Wednesday, July 17, 2024

What's Really Inside of You?

 

Now, I am in the same position, but those of us who suffered childhood traumas need the courage and an enlightened witness to get to this position. Sadly, many people lack the courage to face and feel their own painful truths and do the most important work in their lifetimes --- to do their emotional work.

Most people are unconsciously and compulsively looking for scapegoats to take revenge for the wrongs done to them when they were defenseless little children and they would rather destroy others or kill and be killed than face and feel their own painful truths.  

The conversation about the effects of childhood repression in our society needs to start happening in the stage of the world, sooner rather than laterif we want to save ourselves and humanity from falling off the cliff and committing mass suicide. 

Everyone is trying to change the world at the surface, especially so many people using the political machine and religion to manipulate the masses, making things worse in the long run, and no one wants to look at the root causes of how we got here?! Into this messed-up world! It’s very frustrating because trying to change the world at the surface, no matter what people do, the changes will always be just superficial and temporary.

These words by Alice Miller that I quote in my book could not be truer:

“It is not true that evil, destructiveness,
and perversion inevitably form part of
human existence, no matter how often this
is maintained. But it is true that we are
daily producing more evil and, with it, an
ocean of suffering for millions that is
absolutely avoidable. When one day the
ignorance arising from childhood
repression is eliminated and humanity
has awakened, an end can be put to the
production of evil.”
— Alice Miller, Banished Knowledge, p. 143

It takes courage to see, face, and feel our painful truths, intelligence alone is not enough --- intelligence alone just helps create seductive rationalizations, theories, illusions, and lies. 





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