Tuesday, June 14, 2016

For a sociopath, winning is all

A sociopath has no conscience, no emotional attachment to others, and no ability to love. For a sociopath, Stout says, “life is reduced to a contest, and other human beings seem to be nothing more than game pieces, to be moved about, used as shields or ejected.”
So what does a sociopath want? According to Stout, a sociopath wants only to win.” Read more here

When I found out that my ex-boss was robbing banks on the side and shot himself in a police standoff on  March 11, which by odd coincidence was my birthday, unconsciously, he gave me a little justice on my birthday! 

I sent an email published on my blog, Hornets’ Nest of Corruption, to some of the residents on my email list, informing them that I had been treated like a criminal. However, now there was proof that they were the ones who were criminals. Still, instead of hiding in shame, the sociopaths came after me viciously. 

The security community that employed me sent me a Cease and Desist letter trying to intimidate me and silence me, and the sociopaths at the community started sending the letter below to my friends in the community, telling them lies, accusing me of doing what they do. My friends in the community and a few others were grateful I shared this information with them, but the sociopaths in the community became even more fired up.

My ex-boss, a middle-aged white man, and an ex-sheriff! They treated me like a criminal, and they accused me of making threats, but look who was the criminal and going around making threats to kill people if they didn't comply with his commands! 

If it were me, the little woman to commit a crime, my name and face would have been splashed all over the news stations! And then all probably go on TV talking about how disturbed the little woman was -- to discredit me and my book-- and make a name for themselves by standing on my head. 

And most people would probably say that you need God in your life. My ex-boss was a Mormon, a man of God, but he was the one to lose his mind, and now it's a big cover-up. I could see their games and traps so clearly. I was their target to destroy, but when one of them self-destructed, all became silent, and no one cares that these criminals with their projections and lies -- I lost my job and more than half of my income  -- AND they could have wrecked my life. 

There is no humanity! Most people are fake and pretenders, acting as if they have a good personality and pretending to be good, but they are wolves in sheep's clothing. I'm done with humanity! Humanity is on the path to self-destruction, and with the aid of technology, it is going to happen much faster! 

And there is nothing I can do besides smile and wave at those who pass by me, following leaders and charlatans, taking them to an abyss. 

I will keep sharing my experiences and psychological discoveries with anyone who listens, but who wants to listen to someone who once made a living as a topless dancer and now as a gate attendant to upscale gated communities that, in most people's eyes, are nobodies and could not possibly have anything of importance to tell anyone! So I just smile and wave! AND enjoy my newfound freedom. Sad for them, but happy for me!
Cease and desist letters are sometimes used to intimidate recipients and can be an effective tool used by corporations to chill the critical speech of gripe site operators."[3] A company owning a trademark may send such a letter to a gripe site operator alleging trademark infringement. However, the actual use of the trademark by the gripe site operator may fall under a fair use exception (in compliance with, in the U.S., the protection of free speech under the First Amendment).[3]”

" When Exposing a Crime is Treated as Committing a Crime, You Are Ruled By Criminals."  Yes, I was ruled by criminals! And even faced with this evidence,  I'm still the one being treated like I'm the criminal and the real criminals are being protected! 
The quote above could not be more accurate!

MESA, AZ (KPHO/KTVK) -A Chandler bank robber shot and killed himself inside his vehicle Friday morning after he pulled into a gas station several miles away in Mesa, police said.
SWAT officers from Mesa Police took over during negotiations while the suspect sat in his car with a gun in his hand. At one point, the suspect exited the car, but then he got back in the vehicle.
Officers were seen with guns drawn, crouching behind their police unit.
A gunshot was soon heard coming from the suspect's car. There was never any exchange of gunfire.” Read more HERE 

Today, 3-5-22, I noticed that AZFAMILY. The COM  link above no longer exists; most likely, the Security company asked them to delete it because they don't want people to make the connection that this story is true and real. But I just googled it, and abc15 still has the story available in the link below.


Isn’t it interesting that the media never revealed the bank robber’s name! I’m sure they are protecting the security company he worked for; it would not look suitable for a security company that one of its top managers was robbing banks on the side! After finding out my ex-boss was the bank robber, I contacted the media again, but once again, the press remains silent; they are protecting the sociopaths! I wonder what it will take to get the media's attention. Make the connection here



At least the security company signed its letter.

 As you see the sociopaths in the gated community didn't sign their letters to my friends in the community, because they know, they are lying and they don't want to put a face to their letters, they are a bunch of cowards, they wish I confronted them in an intimidating manner, they would love to have something on me to pin me down with! But all they have are their lies!!!

Yes, they have mastered the art of projection to perfection. 

Yes, I danced with Lucifer. If I genuinely had not resolved my repression, I would not have seen clearly the evil games the sociopaths at my job of nine and a half years were playing -- trying to get me to self-destruct -- very few people will ever know what it feels like having a mob of sociopaths conspiring together to try to get you to act against yourself! They literally wanted me dead, in Jail, or a mental hospital. After this experience, I will never again look at another human being in the same way. I danced with Lucifer! Not once, but twice! The first time was just one, but this last time was a mob of evil people. If I had not truly resolved my repression, I would probably be dead right now.

The words below from the article "20 Diversion Tactics Highly Manipulative Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Psychopaths Use to Silence Youcould not be truer: "Toxic people will gossip behind your back (and in front of your face), slander you to your loved ones or their loved ones, create stories that depict you as the aggressor while they play the victim, and claim that you engaged in the same behaviors that they are afraid you will accuse them of engaging in. They will also methodically, covertly, and deliberately abuse you so they can use your reactions as a way to prove that they are the so-called “victims” of your abuse." 

This blog was triggered by Marianne Krivan's Facebook post: "I'm starting to wonder about the policies and procedures with the FBI. New stories emerge about the shooter. His elementary schoolmates remember him as someone who threatened to bring a gun to school and kill his classmates. He had many confrontations with his teachers. In high school, he actually cheered while 9/11 was happening. The FBI never uncovered this information?"

Sylvie Imelda Shene: I have worked with troubled people, and I too quit or lost the job for reporting it.
Last March, my ex-boss robbed a bank and shot himself in a police standoff. The security business attracts a lot of troubled people like this shooter.
Now, tell me why the media never revealed his name? Who are they protecting?!
Marianne Krivan: Sylvie ...this is crazy!

Sylvie Imelda Shene, I know Marianne! It's very crazy! We live in an upside-down world! In the workplace, sociopaths are protected, and honest and authentic people are the ones who lose their jobs if they dare to report it. Even with evidence that one of the sociopaths harassing me was an actual criminal, they still treated me like I was the criminal.
Lourdes Pertierra:  It's crazy

https://www.facebook.com/marianne.krivan/posts/10209763821230871?comment_id=10209768971199617&notif_t=like&notif_id=1465961843706328

"Sociopaths hate us. All sociopaths know in their “heart-of-hearts” (so to speak) that we are the ones with the real power. We have the advantage of being real people who can love and feel. We are flexible and reasonable. We have wisdom mingled with compassion. A potent elixir for the ills and sorrows of life; the stuff human kindness is made of. Sociopaths hate us – they are loveless and without conscience. – They also know that while they hate us and use us, we can ruin them by exposure. This evokes rage.
When individuals operate without a conscience, they can do horrible things we would never dream of doing – and there is no moral compass or guilt feelings to stop them. ~ Dr. Deborah Ettel, PhD. Psychology
Sociopaths are limited. Sociopaths are reactionary, defensive, and grasping for what they perceive as power in money and position. Whatever ‘status’ they seem to hold is always fake. They have nothing without hijacking other people’s lives. This can be on a grand scale involving millions of dollars, or at a low economic level for basic needs: housing, food, internet, clothes, a phone, and all else in between. They crave a good reputation. Sometimes, in the heat of being discovered or in fear of losing a gain, they’ll take unplanned, improvised actions that may even cause themselves harm directly or indirectly in over-the-top criminality. Their weakness is a constant fear of being unmasked. This, along with their limited minds, makes them predictable. This leaves gaps and leverage for our escape from these monsters." Read more  here

Mass Shootings: We are all responsible
"We have reached no definitive conclusions,” Obama said at a news conference, adding: “What is clear is that he was a person filled with hate.”
Why doesn't anyone ask where this hate comes from and why? The shooter seeing two men kissing is just the trigger of his intense hate and not the cause; gay people are just the shooter's scapegoats.
There are a lot of people walking around with time bombs in their brains -- until the bombs explode.


They don't like it that I call them sociopaths, but if you go out of your way to destroy a life, just because you don't like the truth, I'm sorry, but that makes you a sociopath!



These words by John Lennon could not be more valid. The sociopaths at my job of nine and a half years were hoping I would react to their lies, mind games, and smear campaign, and I would become violent in some form. The system is thirsty for blood, but I don't play their game. "When it gets down to having to use violence, then you are playing the system's game. The establishment will irritate you - pull your beard, flick your face - to make you fight. Because once they've got you violent, then they know how to handle you. The only thing they don't know how to handle is non-violence and humor." John Lennon

To read more about my experiences with the mob of sociopaths or narcissists at my last job, read my blog, Experienced Knowledge.  


Excellent question, Christa Van Vuuren. I have been at my job for nine and a half years. I, too, was treated like a criminal, and my locker was broken into in search of anything they could pin me down with. They destroyed all the evidence I had collected of their emotional harassment. But when one of them, precisely a year later, got caught committing a crime and killed himself in a police standoff, an ex-sheriff and a middle-aged White man -- now they all became silent, and it is a big cover-up by the FBI, the US Marshals, and the media. Still, if it were me, the little woman to commit a crime, my face and name would have been splashed all over the news stations everywhere. 


Wednesday, June 8, 2016

Sociopaths Hate Us

Yes, they hate us for being real, authentic and truthful. And yes, our very existence can ignite their erratic defense mechanisms. I found out that the last sociopath I worked with in Paradise Valley, got angry and walked out on the job on Friday, June 3! The truth always comes to the surface sooner or later! They got a dose of his poison! And yes, I have learned how dangerous sociopaths are -- after being targeted by a mob of sociopaths at my job of nine and half years! I will never look at another human being the same!


"That said: Do not tempt a sociopath’s rage. Sociopaths hate us. Our very existence can ignite their erratic defense mechanisms. I do not want to downplay the danger with a sociopath. Do not argue, challenge or threaten them. When you see what they are, do this: Zip it. Stay silent. Get them out. Or go yourself.
Stand up! See the sociopath for what he or she is! Reframe the entire debacle from the viewpoint of a sociopath’s mind. Use their weaknesses to leverage them out of our lives and minimize the damage."

Sociopaths Hate Us 


Very true! This is exactly what the bullies, assholes, sociopaths or whatever you like to call these very toxic people are trying to do to me! But the more they come after me with their lies, the more their true colors come to the surface and the more pathetic they look.

"Once we see them for who they are – and they know we know – the sociopath drops all pretense. The sociopath behind the mask comes out to play. The monster steps out front and center. There’s nothing like looking into the eyes of infinite, bottomless inhumanity."
https://www.truelovescam.com/sociopath-behind-the-mask/
Totally! Once they knew I knew that's when they came after me viciously! And I saw pure evil!
While I understand both men and women can be the victims of smear campaigns at work, women in positions of power face an especially tough time. Having been the victim of a workplace smear campaign, by another woman to boot, I can attest that the author's summation here is spot on:
"If you've attempted to speak truth to power, to stand up for tough decisions, or even if you've reported work-place intimidation...you will most likely end up with a target on your back. Smear campaigns are often a cowardly tactic utilized to victimize women, with the ultimate goal of forcing them out of their positions -- or into silence." 
I have met a lot of cowards lately! Too afraid to make a stand and they let the sociopaths get away with an attempt to destroy a person! Since being a target of a mob of sociopaths at my last job of nine and half years. I will never look at another human being in the same way! "Bystanders now possess the ultimate responsibility in standing up for our collective fight against injustice, bullying, violence, and intimidation. "IT'S ON US"...is a new campaign spreading, to suggest that bystanders should no longer look the other way. And to reiterate that proverb that we all know to be so true, "Silence is never neutral. You must always pick a side". In this case, we hope you will choose courage over fear.
Please think long and hard before you agree to look the other way when someone is victimized by violence or abuse. And instead of passing around gossip like it's candy on Halloween -- consider the source and the motive -- and choose to rise above it. Consider the role you would be playing in perpetuating a character damaging smear campaign. And realize that smear campaigns are most often the handy work of cowardly and insecure personalities. Otherwise, open dialogue and healthy confrontation, in the light of day, would replace these dark, brutal tactics."
Good comments on the Psychopath Free Facebook page.

Totally! They are so good at playing the victim role! All the sociopaths at my last job of nine and half years accuse me of doing of what themselves do! And they act like they are my victims! They are beyond pathetic!!! They went to the trouble this last Friday of sending a letter to one of my friends in the community telling him lies about me. It's kind of funny because I'm the one that picked up the letter at the gate and hand delivered it to my friend. We just laughed of how pathetic they are!!!
Yes, they do! 
Yep!

The pity play

Tip-off trait of a sociopath
Look for the pity play

Is there any mannerism, any type of behavior, any use of language, that can identify a sociopath?
According to Martha Stout, Ph.D., author of The Sociopath Next Door*, the best clue that you are dealing with a sociopath is the pity play.
“The most reliable sign, the most universal behavior of unscrupulous people is not directed, as one might imagine, at our fearfulness,” Stout says. “It is, perversely, an appeal to our sympathy.”
The combination of consistently bad or inadequate behavior and frequent pity plays, Stout continues, is the closest thing to a warning you’ll ever get that you are being manipulated by a sociopath.

Sociopath manipulation techniques

In her book, Stout also describes other techniques that a shameless sociopath will use to keep the rest of us in line. They are:
  1. Charm
  2. Risk-taking, and convincing others to do it with them
  3. Recognizing a person who is decent and trusting—the perfect target
  4. Sexual seduction
  5. Crocodile tears—especially when sociopaths are about to be confronted
  6. Righteous indignation—Plan B when sociopaths are about to be confronted
  7. Exploiting social and professional roles
  8. Gaslighting—making victims doubt their own perceptions
The term “gaslighting” comes from a 1944 movie called Gaslight, in which gold-digging husband marries a rich, innocent woman and tries to make her feel like she is going insane. Sociopaths are experts at it.

For a sociopath, winning is all

A sociopath has no conscience, no emotional attachment to others, and no ability to love. For a sociopath, Stout says, “life is reduced to a contest, and other human beings seem to be nothing more than game pieces, to be moved about, used as shields or ejected.”
So what does a sociopath want? According to Stout, a sociopath wants only to win.

Now looking back I have been singled out since my childhood by sociopaths or people that have masted the art of repression and transference to perfection and the moment they discover I see through their chirpy facade I become their target to destroy. I remember my first-grade teacher hating me because she knew I could see through her and she always put on in front of parents and others outside the classroom. I didn't mean to let her know that I saw through her chirpy facade, but I realize now looking back that I did and she hated me for being a seeing child and bullied me and humiliated me in front of the class to an extreme. 

Groups dynamics don't change much from grade school all the way to adulthood. Most people remain stuck in childhood without realizing it. And this is why I don't join groups because as seeing and compassionate person I tend to be overlooked or attacked and ostracized by the sociopath in the group aided by all the emotionally blind people.  
To read more about my experiences with the mob of sociopaths or narcissists at my last job read my blog Experienced Knowledge  

Thursday, May 26, 2016

Education Alone is Just Another Illusion

Actually, education alone is just another illusion. Resolving childhood repression is the only long-term solution for people to stop following political leaders blindly. And that is a lot more difficult!!! 

"I wonder how the high colleges managed to produce so many high asses." Paracelsus

As long as people's childhood repression goes unresolved -- they will be shackled into the chains of compulsion repetition -- and it doesn't matter how well anyone articulates very nice ideas... The problem is not a lack of knowledge and educated people; there are plenty of educated people with intellectual knowledge. The problem is an emotional blockage with the so-called “professionals” or “educated people” hiding behind their rationalizations and seductive theories to protect themselves from having to face and feel their own emotional pain.  It takes courage to see, face, and feel our painful truths; intelligence alone is not enough --- intelligence alone just helps create seductive rationalizations, theories, illusions, and lies. 

Alice Miller explains beautifully in her book For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-rearing and the Roots of Violence pages 42 and 43: "Just as in the symbiosis of the "diaper stage," there is no separation here of subject and object. If the child learns to view corporal punishment as "a necessary measure" against "wrongdoers," then as an adult he will attempt to protect himself from punishment by being obedient and will not hesitate to cooperate with the penal system. In a totalitarian state, which is a mirror of his upbringing, this citizen can also carry out any form of torture or persecution without having a guilty conscience. His "will" is completely identical with that of the government.

Now that we have seen how easy it is for intellectuals in a dictatorship to be corrupted, it would be a vestige of aristocratic snobbery to think that only "the uneducated masses" are susceptible to propaganda. Both Hitler and Stalin had a surprisingly large number of enthusiastic followers among intellectuals. Our capacity to resist has nothing to do with our intelligence but with the degree of access to our true self. Indeed, intelligence is capable of innumerable rationalizations when it comes to the matter of adaptation. Educators have always known this and have exploited it for their own purposes, as the following proverb suggests: "The clever person gives in, the stupid one balks." For example, we read in a work on child raising by GrĂ¼nwald (1899): "I have never yet found willfulness in an intellectually advanced or exceptionally gifted child" (quoted in Rutschky). Such a child can, in later life, exhibit extraordinary acuity in criticizing the ideologies of his opponents--and in puberty even the views of his own parents-- because in these cases his intellectual powers can function without impairment. Only within a group--such as one consisting of adherents of an ideology or a theoretical school--that represents the early family situation will this person, on occasion, still display a naĂ¯ve submissiveness and uncritical attitude that completely believes his brilliance in other situations. Here, tragically, his early dependence upon tyrannical parents is preserved, a dependence that--in keeping with the program of "poisonous pedagogy"--goes undetected. This explains why Martin Heidegger, for example, who had no trouble in breaking with traditional philosophy and leaving behind the teachers of his adolescence, was not able to see the contradictions in Hitler's ideology that should have been obvious to someone of his intelligence. He responded to this ideology with an infantile fascination and devotion that brooked no criticism.”

Having special talents is terrific, and it’s okay to cash in your skills for a living. Still, when people hide behind their talents, fame, and money to hide their own personal truth and keep themselves and others distracted from the truth and facts -- then you are misusing your abilities -- and contributing for the lies to spread and silently or covertly you are part of all the violence and atrocities we are witnessing in our world. So if people think they are better than others, because they have special talents, they are being delusional.
https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2014/12/having-special-talents-doesnt-make-you.html 

It's sad to witness people falling for the illusions that formal education, talents, money, and fame are the path to freedom. Formal education, talents, money, and fame alone just reinforce the walls of people's emotional prisons.

Monday, May 16, 2016

Bird's Eye View

Comments from the sharing of the article  Inside the mind of a workplace sociopath on Facebook


Sylvie Imelda Shene Yes, I have worked with a few sociopaths many times, and after I published my book, I was the target of a mob of sociopaths at my job of nine and a half years. The author missed a profession; sociopaths and psychopaths also love the mental health and helping professions. They use memorized intellectual and conceptual knowledge to impress, fool, and manipulate the emotionally blind clients and the public.
" If you’re singled out as a target–as an enemy – they won’t stop until they’ve torn you down, feeling no empathy whatsoever for any collateral damage that ensues."

I dance with Lucifer. 

Monica, is absolutely spot on, Sylvie. Yes, in my struggles to find much-needed support, I discovered heartless professionals even within the institution, with evidence of severe mobbing totally ignored. She didn't even want to see and hastily warned me of paranoia. I recall feeling betrayed. I trusted my feelings and used other channels that saved me from total destruction.

Sylvie Imelda Shene Me too, Monica. I have been betrayed and ignored by the mental health professionals. Most of these very well-written articles and books describing the truths about sociopaths and psychopaths are written by narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths. In real life, if they witness someone being the target of a mob of sociopaths, they look the other way, cowardly stay silent, or they join the mob. They use their conceptual knowledge about psychology to help regress the target to the state of the child and gain total control over their victims and destroy them. The sociopaths and psychopaths in the mental health and helping professions are the most dangerous.

Monica, perhaps you've got to experience it to believe it. But isn't it (paradoxically) wonderful to have a bird's eye view over humans?. Occasionally, I feel so discouraged as I note the vastness of the epidemic of sociopathy. In addition, the institutional professional, in my case, implicitly joined the mob and became dangerous for me as one word if doubt on my mental stability would have labeled me as the sick one officially. I was angry at her and, above all, disgusted. She earns a high salary playing double games at her convenience to maintain her job.

Sylvie Imelda Shene Yes, sociopathy/psychopathy is an epidemic, they are everywhere! And yes, it’s nice to have a bird’s eye view over humans. Since my experience with a mob of sociopaths at my job of nine and a half years that tried very hard to shoot me down, they forced me to fly even higher. Now I have an even better view of humans, but it’s pretty lonely. I usually fly solo, but I'm happy to be free!!! Smile emoticon:-) And they inspired my next book Reenactment: A Dance with Lucifer. I’m not surprised the mental health professional in your institution played a double game; that has been my experience also, that’s why sociopaths in the mental health profession and helping professions are the most dangerous because they are the most deceiving. Just like I wrote in my book, A Dance to Freedom, page 172, “My liberation has definitely given me added protection against sociopaths! Resolving childhood repression is the vaccine against the charlatans of the world who exploit those who are still emotionally blinded by the unresolved, repressed emotions of the children they once were. ...I’ve removed all the barriers of false morality and am totally free to experience all my feelings, take them seriously, and decide whom, if anyone, to share them with. I’ve faced my past and can deal with my present circumstances in the context of growing awareness instead of childhood fears.”
Me too. I don’t have much hope for humanity, but if my books help liberate one soul, it will make all my hard work and efforts worth it. I feel like I have been working undercover for a lifetime to study human behavior. Humanity, just like the Titanic, is heading towards an iceberg to commit mass suicide. I’m trying to warn them, but they just look at me stone-faced, and all I can do is wave goodbye to them! What makes me most sad is the innocent beings they take with them to suffer unnecessarily, like small children and animals. Frown emoticon:-(



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I posted the comment below on the attached picture on a page about psychopaths, but my comment got deleted! I know most pages on Facebook about psychopathy, narcissism, and sociopaths are created and run by narcissists, psychopaths, and sociopaths themselves. Deleting my comment proves my suspicion to be true! Otherwise, why would he feel threatened by my presence and comment?! Because they know I'm a seeing and feeling person, and I can't be fooled by their very well-articulated disconnected half-truths. They are afraid my presence will wake up their followers and that they will lose them! Because, like all narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths, they feed off others' emotional blindness.
"Yes, psychopaths are among us everywhere! I worked with a mob of them for nine and a half years. They were all hiding behind a false self, acting as if personality, pretending to be good people, but after I published my book, their true nature came out from hiding. And they started a very well-orchestrated psychological warfare to try to get me to self-destruct. If I had not truly resolved my childhood repression, I know without a doubt I would not have survived being the target of a mob of sociopaths/psychopaths. Anyone else would have been driven to hurt themselves, others, or both. They are pure evil because they try to manipulate others to act out their own violence. They are all a bunch of cowards." Psychological Warfare


To read more about my experiences with the mob of sociopaths or narcissists at my last job, read my blog, Experienced Knowledge.  



Friday, May 13, 2016

Secrets to a Long Life

Comments from the sharing of the article below on Facebook
This 90-Year-Old Lady Seduced and Killed Nazis as a Teenager
M:  In this interview, I found this outstanding. It is, for many people, a way to cover your own childhood trauma.
QUESTION: "Truus worked through her war trauma partly with the art that she made. How did you do cope?
ANSWER: "By getting married and having babies. And I often babysat Truus' children as well, because she was very busy. ...."

M: Sylvie note the question and answer from this lady on how she coped re her trauma..

Sylvie: Sad... unfortunately having children is how many people unconsciously deal with childhood traumas. That's how many people get to live long lives by making the vulnerable feel what they themselves can't feel. These words by Alice Miller come to mind: " Individuals who believe that they feel what they ought to feel and constantly do their best not to feel what they forbid themselves to feel will ultimately fall ill---unless, that is, they leave it to their children to pick up the check by projections onto them the emotions they cannot admit to themselves." 

Most People’s Love is Nothing But a Farce, a Sham, and a Façade


M: I read the interview carefully, she and her sister had a horrible life. There is a question on her father and her response is heartbreaking to me but she had no emotions about him, neither angry nor sad given the type of man he was, an irresponsible man who didn't care about them. In fact she says at the end of the response that 'He loved' them... Such a difficult life and she lived to 90! Perhaps the secret of a long life is to 'cut off emotionally'.. Here it is: Quesion: Where was your father?
Answer: My mother had divorced him, which was pretty unusual for that time. She was just fed up one day – we lived on a large ship in Haarlem but my father never made any money and didn't pay anything for the barge. But it wasn't an ugly divorce or anything – he sang a French farewell song from the bow of the ship when we left. He loved us, but I didn't see him that often anymore after that.'

Sylvie: My first thought when I read her talking about her father and that he loved them was: if he was capable of “love”, he would have made sure, he was in their lives and be present emotionally. Just like Alice Miller wrote in the introduction of her book The Body Never Lies “ As long as the children allow themselves to be used in this way, it is entirely possible to live to be one hundred without any awareness of one’s personal truth and without any illness ensuing from this protracted form of self-deception. A mother who is forced to realize that the deprivations imposed on her in her youth make it impossible for her to love a child of her own, however hard she may try, can certainly expect to be accused of immorality if she has the courage to put that truth into words. But I believe that it is precisely this explicit acceptance of her true feelings, independent of the claims of morality, that will enable her to give both herself and her children the honest and sincere kind of support they need most, and at the same time will allow her to free herself from the shackles of self-deception.” 

Maybe one of the secrets to living a long life is to be disconnected from one’s own truth and feelings, but it’s done at the expense of others and the next generations. When I was a kid I used to say to myself: the pain stops with me and I was willing to die than passing it into an innocent being. I much prefer resolving my own childhood repression to have a chance of living a long life than living a long life at the expense of others. These words by Alice Miller also come to mind: “".Am I saying that forgiveness for crimes done to a child is not only ineffective but actively harmful? Yes, that is precisely what I am saying. The body does not understand moral precepts. It fights against the denial of genuine emotions and for the admission of the truth to our conscious minds. This is something the child cannot afford to do, it has to deceive itself and turn a blind eye to the parents’ crimes in order to survive. Adults no longer need to do this, but if they do, the price they pay is high. Either they ruin their own health or they make others pay the price – their children, their patients, the people who work for them, etc." 
They Are Criminals

Saturday, April 30, 2016

Hornets’ Nest of Corruption


Sylvie, thanks for sharing this with me. Hope you are over all the blowback. That place is a hornets’ nest of corruption. So glad we got out. Keep me in the loop!

PS

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Hi P,
I hope all is well with you and your family.

I know you no longer live in Sxxxxxxxr, but I figured you would like to be in the loop! :-) I am sure you too are happy to be out of there!

I’m over the blow from Sxxxxxxr, but you’re not going to believe that I just went through a similar thing at C M in Paradise Valley.  As you know last year I started working for Sxxxxxxxd and they put me in C M, a very nice cozy little community and I loved it, but this January the C M HOA decides to change security company and depart with Sxxxxxxxd, because I knew everyone in the community and I liked working at C M, I decided to change to the new company and stay at C M, but the new company is run by crooks  just like Sxxxxxxxs, the owners of the new company they used to work  for Sxxxxxxxs and left to start their own company,  so they learned to corrupt and be corrupted with the best. I learned from them that my ex-boss from Sxxxxxxxs was robbing banks on the side and shot himself in a police standoff and how weird that he killed himself on my birthday!!!

Anyway, crooks don’t like authentic honest people like me, so one of the guys from the new company started emotionally harassing me and the whole scenario of Sxxxpxxxr was happening all over again!!! I couldn’t believe it was happening all over again a year later!!! I tried to warn the HOA and some residents, but in our society who believes a little woman like me over charming big tall men telling them pretty seductive lies. Oh well, it’s their problem if they believe in lies and discard the little woman telling them the truth. I think a few residents believed me and are getting together to get Sxxxxxxxd back. The woman in the chair of security at CM said to me that are two sides to every story and told hear: Yes, they are two sides to every story - one is true and the other is BS and I'm walking away with the truth. 

A few months later I found out that the last sociopath at CM in Paradise Valley got angry and walked out on the job on Friday, June 3! The truth always comes to the surface sooner or later! They got a dose of his poison! 


Right now I am at W close to desert highlands golf course filling in until they find me a permanent post closer to my house.

Sxxxxxxxd seems to be the most ethical security company in town! They have been the best with me!!!

Thank you for your support and all the best to you and your family,

Sylvie

On Apr 4, 2016, at 12:15 AM, Sylvie Shene <xxxxxxxxx@xxxxx.com> wrote:

Hi everyone!

I was not going to share this information with all of you, because the other day I run into I. B.  and tried to tell her that the Branch Manager that Sxxxxxxxr board used to do their dirty work shot himself in a police standoff after robbing a bank, and she said that she didn't want to hear it, she is either too weak to face the truth and facts or she is one of them. But some of you might like to know the truth.

Now there is proof that what I wrote in the e-mail of 2-23-15 is true that Sxxxxxxxs local office is run by crooks!

I found out that the branch manager from Sxxxxxxxs, K W that conspired with the sociopaths in Sxxxxxxxr to destroy me, he robbed a bank and shot himself in a police standoff two weeks ago, they treated me like a criminal but look who's the criminal?! I guess this is the type of people the present Sxxxpxxxr board likes to work with! And this is the kind of people Sxxxxxxxs likes to hire. Criminals work well together.
Best,

Sylvie


Read more in my blog  Sociopaths Hate Us

Friday, April 1, 2016

Facebook post About the Bank Robber in Chandler Arizona

Hey Clara! Do you remember K.W., the branch manager from the security company that employed me? You met him the day that one of the gate attendants died of heart attack in the gatehouse! He died two weeks ago also! I believe he was only in his forties!! I was told he died in some weird circumstances! Maybe he couldn't live anymore with a heavy conscious of being part of the plot to destroy me!

Sylvie Imelda Shene: I just heard, he shot himself! It's very sad. Maybe it's true that he couldn't live anymore with a heavy conscience. Very sad!!

Monica Chelagat: It is highly possible.

Sylvie Imelda Shene: I guess the sociopath, the property manager, and the other sociopaths at S board that joined her in the plot to destroy me, and all the enablers at S, they do have blood on their hands after all, they hoped with their mind games, smear campaign and lies to drive me to commit suicide or do some crazy thing to put me in a mental hospital or jail, but instead they drove into suicide this poor soul they used to do their dirty work. Cowards! 

Monica Chelagat: Indeed their intentions is to drive the person to suicide or be declared mentally unstable. They are the sick ones!



"Suicide of the victim is a Narcissist's goal. The ultimate pathological power and control over life and death should the victim commit suicide and succeed in ending their life. Murder (Psychological Homicide) with the appearance of clean hands." Read more here

Sylvie Imelda Shene: Clara! I guess K.W. didn't kill himself because of a heavy conscience. He was a true criminal! He robbed a bank and shot himself in a police standoff. He and the sociopaths at S treated me like a criminal, but look who's is the criminal! I guess this is the kind of people the present S board likes to work with! And that's the kind of people the security company likes to hire. Criminals work well together.

Chandler bank robbery suspect kills self inside his vehicle

Today, 3-5-22 I noticed that AZFAMILY. COM  link above no longer exists, most likely the Security company asked them to delete it because they don't want people to be making the connection that this story is true and real. But I just googled it and abc15 still has the story available in the link below.

https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/azcentral/name/kyle-wilson-obituary?id=17043491

Clara Pennafort: I guess he really was a criminal, desperate for money.

Sylvie Imelda Shene: Like I said, they treated me like a criminal, but they are the criminals. 

Sylvie Imelda Shene: from: xxxxxx@aol.com
to: xxxxxx@gmail.com
date: Thu, Feb 12, 2015 at 7:39 PM
subject: Re: Fxxxxxxxx
mailed-by: aol.com

Oh I'm sooooo happy ----- and jealous of wherever you go! Hope you told T K. Also I hope Sxxxxxs gave you a severance package and I hope T continues with his lawsuit!! They need to be put in their place. Stay in touch for sure. hugs g

from: Sylvie Shene <xxxxxxxxx@gmail.com>
to: <xxxxxx@aol.com>
date: Thu, Feb 12, 2015 at 9:27 PM
subject: Re: Fxxxxxxx
mailed-by: gmail.com

Dear Mrs. A,

Sxxxxxxxs didn’t give me severance package; they and Sxxxxxxr board treated me like a criminal, of worse type. Sxxxxxxxs left a message on my voice mail Monday afternoon not to report to work the next day, that if I did, I would be escorted off the property. I even was not allowed in the gate to retrieve my personal laptop and other belongs. Sxxxxxxs still has my personal staff, because I don’t want to go alone to pick them up. I need to ask someone, preferably a man, to go with me.

This has been one of my worst experiences of my life. But it showed me the true colors of some people at Sxxxxxxx, especially of the ones on the present board.

Again thank you for everything. I don’t have words to express how grateful I am for your support and friendship.

Hugs with love,

Sylvie

from: xxxxxx@aol.com
to: xxxxxxxxx@gmail.com
date: Thu, Feb 12, 2015 at 11:10 PM
subject: Re: Fxxxxxxxx
mailed-by: aol.com

This is outrageous! No one should receive this treatment. I forwarded to T my last response from L --- I'll leave it up to the legal minds to try to sort out this mess and I hope T doesn't give it up. I also told him I would like to form a coalition to try to have some influence in the job description for P's replacement. We'll see -- but some changes need to be made here. Good luck to you and keep me posted! G

Sylvie Imelda Shene: Yes, that's what they did to me, but now there is proof that they are the criminals' ones.

Clara Pennafort: Maybe for some reason he wanted to go out with the bank. Here to rob a bank is a stupid idea because they don't have much money. I think there is also the same. So, not a smart idea robe a bank.

Sylvie Imelda Shene: To corrupt is their ultimate goal! They thought I was the stupid one, but look who is stupid now! They thought they could make me lose my mind with their projections, lies, mind games and their very well-orchestrated smear campaign, but I could see so clearly what they were trying to do that I would look them in the face and say to myself: you are not going to get the reaction out of me you are hoping for!!! They wanted to murder my soul and become soulless like them so they could discredit me and my book, but I walked away with my integrity intact! And by coming after me they exposed their true selves!!!
“The ideal outcome for the abuser is to succeed in making the other “evil,” which transforms the evil into something more normal because it is now shared. He wants to inject the other with what is bad in him. To corrupt is the ultimate goal.” Stalking the Soul By Marie –France Hirigoyen

Sylvie Imelda Shene: How could K.W. help me when I wrote to him last year reporting to him I was being harassed in the workplace. He was a sociopath too plotting to destroy me. I was attacked by a mob of sociopaths from every corner, if I had not truly resolved my childhood repression, they would have destroyed me for sure. Read the letter to K. W. here

Sylvie Imelda Shene: Clara, can you make the connection? Have you noticed the day that all happened? What an odd coincidence! 

Clara Pennafort Yes, a very odd coincidence.

Sylvie Imelda Shene "When Exposing a Crime is Treated as Committing a Crime, You Are Ruled By Criminals."  Yes, I was ruled by criminals!

New comments from the sharing of this blog on Facebook

Sylvie Imelda Shene: Look Clara!
Yesterday while at work I got the comment above asking me to
PM him about KW.  
And as you see below in the private messages exchanged, my ex-boss used to be a Sheriff and is a big cover-up that involves, the sociopaths at the community where I used to work, the FBI, the Marshals, AND the Media. You can't trust anyone in a position of power. There is so much corruption everywhere. There is corruption at every level of power. 
Everyone is focused on the sociopaths in the white house, but how we prevent from sociopaths getting into the highest office of the land is to expose the sociopaths and their corruption at the local level. We fight corruption from the bottom up and not from the top, but as we witnessed at the community where I worked for nine and half years no one had the courage to expose the sociopaths and their corruption. And no one cares that my livelihood was almost destroyed by these sociopaths.

You and Mr. X. aren't connected on Facebook
9-6-2017 11:36AM

Mr. X.: I would like to know more about Kyle Wilson for personal reasons. not sure how to explain why. how much do you know about him anyhow
I found a post online about the bank robbery. as I try to do my homework 

You accepted X's request.

MR. X.: Not sure if I want to know, maybe its best to leave it alone, in the end, he broke her heart

Sylvie Imelda Shene: Kyle Wilson was a criminal that joins a mob of sociopaths in a plot to destroy me. He broke her heart and because of him, I lost my job of nine and half years and more than half of my income. He projected himself into me by treating me like I was a criminal, but a year later we saw who was the true criminal. But it's a big cover-up and everyone is silent. After the emotional harassment, I went through at my job I will never look at another human being the same way and I pretty much lost all hope for humanity. Every time society allows sociopaths to go Scott free and win, we all lose. No wonder we live in this messed-up world.

Mr. X.: Did you know he was past law enforcement. There is so much covered up. But his wife did share what she knew. From what I gathered he was up to something bigger and it’s been covered up. Especially since the FBI and marshals got involved. I know about borderline personality disorders, as my ex-messed me up for years. Still cleaning up the mess she left on the kids. But the kids finally figured it out. Sad world

Sylvie Imelda Shene: No, I didn’t know he was in law enforcement, I just know it’s a big cover-up! Thank you for writing. The information you share with me might be helpful in the future. My story is going to be heard sooner or later. I’m patient. I’m sorry your ex-was also a sociopath and you still cleaning up her mess. Me too, I’m still cleaning up after the mess of being the target of a mob of sociopaths at my work.

Mr. X.: Please leave my name out of it. He was Pierce county sheriff

Sylvie Imelda Shene: Don't worry I will keep you anonymous... but this information is very valuable to me.

Mr. X. Hope it helps.

Sylvie Imelda Shene: Thank you!


Sylvie Imelda Shene "For most people, when we do an act which hurts somebody else, we feel guilt, we have regret, remorse, and shame. The sociopath does not experience these feelings. He will only experience regret if his actions have affected his own life, and therefore damaged himself." Read More Here



To read more about my experiences with the mob of sociopaths or narcissists at my last job read my blog Experienced Knowledge