Monday, June 26, 2017

Most people's objective in life is to one day own their own slaves

The author of the article below has figured it out!
And this is why I was attacked by a mob of sociopaths at my job of nine and half years because my book threatened their power and they couldn't handle the thought I could become more wealthy and powerful than them. They did everything in their power to stop me in my tracks. They slow me down, but they have not stopped me. 
And this is also why a lot of them, hiding behind religion and god, is against abortion and birth control also because it's a sure thing to have an endless supply of slaves and keep poor vulnerable women stuck in the vicious circle of slavery and poverty. Most people's objective in life is not freedom for themselves and others. Most people's objective in life is to one day own their own slaves.
"This isn’t about money, this is about power. The wealthiest of the wealthy in America haven’t been doing everything they can to stave off universal healthcare and economic justice in order to save a few million dollars. They haven’t been fighting to keep you poor because they are money hoarders and they can’t bear to part with a single penny from their trove. It’s so much more sinister than that: the goal isn’t to keep you from making the plutocrats a little less wealthy, the goal is to keep you from having any wealth of your own." Read more here

Human history, of all races, everywhere is very ugly. Most people's objective, no matter what race, is not freedom for themselves and others. Most people's objective is to one day own their own slaves. This is what most people, no matter their race, are fighting so hard for! Most people want to be on top, no matter what race and they don't care who they step on to get to the top! To the assholes at my job of nine and a half years, my life didn't matter either!

If you like to read more about my experience with a mob of sociopaths also read my blog post Experienced Knowledge 

Tuesday, June 20, 2017

Portugal Fires

Yes, Mark, I saw it the horrific fires in Portugal. I can't imagine the horror these people are going through. I wish everyone lived and died in peace. No one deserves to die scared in despair like this. If most people resolved their own childhood repression and were conscious -- tragedies like this could be prevented -- but most people are passive -- acting as if personality -- pretending everything in their lives is roses and never wake up -- and tragedies like this one will go on endless. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HVNZOv0A31E

Just like the fire in the tower in London could have been prevented from spreading so fast like it did. But we live in a society that most people just care about making fast money and image. And go after anyone that dares to speak the truth and exposes the pretty lies and illusions of society.

Just look what happened to me at my job of nine and half years for daring to write a book exposing the lies and illusions' of society.

"Two women feared dead in Grenfell Tower were 'threatened with legal action' after questioning fire safety‘They bullied them and persecuted those like Nadia and Mariem who were brave enough to speak out, branding them troublemakers’

Grenfell Tower fire rescuers ‘found 42 bodies in one room’ during search Read more here
If you like to read more about my experience with a mob of sociopaths also read my blog post Experienced Knowledge 

Thursday, June 15, 2017

It’s the Bullshit and Ass Kissing that will put you over the top.

Good honest workers are pushed out and BS and ass kissers are favored and allowed to get away with murder...
Mathematics: this comes from 2 math teachers with a combined total of 70 yrs. experience.

This is a strictly mathematical viewpoint...and it goes like this:

What Makes 100%? What does it mean to give MORE than 100%?

Ever wonder about those people who say they are giving more than 100%? We have all been to those meetings where someone wants you to give
over 100%. How about achieving 103%?

What makes up 100% in life?

Here's a little mathematical formula that might help you answer these questions: If:

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

Is represented as:

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26.

Then:

H-A-R-D-W-O-R-K

8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%

And K-N-O-W-L-E-D-G-E

11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%

But, A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E

1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5  = 100%

And, B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T

2+21+12+12+19+8+9+20 = 103%

AND, look how far ass kissing will take you.

A-S-S-K-I-S-S-I-N-G

1+19+19+11+9+19+19+9+14+7 = 118%

So, one can conclude with mathematical certainty, that while Hard work and Knowledge will get you close, and Attitude will get you there.

It’s the Bullshit and Ass Kissing that will put you over the top.

Now you know why some people are where they are!


Friday, May 26, 2017

Why Males Are More Violent

"Abuse and neglect produce equally damaging results in the brains of both boys and girls, but girls tend more to respond with dissociative internalizing symptoms (withdrawal, depression, helplessness, dependence), while boys tend more to act out fight/flight responses (externalizing, impulsive, hyperactive). That boys act out in their play the abuse they experience is a common enough observation. But what is usually overlooked is that boys’ violence is also self-destructive, a real re-experiencing of the hurts and fears they have experienced. You are a “real boy” when you show you do not have fears, when you prove you are not weak. 

“The greater the risk, the greater the proof of manhood. ‘We’ve all got scars,’ one boy proudly said as he rolled up his sleeves to show off his symbols of manhood.” This behavior is baffling to girls: “The girls could not understand what drove the boys to bruise their bodies on the playground so that they could acquire scars to prove their manhood.” But in “playing war,” boys as often “fall down dead” as they “kill others.” 

Reenacting abuse is very much a masochistic, self-destructive activity; wars are fought as much to die and to be mutilated—to be a hero for the Motherland—as they are to kill Bad Self enemies. 

Anything is better than being seen as weak, abandoned, unloved; better to take risks and court death. 

Taking unnecessary risks is why boys have four times as many “accidental” deaths as girls. 

Whereas girls who were unloved as children become depressed and sometimes cut themselves, unloved boys jump off dangerous barriers on their skateboards or become the bullies of the neighborhood and get beaten up by gangs. 

In analyzing violent men, Toch found they all had “been flooded all their life with strong feelings of being weak and insignificant, helpless and fearful.” 

James Gilligan found the violent criminals he spent his life analyzing as a prison psychiatrist told him they didn’t do it because they wanted to hurt people or to get money, but instead said, “I never got so much respect before in my life as I did when I first pointed a gun at somebody.” 

The same motivations apply to warriors: kill others rather than be seen as weak, fearful, and unloved, even if—in fact, because—it is provocative and self-destructive, a re-enactment of the death fears of being a helpless, abandoned, misused child. 

Wars are in truth, self-destructive activities, both in being a dead hero yourself and in killing a Bad Self enemy. Wars—like homicides and suicides—are extremely serious emotional disorders, inner emotional states rooted in the neurobiological consequences of child abuse and neglect. 

As Miedzien demonstrates, the reason why males rob, steal, and kill ten times as frequently as females is “I had to prove that I was a man,” and “involvement in war is a proof of manhood.” -- Lloyd deMause www.psychohistory.com above excerpt from The Origins of War in Child Abuse by Lloyd deMause Chapter 2: Why Males Are More Violent http://www.psychohistory.com/originsofwar/02_whymalesaremoreviolent.html

Comments on Facebook from the sharing of this post:

Steve ThomasAnd yet, it seems that mothers are much more likely to physically abuse children than fathers. Boys are "punished" at much higher rates than girls, which I think provides at least most of the explanation for their behavior down the road. 

Also, the ra
te of domestic violence in lesbian relationships appears to be maybe twice that of heterosexual ones, maybe even three times as much as in male gay relationships. 

Women may be more likely, too, to employ psychological techniques to hurt people, but paraphrasing Andrew Vachss: the only difference between physical, sexual, and psychological abuse is the abuser's choice of weapon.


Jonatan Hansson and the fact is that when men argue, we either resolve it by fighting or we talk it out. Women are more clever (if being more passive-aggressive and anonymous is considered clever). When men are hateful towards each other, we seem to be less anonymous, so everyone can see it.

No one is talking about this. When I was a kid, we didn't have access to all the technology that allows us to be connected to the internet all the time. I can only imagine what it's like for young women today. Women often seem to exclude each other, and it takes years to resolve even the simplest issues.


Sylvie Imelda Shene, I totally agree with you, Steve. And I could not agree more with Andrew Vachs: "The only difference between physical, sexual, and psychological abuse is the abuser's choice of weapon." It also comes to mind the words below by Alice Miller:

"Are women
 Less Aggressive than Men?

In my view, women are by no means less aggressive than men. Of course, they are victimized and disadvantaged by men avenging themselves for the beating they received from their mothers. But women avenge themselves for such victimization and physical cruelty by taking it out on their little children, thus breeding new generations of avengers who consciously love and honor their parents.

I see no real difference between the cruelty of women and that of men, because both sexes have learned such sadism at the hands of their parents and caregivers at a time when their brains were still in the process of formation. As children, they were subjected to cruelty and even perversion, but they were not allowed to defend themselves. So later, they take out their repressed anger on other defenseless people, frequently in the same way their parents treated them when they were small. Women often vent this acquired sadism on their children. While men also give free rein to it by victimizing employees at work or lower military ranks, or else participating in orgies of violence like genocide or terrorist attacks. The causes invariably lie in the repressed and totally denied suffering of their childhood (though most of them will insist that they had wonderful parents). People who were not humiliated, tormented, or beaten in their early years are incapable of sadism.

Women can live out all kinds of covert perversion on their children and torment them with impunity as long as they call this behavior “good parenting.” Society idealizes mothers because people have never consciously realized that their own mothers treated them cruelly when they were small. Accordingly, women normally enjoy total immunity.

I see no sex-specific differences in the suicide bombers. I understand terrorism as an attempt to compensate for the humiliations these people were subjected to, but I have never consciously perceived it as such, by means of a “magnificent deed” (such as sacrificing their own lives for the sake of a group).

Though it is not difficult to understand this dynamic, there are not many people who would allow themselves to give up their denial and look the truth in the face. The fear felt by the tormented children they once were can prevent this all their lives."
From the book “Free from Lies: Discovering your true needs,” By Alice Miller, Page 140


Sylvie Imelda Shene Jonatan's comment also brought to mind the words I wrote in my blog about the property manager, a woman, and how she used psychological techniques to recruit others on the plot to destroy me. The quote below also articulates exactly what the property manager did. Totally, she wanted to kill me! And she got the new guy and the Security Company to finish the job she started. She is talented!!! 

Sylvie Imelda SheneAlso, these words from Dr. Marie-France Hirigoyen from her book "Stalking the Soul: Emotional Abuse and the Erosion of Identity come to mind. Physical violence can be testified to by outside evidence: eyewitnesses, police, and medical reports. With emotional abuse, there is no proof. It's a clean violence. Nobody sees anything."

Steve Thomas, it's terrible you had to go through that, Sylvie. Can't find anything to disagree with in anything you posted. (Though I'm amazed you're able to find appropriate Miller references so apparently easily. Do you happen to know where she discussed Joseph Stalin's childhood? I spent hours trying to find that once, but came up dry.) Cruelty sucks. Life's sad sometimes, sadder than it needs to be, sadder than it should be.

 Jonatan Hansson Women dislike having a female boss in the workplace MORE than men do, study finds

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Women don't even want other women to succeed.

They think. ''We need more women in boss positions as long as it is not my boss.''

Sylvie Imelda Shene, Thank you, Steve! Is nice to see someone out there sees and understands what I went through was terrible and no one should go through psychological warfare in the workplace like I did ... most people cannot comprehend the intensity of what is like having a mob of sociopaths conspiring for your demise, they wanted me to lose my mind, but when was one of her flying monkeys that lost his mind and kills himself after robbing a bank in a police standoff, NOW, they all stay silent and I wonder who is paying the media to never reveal his name, but if it was a poor person from a minority group, their face and name would be blasted in all news stations.  And then all probably go on TV talking about how disturbed the little woman was, making a name for themselves by standing on my head. I could see their games and traps so clearly. I was their target to destroy, but when one of them self-destructed, all became silent, and no one cares that these criminals with their projections and lies -- I lost my job and more than half of my income  -- AND they could have destroyed my life completely. There is no humanity! Most people are all fake and pretenders -- acting as if personality pretending to be good people -- but are wolves in sheep's clothing. I'm done with humanity! 
They do Have Blood on their Hands

Sylvie Imelda Shene Jonatan Hansson, I totally agree with the article you shared. It's very rare that I don't mind working with women. Most of the time, I prefer to work with or for men. And some of my readers who write to me have expressed this sentiment.

Sylvie Imelda Shene Steve, I can't recall at the moment in what book Alice Miller discussed Joseph Stalin's childhood, but I will look for it and let you know as soon as I find out.

Steve Thomas Sylvie, I thought you might just know. Don't go to any trouble. I just remember her account of a violent alcoholic father and an unprotective, religious mother whose funeral he refused to attend. Not a big deal, just that it would be nice to have a source for that if I'm ever in a discussion. Sometimes it seems like you have Miller completely indexed.


Sylvie Imelda Shene Steve Thomas, I just found the link to Alice Miller's readers' mail, where she discusses Joseph Stalin's childhood. 
"AM: Thank you so much for your important letter. The short report of the Independent fully explains the behavior of Joseph Fritzl. In an eerily
 precise way, he has staged what happened to him as a child: His mother was his SOLE RULER, because his father was not there for balance. She has beaten him daily; she owned him completely so that he did not have any helping witnesses where he could have noticed how badly off he was, the more so as she obviously provided conscientiously for his food. He was forced into total obedience and had to bear daily the constant violations through his mother, had to be grateful, too, for the provision of clothes and food, could maybe fulfill small wishes in secret, and was proud of his slyness and inventive zest for lying and disguise. His life happened hidden in secret, like it does now, in the power of the police force. In the same manner, he has organized his daughter’s situation in order to hold up the denial of the suffering of his childhood. His lawyer talks about his “good sides,” just as Fritzl would probably talk about the “good sides” of his mother, who enslaved him as completely as he has now demonstrated it to the whole world. Fritzl has shown the world what can happen later to a child who was TOTALLY deprived of his freedom by his single mother “educating” him with fists by herself, a child who has no witness, who has to be grateful to his, who may never contradict her and who for years impounds secretly wishes of revenge until he can satisfy them years later in a series of rapes of women without ever getting enough. Because revenge does not grant satisfaction and demands, again and again, new restagings. Even vacations in Thailand were necessary for this purpose. If one would ask Fritzl now what his childhood was like, he would probably praise his mother and her care and not yet have realized that he grew up in a prison where his muscles, to be sure, were obviously well-nourished, but where his brain was confused and poisoned through the contempt of his dignity. I can hardly imagine that this single, power-hungry, and brutal mother did NOT use her small son for her sexual wishes and thus only increased the confusion (what is love and what is meanness?) in his brain. In this way, perversions develop, which pose riddles for us if we don’t have the courage to take seriously the childhood histories.
The deduction of the crimes from the denied childhood situation is in no way meant to alleviate Joseph Fritzl’s guilt and to invoke pity. As an adult, he is fully responsible for all his crimes and deserves the greatest punishments for committing them. His masterful skillfulness in deceiving and manipulating the police and other authorities, as well as his extreme sadism, show that he proceeded methodically. So he exhibits strong psychopathic traits. There are hardly any signs for a positive prognosis through effective psychotherapy by acknowledging the truth about his childhood because he is, like every psychopath, not at all interested in understanding himself, only in controlling, misleading, and manipulating others. Obviously, he was also successful in deceiving his lawyer when they talked, who now believes, as an inexperienced layperson, that Fritzl belongs in a psychiatric clinic, not in jail. It would be very naĂ¯ve and calamitous to follow this idea because it would mean delivering Fritzl a giant stage where he could masterfully deceive the staff and fellow patients and thus harm them.". Read more here


Steve Thomas Nice to have a chance to say hey, Sylvie. I *really* appreciate you remembering about that request I made. I'd forgotten myself. But that letter deals with Josef Fritzl, the Austrian who kept his daughter in a basement for 24 years. 

Sylvie Imelda Shene Oh yeah! That's Josef Fritz, and you want Joseph Stalin! Sorry for the mistake. I will keep you in mind.

Sylvie Imelda Shene Steve Thomas, you are right. Alice Miller discusses Stalin in her book: Breaking Down the Wall of Silence, pages 81, 82, 106, 109, 141, 146, 166-67. I remembered now that I published an excerpt on my blog where she discusses a little bit Stalin if you like to read it: "The horror of Hitler and Stalin, and the way in which their deed and ideologies spread across the continent of Europe like a grotesque plague when I was young, taught me what price human being pay ---or make others pay---for their blindness. It also taught me that this blindness cannot be allowed to continue. Young people can today learn the same lessons from Ceausescu’s example and others---above all, that dictators, once they have established themselves, can, with the help of the technical means available to them today, hold into power far longer than they could before and are more difficult to topple without the loss of many lives. Only under the favorable conditions created by Gorbachev’s courage to face the facts, the Rumanian people managed to free themselves from the maniacal and destructive political machine one madman, attempting---and failing---to save himself from the fears rooted in his childhood, had created." Read more here 

Steve Thomas Sylvie Imelda Shene Thank you! I've saved the page numbers, will check them out when I get the chance. My copy was either mislaid or borrowed and not returned, but I bet you've found what I was thinking of.

Sylvie Imelda Shene Steve Thomas, You are very welcome! The page numbers are from the revised edition in the attached picture.


Sylvie Imelda Shene Hi Steve, this morning, the top 10 most-read blogs were a blog that a niece triggered, so I reread it! 
https://sylvieshene.blogspot.com/2011/06/i-will-not-be-scapegoat-or-poisonous.html 


Anyway, in this blog, I shared a little excerpt from the book review of The Untouched Key by Alice Miller: “Why did Hitler and Stalin become tyrannical mass murderers? Alice Miller investigates these and other questions thoroughly in this book. She draws from her discoveries the conclusion that human beings are not "innately" destructive, that they are made that way by ignorance, abuse, and neglect, particularly if no sympathetic witness comes to their aid. She also shows why some mistreated children do not become criminals but instead bear witness as artists to the truth about their childhoods, even though in purely intuitive and unconscious ways.
It is Dr. Miller's goal to encourage these sympathetic witnesses, to lend them support, and to inform them about the worldwide and ignored plight of children, for she thinks that only by confronting the truth that has been avoided from time immemorial can human beings be saved from blind destruction and self-destruction. This discovery is eloquently illustrated in the last section of "The Untouched Key", wherein the story of Abraham and Isaac and the story of "The Emperor's New Clothes" are retold to reveal their profound meaning.” 
https://www.amazon.com/Untouched-Key-Childhood-Creativity-Destructiveness-ebook/dp/B009N989PM/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid&sr 


Here is a little excerpt from the chapter The Emperor’s New Clothes in the book The Untouched Key. “When punishment is held up as proof of love, children are filled with confusion, which bears bitter fruit later in life. If these children become involved in politics, they continue the work of destruction initiated with them in childhood, and they camouflage it by taking on the role of savior, just as their parents did before them. Both Stalin and Hitler claimed that they wanted only to do good. Murder was simply the necessary means to good. This ideology was passed on to them by both parents. If this had not been so, if one parent had served as a helping witness and shielded the child from the other parent’s brutality and coldness, the children would not have become criminals in later life.
Although it is men who make preparations for war, the confusion in their heads is the product of child-rearing practices and ways of treating children that are attributable to men and women of past generations. The absolute power a mother has over her little child knows no limits, and yet no qualifications are required of her. It is therefore of the utmost urgency to examine more closely the effects of such unchecked power. To recognize parental power for what it is, and, through this awareness, to reduce its danger for the future.”


Steve Thomas Sylvie, Thanks

If you'd like to read more about my experience with a mob of sociopaths, also read my blog post Experienced Knowledge 

Saturday, May 6, 2017

Questioning Parents -- The Ultimate Taboo

Dear Sylvie,

I am freaking out a little bit
my body has shown acute, severe symptoms of urticaria, esp in face
swollen all over, red spots, itching like hell
as well as my two underarms...
I know, it shows my inner conflicts so much...
I try to look at it, as honest as I can
and don't take pharmaceuticals, just some homeopathic stuff, tea, bath, etc.

I feel too chased to write more details...
but want to share, what makes me even sicker:

when searching German google version about
"courage to question parents"

then the first result is:
"family relations - how to live reconciled with your parents"

the second result is:
"pdf "concept: cooperation with parents" (text from a school)

the third is: (at least)
"upbringing/ education starts with self-education of the parents)
this is a book written by a couple, which doesn't give the worst impression, but they seem to be as well one of these people, who need success and career for their well-being and maybe not brave enough to really face the truth....but I will give that a better prove, don' t want to judge them wrongful

the fourth search result is an article in a famous German weekly newspaper:
"parents need more courage to confront misbehaving children"

all further stuff appearing from this search is diffuse and not encouraging at all
mostly blaming the child/ teenager anyway...

it is no topic at all, to question parents is a huge taboo...
at least if one looks for a deeper level...
this is the sad truth...

if you feel like publish this on your site, feel free.
might be the same in English speaking google search...

greets from J in uproar...

Dear J,

Thank you for writing. I'm sorry to read you are having a loud witness in your body. I hope you are feeling better today. Like Alice Miller wrote in her book The Body Never Lies: "Inability to face up to the suffering undergone in childhood can be observed both in the form of religious obedience and in cynicism, irony, and other forms of self-alienation frequently masquerading as philosophy or literature.  But ultimately the body will rebel. Even if it can be temporarily pacified with the help of drugs, nicotine, or medicine, it usually has the last word, because it is quicker to see through self-deception than the mind, particularly if the mind has been trained to function as an alienated self. We may ignore or deride the messages of the body, but its rebellion demands to be heeded because its language is the authentic expression of our true selves and of the strength of our vitality."

Yes, your google search is very discouraging and I will publish it on my blog as soon I have some time. Questioning the parents is the ultimate taboo in our society. People's idealization of their parents and childhoods is what keeps humanity stuck in the vicious circle of repetition compulsion.

Just as I write in my book page 84,85 and 86: "I believe that the idealization of one’s own parents and childhood is a major obstacle to the betterment of our whole society. Since so many people believe that their parents are always right, it’s much easier for them to follow other people in power positions, who cast themselves as mother or father figures disguised as educators, healers, cult leaders, therapists, gurus, and government officials. We become extremely vulnerable when we refuse to face the truth about the people who raised us. Someone with a false self is an easy target for exploitation, which can threaten not only individuals but also society as a whole. The only thing that can save us is to make sure that more people are true to themselves. We need more people who can fight the power, starting in their own homes.

Alice Miller describes these individuals as “people who had the good fortune of being sure of their parent’s love, even if they had to disappoint certain parental expectations. Or people who, although they did not have this good fortune, to begin with, learned later — for example, in analysis — to risk the loss of love in order to regain their lost self.”51 According to Alice Miller, these people so appreciate their freedom from trauma and tyranny that “they will not be willing to relinquish it again for any price in the world.”52 When we idealize our childhoods we become just like our childhood abusers and the vicious cycle continues. And we keep holding on to the false hope of eventually gaining love and acceptance from our parents, or from those who stand in to symbolize our parents. Idealizing the people who raised us puts us in danger, physically and emotionally. Alice Miller believes that the body knows our traumatic history and remembers the cruelty we had to endure as children without being able to really feel it, process it and move beyond it in a healthy way.

“… As long as we are compelled to protect our parents we pay our loyalty with our depressions,” she writes. But “…by discovering and understanding the pain of the former neglected child you start to love and cherish him, perhaps for the first time in your life.”53

She expands on the idea in For Your Own Good: “If the tragedy of a well-meaning person’s childhood remains hidden behind idealizations, the unconscious knowledge of the actual state of affairs will have to assert itself by an indirect route. This occurs with the aid of the repetition compulsion. Over and over again, for reasons they don’t understand, people create situations and establish relationships in which they torment or are tormented by their partners or both. Since tormenting one’s children is a legitimate part of childrearing, this provides the most obvious outlet for bottled up aggression.”54 This is how the vicious cycle of repetition compulsion has been going on since the beginning of human history."

You are right, sadly most people fall into the illusions that having an education, career, and money alone -- what they see as "success" as all they need to solve all their problems and for their well-being. These illusions are near to impossible for most people to break free from.


 AM: Certainly, if I knew of some therapists who would be respectful enough to answer your questions; free enough to show indignation about what your parents have done to you; empathic enough when you need to release your rage pent up for decades in your body; wise enough to not preach to you forgetting, forgiveness, meditation, positive thinking; honest enough to not offer you empty words like spirituality, when they feel scared by your history, and that are not increasing your life-long feelings of guilt – I would be happy to give you their names, addresses and phone numbers.


Unfortunately, I don’t know them, but I still like to hope that they exist. However, when I am looking for them on the Internet I find plenty of esoteric and religious offers, plenty of denials, commercial interests, traditional traps, but not at all what I am looking for. For that reason, I gave you with my FAQ list tools for your own research. If a therapist refuses to answer your questions right from the start, you can be sure that by leaving him you can save yourself your time and your money. If you don’t dare to ask your questions out of your fear of your parents, your fear may be highly understandable. However, trying to do it anyway may be useful because your questions are important and by daring to ask them you can only win.

6- I talk so much about the “topic” of child abuse because it is essential and nobody else teaches about this topic in universities. It is still taboo although childhood is the base of the whole life, and the ignorance on this issue is very dangerous for all societies on our planet."
Read more here
Wishing strength and courage and take extra good care,

Sylvie