Friday, February 27, 2015

Mobilizing all Forces to Discredit Former Victims

Hi J,

I was wondering if you received my e-mails informing my former bosses that I was being emotionally harassed on the job by the new guy, but of course they didn’t take me serious, because they were all in together plotting against me.  My book triggered their own repression and to keep their own lies, illusions and repression intact, they mobilize all the forces at their command to discredit me, just as I wrote in my book A Dance to Freedom: Your Guide to Liberation from Lies and Illusions, page 173 “It really is a powerful feeling, and you’re likely to find yourself possessing a power that will be threatening to a lot of people. Society is on the side of the status quo, so be prepared. As Alice Miller writes in Free from Lies, going against the parents “is a source of major alarm for others … They will sometimes mobilize all the forces at their command to discredit the former victim and thus keep their own repression intact.”82”
This was exactly what my former employer S, PP, and S board did, they started mobilizing all the forces at their command to discredit me and after six months of trying every manipulative trick available to them and not being able to do it, they just fired me without a reason.

You might like reading my blog post of 2-8-15 Stalking the Soul, it articulates very well the manipulative tricks they were playing to make me lose it emotionally, so they could declare me mentally unstable to force me to quit or fire me with the reason that I was not mentally stable. They were pure evil, they rather destroy a soul than face their own illusions and repression. People like this are nothing but cowards.
Thank you for listen and I am looking forward to hear what your thoughts are.

Have a good weekend.

Sincerely,
Sylvie Shene

To read more about my experiences with the mob of sociopaths or narcissists at my last job read my blog Experienced Knowledge  

Wednesday, February 25, 2015

Empathy

Dear J,
Thank you for the beautiful card. Your sympathetic words and understanding  is very helpful in helping me get through this dark cloud the sociopaths from my last job left over me. I think what I am going through is also what Alice Miller went through in her life and her readers’ letters gave her the strength to keep going and not give up.
My readers’ letters are also what is giving me the strength to keep going and not give up, because the sociopaths in the world really can suck the life out of you and stop you from doing your most important work.
Take good care in this world full of sociopaths posing as nice people wearing sheep’s clothes waiting for an opportunity to stab you in the back when no one is watching.
Hugs with love,
Sylvie

Saturday, February 21, 2015

Driven by Jealousy to Hurt Others


Hi L,

Nice to hear from you! Yes, I changed jobs. P’s mission in her last year at S was to make sure I would be gone. I triggered her jealousy and she was driven by it to plot against me, and few Rs on the board that are uncomfortable by my gained higher experienced knowledge, joined her in plotting against me and when they were not able to get anything on me, they used the new guy, MB and the Security company to plot also against me and  fire me without a cause.
Some people when you trigger their insecurities and fears can get very nasty and mean. What they did  to me was pure evil.  It was very sad, but I am better off now. Read my e-mail below to Mrs. A.  

I was born to expose the bad people in our world wearing sheep's clothes, so I did my job well at S,  because it sure did brought out their true colors!


Reading the words in the article What Really Makes Narcissists Tickthe property manager at my last job come to mind, she got so jealous and envious of my success of publishing my book, that she had to do everything in her power to try to destroy me to transfer her bad feelings into me, so she could feel better and superior again, but she was not able to and I'm sure she is suffering from depression like never before and probably taking medication. 
“The characteristic subjective experience of narcissistic individuals is a sense of inner emptiness and meaninglessness that requires recurrent infusions of external confirmation of their importance and value. . . . When the environment fails to provide such evidence, narcissistic individuals feel depressed, ashamed, and envious of those who succeed in attaining the supplies that they lack.”

Thank you for writing and my best wishes to you and everyone you love.
Much love,

Sylvie


date: Mon, Jan 26, 2015 at 4:06 PM
subject: Real Life Villains and Spotting a Sociopath - You Can't Win
Hi Mrs. A,
I am pretty sure I am being a target of a sociopath at work and I think you know who I am talking about.  I triggered her jealousy and now she is going to use her last year at work to manipulate things to make me look like I am crazy and unstable and make her appear to be the bigger and saner person. I am going to try to be careful and watch my back and keep my distance from her and see if I can survive her last year. Otherwise I might have to look for another job.

Below is an article about sociopaths if you have time to read it. I am her target and once a sociopath targets you, you can’t win and the only way to keep your sanity is to stay away from them.  This is why she didn’t share your e-mail with all the board members and just shared it with the one in charge of  Security, because in this way she has fewer people to persuade and keeps more control. The board member that is in charge of Security right now is totally emotionally blind and will never see through her games and will play him like a mouse.

I see the games people play so clear!

Thank you for listen and see you tomorrow,

Sylvie

Also read my blog post Experienced Knowledge

Friday, February 20, 2015

Proof of one of the Sociopaths’ Plotting

From: Sylvie Shene <sylvie@.com>
Date: Wed, Feb 4, 2015 at 4:22 PM
Subject: here is proof that I am being harassed on the job
To: "KW (work)" <k.w@sinc.com>

Hi K,

I have more proof I am being harassed on the job. Today it came to my attention that the new guy MB called others co-workers at home to see if they had anything bad to say about me. It proves that the new guy MB has been plotting against me to steal my job. You can ask other co-workers for yourself, if the new guy MB called them at home trying to get information about me, that he could use against me, this is total harassment. Anyway this is how I found out, this co-worker asked me if he could give four hours of his Fridays shift to CD and I told him that down town office would have to approve it also and if he didn’t mind waiting a little bit, because I was dealing with a lot of staff right now and he says: I know! The new guy MB called me at home to see if I had anything bad to say against you and I told him that I didn’t have anything bad to say about you, that all these years I worked here, you only have been kind to me.
This is exactly what sociopaths/psychopaths do, just like the article I sent you says: “1.Know your enemy: Sociopaths manipulate, lie and scheme against you. They think nothing of spending 10 hours a day on the phone, or in person, telling anyone and everyone lie after lie about you. Your reputation may be in tatters by the time they are done. According to therapist Martha Stout in The SociopathNext Door, sociopaths have no remorse. They do not feel sorrow when they destroy your life.”

I am the victim here and haven’t been able to sleep well because the emotional harassment I have been through on the job. And yesterday when I was being interviewed by the ladies at HR, I felt like they were accusing me of wrong doing and the problems were caused by my actions, which could not be further from the truth, but this is what the sociopaths do, they twist everything around to make them look good by destroying their target so they can steal their job or money or whatever their target have that they want for themselves. The only wrong I have done to the new guy MB, or anyone is of being too kind, nice and wanting to help all of my co-workers. He has no idea how good he had it there if he had work with me, instead of working against me.

Sylvie

Thursday, February 19, 2015

My First Day on the New Job

Hi Mrs. PS,

Today was my first day at my new job! I felt like I was a star! :-) Everyone would come up to me everywhere, even when I was in the ladies bathroom and people would ask me: are you Sylvie? And I would say: yes I am! And she replied: I am M, I work at HR, welcome aboard! And I said: Thank you! I am happy to be here! :-)

Mrs. PS your husband must have given references out of this world! I never felt so welcome into a new company in my entire life! Thank you so much! Please let me know if I can ever be of assistance to you.

This experience showed me who is real at S and who is not.

I will never forget any of you that helped me get through this very dark cloud in my life.

I don't know how PP, some members of S board, and the Security Company can sleep at night after of what they have done to me, it was pure evil. They did everything in the book to break me emotionally, to murder my soul and when they couldn't, they just let me go without a reason, because their little plan to discredit me and declare me mentally unstable didn't work!

Forever grateful to you all,

Sylvie

Monday, February 16, 2015

You are not Alone


Dear S,

Thank you for your kindness and comforting words.

It’s very comforting to hear from people that fully understands what happened and is capable of really seeing and feeling.

Sadly the work place can become a place where people unconsciously and compulsively tell their true tragic stories of their own childhoods by reenacting it with innocent people and making them their scapegoat, turning the work place into dangerous and a toxic environment .

I too went through most of my life feeling unwanted and rejected, and if I have not healed my childhood wounds of being unwanted and rejected as a child, I have no doubt this present rejection and betrayal would have thrown me over the edge.

Thank you for sharing about your personal experiences in the work place. I know I am not alone, but it's nice to be reminded by others that I am not alone.

All the best to you and stay safe.

Sylvie

2-22-2018
It's hard to believe it has been three years since I was the target of a mob of sociopaths at my job of nine and half years. 

At the time I did not publish the e-mails exchanged with S, because she requested me not to published hers and my last answers in my blog.  But it has been three years and I removed her personal information and experiences, so I hope it's okay to publish now, because I find the answers enlightening and hopefully help others see and understand themselves and others more clearly. 

From:S <S@>
Date: Fri, Feb 13, 2015 at 2:19 AM
Subject: thanks for your book
To: "sylvie@sylvieshene.com" <sylvie@sylvieshene.com>

Dear Sylvie,

I am very sorry to read on your blog that you have been terminated. This is a very painful experience even if you understand - as you do - what is really going on. I wish you all possible support from your friends and from your inner knowledge. It is such an incredible journey you made and you were able to describe in your book. So encouraging. I read your book for weeks time and again - but just now I feel it is even too much for me and I lost the contact. Sometimes - no, always - I don't know how I survived because there weren't any helping witnesses in my childhood. The bad and cruel experience you describe with your ex I made several times. 

Sylvie, sometimes I think you could be the right person to become a professional counselor or therapist or as you would name it. You have the knowledge, you have real and honest exchange and communication in your life. But however I wish you a safe place from which you can continue to do good and lovely things.

Thanks for your book and for speaking out and all the very best to you - S

 From: Sylvie Shene <sylvie@sylvieshene.com>
Date: Sun, Feb 15, 2015 at 12:26 PM
Subject: Re: thanks for your book
To: S <S@>

Dear S,


Thank you for writing and for reading my book. I am glad to hear my book is being a helping witness to you.

Understanding that people rather murder others souls and destroy others, so they can keep their own repression and illusions intact to protect them from having to face and feel their own painful truths -- helps me to get through it -- but it still hurts and is a very big reminder of the pain I suffered as a small defenseless child at the hands of abusive teachers and older sisters and brothers. 
The way they are treating me, they are showing me unconsciously and compulsively how they were treated as small children and how they have treated their own children.
I am starting a new job soon and now that I am getting away from this toxic situation -- hopefully this will be water under the bridge soon and I can keep doing my work and continue be a helping witness to others.
Wishing you the very best to you too,


Sylvie
From: S <S@>
Date: Mon, Feb 16, 2015 at 1:48 PM
Subject: AW: thanks for your book
To: Sylvie Shene <sylvie@sylvieshenecom>

Dear Sylvie,
thank you so much for your e-mails! I am sure there are some people who even if they do not write understand your situation. You are not completely alone! The various work environments offer a broad field for all those people who reenact their childhood. In the twenty years of my working life I have been in more or less precarious jobs. 

For me it was a very strong childhood reminder to know that there are people who will not hesitate to take from me the material basis of my life. But it is also the experience of not being wanted, not being estimated or appreciated as the person you are. It is really very hard. It depends on the actual structures - and if those in power are willing to protect the colleagues, as you described it. 

Hey, and I wish you all the best for your new job, people who are happy and proud to have you with them! And who are real and honest enough to not allow abusive situations to come up and spread.

It is also more than twenty years now that I read Alice Miller's books. Yes, she saved my life, too. But definitely I have still a heavy part of the way before me. Freedom soon? It sounds good.

Thank you for listening and all the best again, S

From: Sylvie Shene <sylvieshene.com>
Date: Mon, Feb 16, 2015 at 5:48 PM
Subject: Re: thanks for your book
To: S <S@>

Dear S,


Thank you for your kindness and comforting words.
It’s very comforting to hear from people that fully understands what happened and is capable of real seeing and feeling.
Sadly the work place can become a place where people unconsciously and compulsively tell their true tragic stories of their own childhoods by reenacting it with innocent people and making them their scapegoat, turning the work place into dangerous and a toxic environment .
I too went through most of my life feeling unwanted and rejected, and if I had not had healed my childhood wounds of being unwanted and rejected as a child, I have no doubt this present rejection and betrayal would have thrown me over the edge.
I know I am not alone, but it's nice to be reminded by others that I am not alone.


All the best to you and stay safe.
Sylvie   

From: S <.com>
Date: Sun, Mar 1, 2015 at 3:46 AM
Subject: thanks for your book
To: "sylvie@sylvieshene.com"

Dear Sylvie,

I am happy to hear that things are going well with your new job. Congratulations for keeping confidence to yourself!!

Hey Sylvie, may I share one thing with you? It is really hard. My feelings tell me... the last time when I was between three and four years old. 

The thing is that she was able to hide her hatred towards me perfectly behind a wall of pseudo-love and care. And culture, of course, in her case. Some weeks or months ago I started again to write down my story (encouraged by your book, too) and I wrote that these incredible double messages I got from her since early childhood distracted me from myself so strongly. 

I tried to tell this to some people but no one was able to take it really seriously. I broke up contact with my mother I think nine years ago but this is not enough to feel what really happened. 

Only then I will be able to explain this to my two adult daughters - and I cannot imagine this now. Real life seems far away sometimes.

Thank you for listening and just for being there. It means such a lot to me that you answered my e-mails.

All the best to you! S

From: Sylvie Shene <sylvie@sylvieshene.com>
Date: Sun, Mar 8, 2015 at 11:39 AM
Subject: Re: thanks for your book
To:  S <S@>

Dear S,


Thank you for writing and for your understanding. Sorry it took me so long to answer you back, but starting a new job is always a little stressful.
Things are going well in my new job, but I am hurting financially at the moment, because I am going from making $16 an hour to $10 an hour. I would have been fine, if I had not taken out a loan to pay editors, proofreaders and the publishing costs of my book. 
I spent more than $40.000 of my own money to deliver my book/baby to the world and I don’t know if I ever get it back, but like I said in my book: is my gift to the world. And I am not worry if I get the money back or not. I have two more years to pay the loan off of $460 payment a month and once it’s paid off, I will be fine, because I can live on little money, I don’t have a need for a lot of money.  I have a very simple life.
Trust your feelings. If you feel your mother... most likely she did. Most of us are here, because of the stigma on abortion in our society, to this day I wish abortion had been available to my mother, because no woman should be forced to motherhood and have more children than she can take care of and protect, no child should go through life, like I did most of my life, feeling unwanted, a burden and rejected by everyone. It took me most of my life to heal this wound and now I want to do all I can to prevent children to be born to suffer like I did.  
To this day my feelings never been wrong once! Sooner or later, I always get proof of my feelings being right and getting mad at myself for doubting my feelings.
Reading your words in your last e-mail, one of my sisters came to mind, because it took me a life time to see through her mask of the cloth of love she wears, like your mother, she hidden her hate behind this illusion of love, it kept me in the state of confusion most of my life and under this illusion of love she covertly transferred her hate into me. 

Just like I wrote in my book:  Alice Miller explains that most of us aren’t capable of genuine feelings, and that most relationships are held together by fear and guilt. “We cannot really love if we are forbidden to know our truth, the truth about our parents and caregivers as well as about ourselves,” she writes. “We can only try to behave as if we were loving, but this hypocritical behavior is the opposite of love. It is confusing and deceptive, and it produces much helpless rage in the deceived person. This rage must be repressed in the presence of the pretended ‘love,’ especially if one is dependent, as a child is, on the person who is masquerading in this illusion of love.”25 Elza’s illusion of kindness definitely helped to further repress the rage I was feeling inside. My feelings of fear and anger would bubble up when she began to mistreat me again, but then she’d feel guilty and act nice for a while. What a rollercoaster ride! I wanted so desperately to believe in her love, but knowing that it could end at any time kept me in constant state of fear.” Page 50 and 51
I should have included also in my book that my sister's illusion of love kept me in the state of confusion most of my life, and under this illusion of love she transferred her repressed hate into me and forced me to feel her hate that she could not feel. Parents or parents substitutes always make children feel what they cannot feel.  


I am glad my book is encouraging you to explore your history and write about it. It will be liberating! Congratulations for your courage! Yes the double messages of love and hate we get as children are the most confusing and damaging, because is hard to see through and liberation is never possible until we see clear through the pretty veils people wear that hide the real truth and give the illusion of love and kindness. 
This double messages are the most confusion and damaging in a person’s life, because it can keep us stuck for life in the emotional prison of our childhood, we need the whole naked truth to liberate ourselves from the emotional prisons of our parents or childhood care givers.
Most people will never understand, because most people are still little children still dependent on the parents or on people standing in symbolizing their parents' illusion of love for survival and too afraid to be rejected, ostracized and left alone, if they see through the pretty lies, facades and illusions of their parents or the people standing in symbolizing their parents.


Wishing you courage and strength in your journey to finding the truth in your life and freedom from all the lies and illusion shoved down to you when you were a defenseless little child.
All the best to you too,
Sylvie

From: Sylvie Shene <@.com>
Date: Sun, Mar 8, 2015 at 12:31 PM
Subject:
To: E com>
Hi E,

I hope you are having a good weekend. My Friday is on Sundays now, because now I am off on Mondays and Tuesdays!


I thought I would share with you the words I wrote to S.
Do you see clear the illusion of love some residents at Sxxxxxxxr try to gave me for the last 9 and half years and like my family, they too rejected me, and they reenacted theirs childhood dramas and reminded me of mine!!! I always saw through their illusion of love and pretenses and I was not too shocked, but I really thought, they would keep pretending and go on acting as if personality. 

But my book triggered their repressed fears, jealousy and anger too much and they had the illusion that by getting rid of me, they would make their fears, jealousy and anger go away, and like my family making me their scapegoat, they are too emotionally blind to see that by getting rid of me, it actually is going to trigger their repressed emotions even more and making the fears of exposure a reality. What we fear most always come a reality sooner or later! Face your fears or they will keep biting you in the ass until we face them. 
Thanks,
Sylvie

From: E <e.com>
Date: Sun, Mar 8, 2015 at 1:11 PM
Subject: Re: 
To: Sylvie Imelda Shene <s.com>


I saw my sister today and she said that Joanne, who publishes the newsletter that published our review, actually sat down to read the book, loved it, and wants to have lunch with you. 

If you have my sister’s email or phone you can set it up with her directly. Also we have to meet for coffee soon. 

E

From: Sylvie Shene <.com>
Date: Sun, Mar 8, 2015 at 6:21 PM
Subject: Re: 
To: E <.com>

When I read the words that Joanne read my book, my heart dropped, because I thought the next words I was going to read was that she wanted to recant her review from her newspaper. What a relieve when read the words she loved my book and likes to meet me for lunch. I will be more than happy to meet her for lunch and I will find the money to pay for both our lunches. People that truly want to better themselves and society; they appreciate the fundamental truths I write in my book. Only phony people, liars and sociopaths hate my book, because my book is a mirror and they don’t like their own reflections and feel exposed by my book. What phony people and Sociopaths fear the most is their false selves being exposed.


Yes, I still have side jobs at Sxxxxxxxr, but not enough to help me at the moment, a lot of my big clients that I used to have, like the resident that moved permanently to Hawaii that I use to take care of his cat all the time, his cat Tigger paid almost all of your fees for writing my book, another Resident that used to travel all the time too and I use to cat sit for her two cats all the time also sold her house and moved away. 
And a few other cats I use to sit for died of old age. I still have a few residents I cat sit for, but they don’t travel much. Right now I only have one house I take of that the owners are gone all year around, they only here a few weeks a year. Most people that I look after their houses in the summer are here now and I have a feeling that they will not call me to take care of their houses when they leave for the summer, because they are being pressured by the sociopaths in the present board and the property manager Pxx Pxxx to hire someone else to look after their houses -- their fears are being triggered that the sociopaths will target them also. I feel their fears, they just care about money.  But at the end no matter how much money they have cannot save them from their repressed fears. Old age and death is the perfect trigger for everyone and if we don’t resolve our repression before we age and death arrives, old age and death will intensify the repressed fears and no amount of money or medication like morphine, will save them from having to face and feel their repressed fears and will be no more scapegoats available to take out their repression on.
Pxx Pxxx, the property manager and a resident, the resident that found the 10 duplicated line on the manuscript, they started the plotting to get rid of me. They were hoping  with their abusive package procedure to get me to make a mistake and get something to pin me down with.  Wen I thought I had won this battle by creating a procedure that made sense, the new guy that took the place of the guy that died of heart failure right after my book release party, was after my job position, he saw me vulnerable and started emotionally harassing me too. 
I think he might be a pet of someone big at Sxxxxxxxs, because they took his side and they fired me the following week after I made the complaint of him being emotionally abusive towards me.  I was being attacked by sociopaths from every angle like I said to M: PP and another resident at the community where I worked started the plotting and MB, a new guy that was taking the place of guy that died of heart failure, he wanted my job and saw me vulnerable and joined in the plotting to steal my job. When I thought I had a battle won, another sociopath would take over and continue the emotional harassment the first sociopaths started. I was being attacked by sociopaths from every angle. They wanted to kill my soul to keep their own repressions intact and some just for their own personal gain.
http://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2015/02/stalking-soul.html

https://www.facebook.com/sylne/posts/10152853565923922?comment_id=10152854672923922&notif_t=share_comment

T the lawyer that owns a house in Sxxxxxxxr has been silent too lately, he might be too busy or his fears have been triggered also, but I talked to another lawyer here by my house. She recommends to write a demand letter to my former employer. we will see. 

Are you busy tomorrow and Tuesday? If you like we can meet for coffee anytime all day either day.

Looking forward to seeing you so much to talk about,


Sylvie
P.S. Your sister just sent me an e-mail telling me too that Joanne read my book and loved it!!And likes for us to meet for lunch, your sister likes to include you too. Below are your sisters exact words. Right now Mondays and Tuesdays are the best days for me. I am going to try to answer your sister back right now.

Some Sxxxxxxr residents and the property manager were so emotionally blinded by their repression that didn't see that coming after me would expose themselves. 

They thought they could regress me to my childhood wounds and destroyed me emotionally to declare me emotionally unstable to have a reason to get rid of me to manage their uncomfortable feelings of feeling psychologically naked in my presence.

They must not believed what I wrote in my book that I had healed my childhood wounds and I am sure now, if they could go back, they would not had me fired, because who is regressing to their childhood wounds is them. 

Their betrayal for sure was a great reminder of the pain I went through as a child, but no one will ever be able to take me to that place again like Marty did. Free at last!!! 

Only evil people will try to consciously destroy a person emotionally like they did. 

They are pure evil.

Also read my blog post Experienced Knowledge





Sunday, February 15, 2015

They showed me the Truth of their own Childhoods


Dear Sylvie, I am very sorry to read on your blog that you have been terminated. This is a very painful experience even if you understand - as you do - what is really going on. I wish you all possible support from your friends and from your inner knowledge. It is such an incredible journey you made and you were able to describe in your book. So encouraging. I read your book for weeks, time and time again - but just now I feel it is even too much for me and I lost the contact. Sometimes - not, always - I don't know how I survived because there weren't any helping witnesses in my childhood. The bad and cruel experience you describe with your ex I made several times.  Sylvie, sometimes I think you could be the right person to become a professional counselor or therapist or as you would name it. You have the knowledge, you have real and honest exchange and communication in your life. But however I wish you a safe place from which you can continue to do good and lovely things.

Thanks for your book and for speaking out and all the very best to you – 

Dear S,

Thank you for writing and for reading my book. I am glad to hear my book is being a helping witness to you.

Understanding that people rather murder others souls and destroy others, so they can keep their own repression and illusions intact to protect themselves from having to face and feel their own painful truths, helps me to get through it, but it still hurts and is a very big reminder of the pain I suffered as a small defenseless child at the hands of ignorant and abusive teachers and older sisters and brothers.
The way they are treating me, they are  also showing me unconsciously and compulsively how they were treated as small children and how they have treated their own children.

I am starting a new job soon and now that I am getting away from this toxic situation hopefully this will be water under the bridge soon and I can keep doing my work and continue to be a helping witness to others.

Wishing you the very best to you too and thank you for understanding,
 Sylvie

Dear S,

I like to add a few more words to the e-mail I sent you yesterday, to let you know, that when I read your e-mail I was feeling down by the betrayal I suffered at my work and feeling pretty lonely. And reading your understanding words, I didn’t feel so alone, knowing that there was someone out there capable of seeing and feeling and that understands what I am going through was very comforting to me.

I am sorry you didn’t have a helping witness in your childhood, no child should have to grow up all alone in the painful emotional prisons of their parents and because of it you too have to suffer so much, like me, in your adult personal relationships.

Take good care and again thank you for writing and I hope you find your personal freedom soon.

Much love,

Sylvie




Saturday, February 14, 2015

Cowards always get Others to do the Dirty Work for Them

Hi F and G,

Thank you for writing.

The real culprits here are PP and X Board. What Mr. K wrote in his e-mail is total bullshit. Years ago when Mr. C was on the board in the chair of security, he came to me and told me: if any anyone under me or anyone else gave me trouble to call him and he would take care of it for me. Over the 9 and half years I worked there, I have worked with difficult people, but I always managed to work with them. But once, while Mr. C was still on the board, I did have a little issue with the Security Company over a pay vacation check that they kept insisting that they had paid me, when they had not, and after many e-mails and phone calls to HR, I could not get them to fix their mistake and pay me for my vacation, so I called Mr. C and explain to him my issue with S. and Mr. C called S and told them: that if I ever quit my job because of S that S would be gone too! And my little problem with S was solved overnight!

When I went to Mr. K to tell him I was being emotionally abused or bully by the new guy MB, he told me that it's an issue of the security company and he would rather not get involved. Of course, he didn’t want to get involved, he, PP and other members of the X board started the emotional harassment with their packages abusive procedure and were plotting with the security company to finish the job they started and do the fatal stabbing in my back to finish with me.

The quotes below describes exactly what happened after i published my book! The property manager recruited a team of flying monkeys taking turns doing her dirty work and she got the new guy and the security company to finish the job she started, this is how cowards work! We all know who the real culprit is!? The property manager!!!

Yes, she wanted to discredit me and reduce me to an inferior being, less than nothing.
Yep! This was one of the big reasons i was target by the sociopath that was the property manager at my last job because I am a truly happy and free person, but she was not able to destroy me and she didn't walk away wearing my skin. But instead, her true self was revealed.



Reading the quote above, the property manager at the community where I worked comes to mind. She was very jealous of me and she and the board manipulated by her came up with a messy packages abusive procedure, but then I came up with a package procedure that was really efficient and she comes up to me saying: "I heard you created a very efficient package procedure" and I just ignored her, because I knew she was full of it and then she says: "I am trying to give you a compliment!" She was trying to give me a compliment my ass, she was seeing what else she could come up with to bring me down. She has everyone fooled, but she never had me fooled from day one, I knew I could not trust her. These words from an article I just read could not be truer: "13. Suspect Flattery
Flattery and compliments are different, and you should learn to tell them apart. Sociopaths use flattery as a tool for manipulation." Read more HERE 
Yes, I can tell when someone is genuine and authentic or when someone is trying to create a smoke screen to blind me and manipulate me.  

The quote below also articulates exactly what the property manager did. Totally she wanted to destroy me! And she got the new guy and the Security Company to finished the job she started, she is talented!!! 



Thank you to you both for being my friends.
Hugs with love,

 Sylvie

To read more about my experiences with the mob of sociopaths or narcissists at my last job read my blog Experienced Knowledge  

Friday, February 13, 2015

The Ultimate Betrayal

Hi Sylvie,

I am so sorry to hear about what has happened this week.  I can’t even begin to understand, and I really want you to know how much we miss your smiling face each day.  This just does not make any sense,
A

Dear A,

Thank you for writing. I was treated by S board and the Security Company like I was a criminal, of the worst type. The Security Company left a message on my voice mail Monday afternoon not to report to work the next day, that if I did, I would be escorted off the property. I even was not allowed in, to retrieve my personal lap top and other belongs. The Security Company still has my personal staff, because I don’t want to go alone to pick them up. I need to ask someone, preferable a man, to go with me.

This has been one of my worst experiences of my life. But it showed me the true colors of some people at S board, especially of the ones on the present board. Read my personal blogs if you like to get the full scoop of the emotional harassment I went through by S Board and the Security Company. This all started right after my book was published. My book is a mirror and they don’t like their own reflections. I already have a new job and if all goes well I will be working again by next Thursday.
Thank you for your support over the years and for caring.

My best wishes to you and everyone you love,

Sylvie