with every new generation. 

"Become aware of the fact that our obedience learned in childhood doesn’t allow us to think freely needs probably more than many hundred years. I am not sure if the tortured planet leaves us the necessary time to understand this fact, to protest against it, and to become a conscious, responsible member of the crew." 

https://www.alice-miller.com/en/we-all-are-the-crew/?fbclid=IwAR04jWsUkyyCUtJalCrzjI9ycxG6VsVOjLahwydjndeWa9UrazJ69CEhNI

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/search?q=evil+is+born+anew

After my experience with the sociopaths at my job of nine and half years, I see very clearly how terrorism is the war of the poor and war is the terrorism of the rich. The true terrorists are in boardrooms around the world -- plotting and manipulating the poor to retaliate to their lies and injustices --- so they have a reason to pick up their guns and give the illusion that they have to fight in self-defense and to keep everyone safe from the terrorists and thugs like they like to call them. These words from the book Staking the Soul: Emotional Abuse and the Erosion of Identity by Marie-France Hirigoven come to mind: "...Physical violence can be testified to be outside evidence: eyewitness, police and medical reports. With emotional abuse, there is no proof. It's a clean violence. Nobody sees anything."

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2016/06/for-sociopath-winning-is-all.html?m=1

Violence is a trap and an illusion, and it is never the answer.

The words below by John Lennon could not be truer. The sociopaths at my job of nine and half years were hoping I would react to their lies, mind games, and smear campaign, and I would become violent in some form. The system is thirsty for blood, but I don't play their game.

"When it gets down to having to use violence, then you are playing the system's game. The establishment will irritate you - pull your beard, flick your face - to make you fight. Because once they've got you violent, then they know how to handle you. The only thing they don't know how to handle is non-violence and humor." John Lennon

"Children who are told the truth and are not brought up to tolerate lies and cruelty can develop as freely as a plant whose roots have not been attacked by pests (in our case, lies)" Alice Miller. 

Lies are the fuel that creates wars. 

https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2017/07/terrorism-is-war-of-poor-and-war-is.html?m=1

Like every narcissist, Elon Musk Has Convinced Himself That He's Never "Done Anything Harmful," And The Internet Is Swiftly Correcting Him

https://l.smartnews.com/p-jIbdxSp/9F1MsT

Yep!

 

My brain needs to see cats 🐈  they are so beautiful! To me, all cats are beautiful, especially black cats. 

My thoughts exactly! 

Evil is Born Anew with Every New Generation

Dear Sylvie,

I thought of writing to you often, too... But  I was/am sooo occupied with my own deep emotional struggles and outside obligations, that I didn`t find the space to write...

I am deeply confronted with my upbringing, as I take care of my mother in a greater amount a couple days a week.. I reduced working hours at my job because I couldn`t stand so many hours of being in charge, whether at my job or with my mother.

I had a spontaneous yes-set after reading your first posting that you won`t continue to post videos... I think I wrote this earlier, that I see that chances but also the risks of sharing on the internet, because there is so much manipulation, which can be done by the big tech companies, and it is not controllable, what happens with the content one's posts... I don`t know, how to write this properly...

I am sorry to hear, that you have this situation with S... the tendency to make new (old) disrespectful laws in many issues can be seen all over the world. and I don`t see a way, to change this directly... as we know, only the change of each of us can make a change in politics and how we deal with each other. But there are very rare people who understand this.

I think you did what you can, to bring your wisdom to the world. And you really deserve to be ok in "the little corner of the world" and have a life, as comfy as possible. Of course, it is painful to see, what happens everywhere, but everybody is responsible for oneself, right?

This is my short answer. Which I wanted to write for the moment. I have to pack my things and go to my mother’s house.

I will write again.

Take care and have a nice Sunday. H

Hi H,

Thank you for writing. I love reading your insightful emails. 

I’m sorry you are so occupied with emotional struggles and outside obligations.  I can imagine how taking care of your mother a few times a week can be a strong confrontation with your upbringing. 

 
I only talk via video call with my 88-year-old older sister, the woman that pretty much raised me and was  -- my substitute mother  -- and is a constant confrontation with my own upbringing too – It’s very tough to constantly witness her believing in lies and defending and enabling all the lies and illusions around her and not react negatively -- if I had not faced and resolved my own childhood repression -- I would not be able to not react negatively. -- but if I was in Portugal would be a lot harder. 

 
My oldest sister is still pretty mobile and independent and takes care of herself and everyone around her -- she has been stuck all of her life in the role of caretaker -- but I worry when she can’t any longer take care of herself and everyone else, then, that’s when everything will fall apart --- it’s a mess --- a tragedy waiting to happen… and is nothing I can do to stop it! I can't make others open their eyes to see and feel -- all I can do is let everyone go -- otherwise -- I will drown with them. 

I have this vision: humanity is a big bowl of a crazy soup where everyone is lost and confused fighting overtly or covertly to get to the top and I’m on the outside looking in -- all I see it's pure insanity! 

It took me over 40 years to swim or navigate out of this very big crazy bowl of soup -- called humanity – I'm so lucky I made it out in one piece!  And now I have to be careful not to let anyone still stuck in this very big crazy bowl of soup and pull me back in. Most people are afraid of letting go of those around them and swimming to freedom, most people just want to grab you and pull you in to use you to stand on your head!

I know in the tech world is a lot of manipulation and the tech-savvy know how to manipulate to get their articles with missed information and lies coated with little bits of disconnected truths to deceive and confuse the emotionally blind public. For example years ago when someone googled People Unlimited my blog would show up at the top of google search but now it doesn’t at all so I know someone tech-savvy from the cult of People Unlimited was able to manipulate google to suppress my blog exposing them for the fraud that they are. And now people can't find any of my blogs with keywords unless they specifically google for example Alice Miller Sylvie Shene blog, People Unlimited Sylvie Shene blog, Etc. 

Anyone that really wants the naked truth has to leave the mainstream and go underground and dig deep for the naked truth that everyone pretty much in the mainstream is working very hard to burry very deep and hide the real truth so they can manipulate the emotionally blind society with their very well articulated pretty seductive lies and disconnected half truths to gain power over the masses and get rich. 

 
I had the hope, that one member of my family, who by coincidence was born on the same day as you, would find the courage to let go of those around her and swim to freedom but like, most people, she too fell into the illusion that money and power over others is her ticket to salvation -- yes, we need money to live -- but the truth is -- we don’t need a lot of money when we are truly emotionally free! 

Money alone is one of the biggest illusions ever! When I was growing up in Portugal I witnessed money to be the most important thing to her mother and then marrying a man, her father, and to him too --- money was the most important thing --- her father had a degree in engineer and used to be a math teacher and all he cared about was to save all his money and watch it grow in the bank that she inherited after he passed away  – her father used to call his students “lixo” in English means trash – and now she too is following exactly her parents' footsteps -- and money is the most important thing to her too – she works as Insolvency Administrator – I have no doubt she also calls these people going through insolvency stupid and trash because they don’t know how to run their business and therefore deserve their misfortune – so we could say like vultures -- they survive off the trash and the misfortunes of others… it’s so sad to witness all the time people following exactly the footsteps of their parents. It’s so true what Alice Miller said: “Evil is born anew with every new generation”

 
That's all for today! Hugs from Arizona,

Sylvie

Rich and poor are different ends of the same stick. There are fxcked up people with money and fxcked up people with no money. Money can be an addiction just like any other addiction. 

Evil is born anew with every new generation

 

.Evil is born anew with every new generation. Humanity is insane and this insanity will end only when humanity is wiped off the face of the Earth. Maybe, that's why they are creating AI to wipe off most of humanity...

Humanity is unconsciously and compulsively shackled into the chains of compulsion repetition...

Human beings are great at creating illusions. And the sharper their intellect is, the bigger the illusions they create. When it comes to humanity, nothing ever is what it seems.

Alice Miller: You write: “My main point in the allegory is that by necessity none of us are passengers anymore. Everybody’s crew.” I agree with you. But to become aware of the fact that our obedience learned in childhood doesn’t allow us to think freely needs probably more than many hundred years. I am not sure if the tortured planet leaves us the necessary time to understand this fact, to protest against it, and to become a conscious, responsible member of the crew." 

https://www.alice-miller.com/en/we-all-are-the-crew/?fbclid=IwAR04jWsUkyyCUtJalCrzjI9ycxG6VsVOjLahwydjndeWa9UrazJ69CEhNI8

No one can ever accuse me of being an obedient child! Thank goodness I had the courage to rebel against the system from a young age.  

Science is on my Side

I just saw the article below online about trauma being passed down through our genes. Just proves what I already know and shows adoption or children artificially conceived with a donor is fxxked up, because every child has the birthright to know their genetic makeup and not be cut off from it. 
Adoption is not the fairy tale society wants you to believe

Children’s anger for being brought to these fxxked situations and for being cut off from their own genetic makeup is very much justified, even if they can’t put their finger on it, where the roots of their anger come from and can’t articulate it. They need an enlightened witness to help them see, feel and understand the roots of their anger and help them articulate their feelings, so they can heal and break the chains of compulsions repetition. As long unresolved trauma remain in the dark or in the unconscious will keep festering and contribute to the chaos we witness in the world. 

These words by Alice Miller from her book For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence on Mary Bell come to mind: "Psychotherapeutic treatment is not inexpensive and is often criticized on these grounds. But is it less expensive to lock up an eleven-year-old child for the rest of her life? And what good will that do? A child who has been mistreated at such an early age must be able to tell in some way or other about the wrong that has been done her, about the [psyche] murder perpetrated on her. If she has no one, she will not find the language for it and can tell it only by doing what was done to her. This awakens our horror. But the horror should be directed at the first [psyche] murder, which was committed in secret and has gone unpunished. Then we might be able to help the child to experience her story on a conscious level so that she will no longer have to tell it by means of disastrous enactments."
Also, the words below by Alice Miller come to mind:
"Children who are lectured to, learn how to lecture; if they are admonished, they learn how to admonish; if scolded, they learn how to scold; if ridiculed, they learn how to ridicule; if humiliated, they learn how to humiliate; if their psyche is killed, they will learn how to kill--the only question is who will be killed: oneself, others, or both." -- Alice Miller
above excerpt from Pedagogy Fills the Needs of Parents, Not of Children

“Biological Secrets

Melissa began cutting herself as a teenager. When she was 14, she literally carved the words“FAT PIG” into her inner thigh. As the story unraveled, it turned out that Melissa was adopted, but was not told this until she was 21. She went to visit her biological mother and learned that she had been raped when she was 14 (the same age that Melissa had carved the words ‘fat pig’ into her thigh), and this is how she had been conceived.
“She visits her biological mother and she finds out that her mother, at exactly the same age, was raped. When Melissa came to me, she was 27 and had been cutting her body for 13 years. I asked her: ‘Fat pig, what is fat pig?’ And she says: ‘A fat pig is someone who takes something that isn’t his.’ She used the pronoun ‘his’, but she had never made the connection, and of course, she didn’t know why she cut herself. Yet, her trauma language was etched into her body.

In some cases involving self-injury, explains Wolynn, “There’s can be a perpetrator and a victim in the family history that no one talks about, and a trauma that hasn’t been resolved. It’s very dual: bad and good. The victim-perpetrator experience gets expressed in the behavior of the self-injurer. In a single action, she perpetrates on herself, and at the same time, she is victimized by herself. When Melissa carved FAT PIG on the sexual part of her leg, she was carving the action of the rape of a mother she never knew she had. She was enacting it as if it were her thigh that the rapist was on.” After working with Wolynn, Melissa stopped cutting.

Nonduality and Trauma

“When we uncover this trauma language and make the link, we can have more peace. If the light never shines on this language and never shines on this link, the trauma can stay embedded in our experience as ‘ours,’ and that’s the problem,” explains Wolynn, who believes that trauma, as suppressed experience, has a charge of energy that seeks release, if not through the body of the victim, then through the bodies of the children in future generations. “The energy of a trauma doesn’t dissipate by itself,” he explains. “It doesn’t stay boxed up.”

Trauma is literally alive in our DNA, often from conception. “Traumatic events can be stored and passed on biologically to the next generation. Along with these traumatic residues, a new skill set can also be passed forward, ensuring that the next generation will be more prepared to manage similar traumas. But problems can result when we’re walking around reacting to traumas that haven’t happened to us directly but live on in our genes.”

“To heal these imprints,” says Wolynn, “we often need to have an experience powerful enough to override the old trauma response, and then we need to practice the new feelings of this experience.” By doing so, we pull traction away from the highly efficient trauma cycle that keeps us in a state of suffering and engage other areas of the brain—specifically our prefrontal cortex—so that new neural pathways are created and our brains can change.

The Hero’s Journey

For Mark Wolynn, inherited trauma is not a rare occurrence linked only to exceptional events,“Many of us carry some aspect of unresolved trauma from the past, yet we rarely think to connect our depression or anxiety or physical symptoms to the events of the previous generation. Instead, we tell ourselves: ‘That’s just the way it is. That’s the way I’m wired.’ People could live freer lives if they just explored their family history. The healing of inherited trauma is a service,” says Wolynn, “not only to ourselves but to our ancestors and to our children.

On a higher level, I believe these traumas are important because they lead us on a hero’s journey. We enter the path through introspection, through looking at what’s uncomfortable, by being able to tolerate what’s uncomfortable, and then by journeying into what’s uncomfortable and emerging on the other side in a more expansive place, using what was contracting us as the source of our expansion. Many of us don’t realize that the trauma we are born to heal is also the seed of our expansion.”

If you like to read the full article click on the link below:

https://www.scienceandnonduality.com/the-bread-crumb-trail-of-inherited-family-trauma/

Comments from the sharing of this blog on Facebook:

Monica Chelagat I brushed through the links on inherited trauma. Though it makes sense, I think Alice Miller made the concept of trauma and healing much simpler. It is normal that an unhealed parent will be anxious and this anxiety may affect the children.

Sylvie Imelda Shene I agree with you, Monica. I have not seen anyone put it better than Alice Miller. But I do like the title of his book It Didn’t Start with You. Because since I was a little girl I could feel that it didn’t start with me and hated it being blamed as a child for everything that was wrong in the family! I knew I had inherited my father and mother’s traumas. I also used to say to myself that the pain would stop with me. And this is what I am most proud of in my life that I resolved these traumas and didn’t pass it into anyone else. It stopped in me!Monica Chelagat I do not like the 'inherited'. You were a victim if both passive and active abuse. They were the way they were because of their unresolved trauma. To be certain you are trauma-free is one's reaction to their own children at all phases of their lives to adulthood.

 Inheritance means you have no control but automatically in the DNA. Alice was not in agreement on genetically inherited violence or mental disturbances. I agree with her on this.

Sylvie Imelda Shene Me too I agree with Alice Miller 100% that violence is learned, but if these traumas go unresolved for many generations, it will start being imprinted in our DNA, but we can start on a path to healing and change these DNA imprints, otherwise evil will be born anew with each new generation!

"Evil is born anew with every new generation
In the Middle Ages, there was a widespread belief in “changelings.” The term referred to children of the devil smuggled into ordinary, well-meaning mothers’ cradles in exchange for the babies they had actually brought into the world. Though there is no indication whom the devil is supposed to have sired these wicked, diabolical children on, or what he did with the good ones he spirited away, the fact is that mothers of so-called changelings were instructed to bring those children up with especial strictness, meaning that they should beat them black and blue at the slightest sign of recalcitrance as this was the only hope of molding them into human beings worthy of the name. Though we no longer believe in changelings today, the belief in the effectiveness of corporal punishment, the idea that we can “beat some sense” into rebellious children, appears to be unshakable in the minds of most people. Even Sigmund Freud believed that a sadist takes pleasure in tormenting others because he has been unable to adequately sublimate the death instinct we are allegedly all born with. Genetics provides an “updated” version of the idea of innate evil. It is frequently asserted that there are genes that drive some people to commit evil deeds even if they have had “lots of love” in their childhood. I have yet to come across such an individual. All the childhood histories of serial killers and dictators I have examined showed them without exception to have been the victims of extreme cruelty, although they themselves steadfastly denied this. And in this, they are not alone. Large sections of society are apparently determined either to deny or to ignore these facts. Taken to its logical conclusion, this genetic theory ought to be able to explain why, 30 years before the advent of the Third Reich, Germany should have brought forth millions of children whose genetic makeup was so badly contaminated that in adulthood they were ready and willing to lend themselves to Hitler’s atrocities without turning a hair. Why has there never been such an accumulation of rogue genes in Germany before or since? It is a question I have asked repeatedly and I have never received an answer. The reason is simple. There is no answer. Hitler’s henchmen were victims of their upbringing. They belonged to a generation of children who had been exposed to brutal physical correction and humiliation and who later vented their pent-up feelings of anger and helpless rage on innocent victims. Safe in the knowledge that they were doing so with the Führer’s blessing, they were finally able to give free rein to those feelings without risk of punishment. Today children are brought up very differently in Germany. But wherever cruelty and humiliation still plays a part in parenting, those methods are faithfully reflected in the behavior of young people denying the pain of the humiliation they have been through, selecting and attacking scapegoats, and advancing harebrained ideological reasons for their depredations. The gene theory is just as incapable of explaining evil as the changeling legend or the death instinct. According to statistical surveys (see Olivier Maurel, La Fessée, La Plage, 2001) 90% of the people alive today believe that children need a “good” smacking from time to time if anything is to come of them. The truth is very different, and it is high time we faced up to it. Evil exists. But it is not something that some people are born with. It is produced by society, every day, every hour, unceasingly, all over the world. It starts with the treatment meted out to newborn babies and carries on in the parenting methods practiced on small children. Such children may BECOME criminal at a later stage if they have no helping witness to turn to. In their childhood years, serial killers and dictators all have one thing in common: they had no such witnesses to turn to for help."
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“…today we know too much about the lingering effects of violence against children to silently tolerate this lack of information. We should know that the whole society will pay the price for our blindness. A government of a civilized country can no longer ignore this knowledge. You can’t claim the right to play with nuclear weapons on your territories, only because they belong to you. The society’s interests go before your pleasure and your habits. The government must defend these interests. To call it thus “totalitarian” makes so little sense as to insult the fire brigade in a burning house.
Look around: When children are small some parents reclaim the sacrosanct “right to them” like to a property. But as soon as they become violent or drug addicted and then emotionally inaccessible these parents are eager to grant their rights to society. The children are no longer “our” children, protected in the sacrosanct family, they become “social cases” and the anonymous taxis-payers will have to pay for the prisons and hospitals these once so eagerly disciplined teenagers will need."

It is Never okay to spank, beat or Hit a Child

The Blame Game, the Medal of Freedom, and the Fear of Truth

Elon Musk, a bright and intelligent man, is playing the same blame game as the rest of the far right. A man of his intelligence should be able to see that both sides are responsible for spreading lies and misinformation. When someone from the left is assassinated, the right stays silent, and the left barely whispers. But when someone from the far right is assassinated, the noise is deafening. The extreme right seizes the victim role and exploits the tragedy to gain more power and control.

As the BBC reported, “Some of Trump's key allies—including influencer Laura Loomer and Elon Musk—pinned blame on the left or the Democratic Party, and called for mass arrests and broad police crackdowns.”

And now, in an upside-down world, Trump has announced that he will posthumously award Charlie Kirk the Presidential Medal of Freedom—for a man who spread lies, misinformation, and propaganda that fueled the very violence that consumed him.

“President Trump, at a memorial event at the Pentagon on the anniversary of the 9/11 terror attacks, announced that he will posthumously award Charlie Kirk the Presidential Medal of Freedom.” (ABC News)

Both Sides Fear the Truth

Last night, I tagged Grok, Elon, Kamala, Hillary, Altman, and Bill Gates in my post—and all remained silent, pretending not to see. This proves what I’ve witnessed my whole life: both sides fear the naked truth. They are more afraid of truth based on facts and evidence than they fear violence itself.

When I was targeted by a mob of sociopaths, they came from both sides. Neither could manipulate me into self-destruction with their lies and games, so now they pretend I don’t exist. But the truth protects me from these evil people, who consciously choose darkness. They know the truth, but they ignore it, preferring to profit from chaos, lies, and confusion.

Alice Miller saw this clearly:

“We cannot really love if we are forbidden to know our truth, the truth about our parents and caregivers, as well as about ourselves. We can only try to behave as if we were loving, but this hypocritical behavior is the opposite of love. It is confusing and deceptive, and it produces much helpless rage in the deceived person. This rage must be repressed in the presence of the pretended ‘love,’ especially if one is dependent, as a child is, on the person who is masquerading in this illusion of love.”
(The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self, p. 23)

The Sociopath’s Game

As I wrote in my blog For a Sociopath, Winning Is All back in 2016, they even tried to silence me with a Cease and Desist letter—accusing me of doing exactly what they were guilty of. They didn’t sign their letters because they knew they were lying. Sociopaths are cowards, desperate for their targets to react violently so they can pin them down with accusations. But all they have are lies.

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Evil Is Reborn with Every Generation

This blame game also reminds me of my niece XA. For years, she followed me, learned from me, absorbed the psychological knowledge I freely shared. But in the end, she consciously chose darkness, using what she learned not to heal, but to manipulate and gain advantage in the same wicked games of money and power.

Evil is born anew with every generation. And this new generation has no excuse. Past generations could say they lacked access to enlightened information, but today the truth is available to anyone who truly seeks it. With the internet and even AI, knowledge is at our fingertips. Yet many consciously turn away, preferring lies over truth.

As I wrote to my niece in 2020, “At Crossroads, Pick the Road Less Travelled, "Making a decision is not going to be easy for you! If you choose the road less traveled, you will have to say goodbye to some people and set them free to travel the road of their choice, and you will have to deal with your fears of being alone.  

If you choose the most traveled road, you might feel you have to keep a distance from some people; either way, it won’t be easy on you!

Whatever the road you choose, I understand, and I hope you pick the one that is better for you! And I hope it is not driven by fear, but by love."

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